Who was the one who got away?

[Billintulsa]

Do you have someone with whom you would have wanted a relationship (or at least a good night's fuck)? The one who got away from me was a sweet, sexy girl named Kelli. She was so beautiful; I so wanted to be able to wake up to her after a passionate night of sex, but, alas, it was never meant to be. I moved out of the area before we had a chance, and I always look back and wonder...

 

[travelinma]

Mine was Patti. She had to move away when we were both just starting to feel things for each other. We reconnect every once in a while, virtually.

 

[J_Bone]

One I can think of is Kim. Absolutely gorgeous, pretty face, great hair and a killer body. Sweet personality too. Also a "good" girl and wouldn't just let anyone stick their dick in her, which is admirable. Not a prude, but just particular. We spent the night together many times, but she would absolutely still not do more than make out and dry humping. I finally got to the end of my rope and broke it off after about four months.

She was also hands down the best kisser of any women I've ever been with. Always wondered how long it would have taken and what it would have been like had I waited.

 

[PFWilly]

She didn’t get away. She’s been sleeping in our bed for nearly 56 years.

 

[live4thebj]

A friend of my sisters. I was a virgin back then and didn’t pickup on the signals she was giving out. I would have been her boy toy if I knew then what I know now.

 

[flynn99]

In college, there was a phenomenally hot chick who always sat at the table in the front, next to and chatting with the hunk next to her. Of course, I mentally wrote them off as a committed "thing"... and to be honest, at the time, I saw her as about a football field "out of my league" (in the way a college guy thinks). Last day of class, he doesn't show up and I sit in that seat. She and I chat and have a great time. She tells me about seeing her first x-rated movie to write it as a "first experience" paper for English. She confesses to rug burn on her knees. And at the end of the class as we stand up, she says, "I really want to see ___ movie..." and when I totally miss her point, she goes on, "...It's playing at a drive-in so it won't cost you much."

Imagine the sound of a jet passing by at about 100 ft. That's the sound her hints made as they flew at supersonic speeds by my head. Totally, miserably oblivious. Definition of the phrase "cognitive dissonance."

As we parted, I said something like, "Good luck in seeing that movie!" In retrospect: <grimace>

Walking out to the parking lot, I finally replay the conversations and had my "Oh, Shit!" epiphany. I ran back to see if I could catch her. Never saw her again...

Life's opportunities...

(Hey, hot chick -- if by some amazing circumstance you're out there, read this, and remember this event from EPCC, please accept my abject apologies. It was me, not you...)

 

[FreckledSprite]

Due to Limerence I tend to lose myself in relationships adjusting to what they want me to be.

The one who got away was the one I was with as my true self. I was pouring into him in the way that best suited me and he was best at getting me. The limerence caused me to sabotage it.

 

[Melody_Lightdraft2]

An aunt when I was seventeen.

 

[bayoudog57]

It was the summer of 1980 in Harrisburg, PA. I was there for the summer helping with the student program and one of the local churches. And it was there in the college class that I met her – "M".

As my time drew closer to heading back to Louisiana "M" and her friend "L" cooked supper for me one Saturday night I think it was. That Sunday "M" and I sat on the tailgate of the truck I was using. We were just talking about the summer, college, etc. Then she called my name and as I