Why am I not allowed to question your lifestyle?

[Guest]

why cant i question your lifestyle without having my threads being deleted? are you not open to someone questioning your lifestyle, are your that insecure about it?

 

[sweatingbullets]

why cant i question your lifestyle without having my threads being deleted? are you not open to someone questioning your lifestyle, are your that insecure about it?

hi i guess i would like to know what life style you are questioning first of all?

 

[cymbidia]

You may ask whatever questions you like as long as you do so in a tolerant, respectful, open-minded, and kindly manner. We actively encourage intelligent discussion of any and all of the many kinds of BDSM sexuality that exist.

We don't do flaming here. We don't preach and scream at those who do what we would not. If you act in such a disrespectful manner, if your words convey scorn and intolerance, then we will move your posts into the trash cans we keep out back for such garbage.

Please read the sticky at the top of the forum for information regarding our forum rules. Our rules are a bit more exacting here then those found in some of the other forums at Lit, an action that was undertaken deliberately in order to discourage those who would revile us just and only for our sexuality. We've all had enough of that in our lives and won't stand for it here.

Any other questions?

cym
BDSM Forum Moderator

 

[lilfrk]

Any other questions?

cym
BDSM Forum Moderator

I have a question...

Does this mean I'm not the only person that gets their posts deleted? I'm not special anymore...

(please know that I'm kidding...I still think that's really funny and I needed to poke you about it one more time. I'm done now.)

 

[WillowPuss]

why cant i question your lifestyle without having my threads being deleted? are you not open to someone questioning your lifestyle, are your that insecure about it?

hear hear to what cymbidia said .... plus - it would be quite nice if you had a handle/name so that we might address you direct.

 

[Rooster]

why cant i question your lifestyle without having my threads being deleted? are you not open to someone questioning your lifestyle, are your that insecure about it?

Where they intelligent questions, or were you just bashing us?

Yeah ... what Willow and cym said

You get a better response if you have a name.

 

[cellis]

Question away, in an non-judgemental adult way. Remember most of us have taken flack for who and what we are and are very intolerant of that kind of behavior.

And for the god's sake get a name. This is my last response to an unregistered.

 

[CarolineOh]

Posting anonymous criticism of our lifestyle is the internet equivalent of yelling insults out of a speeding car. Why in the world should we feel in any way bound to give it credence?

 

[Guest]

 

[MissTaken]

I don't believe I saw the thread.

Perhaps I did.

In any event, if you have questions ask them.

Feel free to pm me if you have a legitimate question. I will do my best to answer.

As you are unregistered and I don't know what thread we are referring to, I am going to throw out some general comments. Certainly, I am not targetting this thread starter as I don't know specifically what they are talking about.

People, by history, tend to pass judgement at that which they dont' understand or fear. The best response to this is to gain understanding. Wars have started over this premise and many tragedies have taken place because people just dont' understand one another.

If you dont' wish to understand and prefer to discriminate, that is fine. Do it in safe company and away from the victim's of your ignorance.

If upon learning and understanding you still feel that there is something innately wrong with people who practice BDSM or any derivation thereof, fine. I am sure we can agree to disagree as responsible adults.

Anyway....carry on! Have a great day all!

(I am so full of random thoughts this morning, it is scarey! lol)

 

[Cirrus]

Another general comment. For some of us (like me) it's not a lifestyle...it's the kind of sex we enjoy. My involvement in BDSM is limited to the bedroom, outside of it my Dom and I act just like any other couple, because we ARE any other couple. We just both like kinky sex.

Others are different. There are varying degrees of BDSM, dominance and submission as a part of those, and different people like different things.

So before you make a generalization about a "lifestyle" to this group, make sure it applies to everyone that you've chosen to insult. Thank you.

 

[Etoile]

why cant i question your lifestyle without having my threads being deleted? are you not open to someone questioning your lifestyle, are your that insecure about it?

Troll. Just a troll. And a whiny one at that.

 

[cymbidia]

Does this mean I'm not the only person that gets their posts deleted? I'm not special anymore...

(please know that I'm kidding...I still think that's really funny and I needed to poke you about it one more time. I'm done now.)

You are going to dog me with this forever. I know you, girly girl. You'll not be able to resist.



(I think it's funny (now) too. Freaked me way the hell out when it happened, though. But you just go ahead on, darlin'; i can take whatever you're dishing out on this thing!

 

[Lancecastor]

I'd like to question you on your...

why cant i question your lifestyle without having my threads being deleted? are you not open to someone questioning your lifestyle, are your that insecure about it?

...bad grammar, punctuation and spelling.

And...I'll bet deep down inside....you want to be spanked.

Hard.

;-)

Lance "The Doctor is In" Castor
Live...from the rural root.

 

[WriterDom]

Only juvenile nastiness has been removed. I saw it in the Mod queue and it was an unflushed turd. No one missed anything.

 

[Lancecastor]

No threads should be deleted.

why cant i question your lifestyle without having my threads being deleted? are you not open to someone questioning your lifestyle, are your that insecure about it?

BTW....despite your poor written skillls...You are right about the thread deletions, Mr/Ms Unregistered.....all threads within the Rules of the New, Improved Sticky should live in perpetual server-tood.

Now...bend over!
LC

 

[seXieleXie]

Only juvenile nastiness has been removed. I saw it in the Mod queue and it was an unflushed turd. No one missed anything.

except the fascinating conversation between never and i about her avatar

 

[Never]

except the fascinating conversation between never and i about her avatar

Well, yes. But we don't count it seems.

 

[seXieleXie]

i can count! in several languages even!

 

[RisiaSkye]

Re: No threads should be deleted.

BTW....despite your poor written skillls...You are right about the thread deletions, Mr/Ms Unregistered.....all threads within the Rules of the New, Improved Sticky should live in perpetual server-tood.

And it was their failure to stay within the clear guidelines of the forum that led to their removal. Flaming is not tolerated, and that's all that last night's two shit-stirring Unregistered threads were, generalized flames of the most uninformed kind--complete with threats of eternal hellfire if we don't all shape up and go 'nilla. Thus, they are gone, bringing my sum total of thread deletions or moves to four.

(edited for typo)

 

[Never]

i can count! in several languages even!

I say keep the number mounting while the accountant does the counting.

That's it Risia, bitch slap him down. I'd have deleted the thread if I could have; instead I just acted juvenile in return. Hey, it's a plan.

 

[cymbidia]

Thus, they are gone, bringing my sum total of thread deletions or moves to four.

I've got more than you do, nah nah nah nah naaah nah!

 

[Never]

What are numbers anyways?
Other than things that show that cym is a better mod than Risia.. ?

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: No threads should be deleted.

And it was their failure to stay within the clear guidelines of the forum that led to their removal. Flaming is not tolerated, and that's all that last night's two shit-stirring Unregistered threads were, generalized flames of the most uninformed kind--complete with threats of eternal hellfire if we don't all shape up and go 'nilla. Thus, they are gone, bringing my sum total of thread deletions or moves to four.

(edited for typo)

the flaming was uncalled for. i know that, just needed it to be noticed and its easier then thinking for a reasonable way to draw attention. what i can't believe is that i come here to do you a service by informing you that God does not look kindly on the type of things you are choosing to do and it gets ignored. even if those that read it happen to be athiests that does not mean you are exempt from the laws God has handed down through his prophets. God judges everyone and if what you are doing is a sin in the eyes of the Lord you should repent then change so you no longer sin. that and if law enforcement knew what some of you do to yourselves and your partners you would be thrown in jail for assault.

so please heed my message and think of what you are doing.

 

[Never]

Question.

A masochist dies and goes to hell and if hell were defined as being denied what you desire, would they end up in heaven? Would a masochist that God forgave be sent to hell to be lovingly tortured by angels who made certain to respect your limits?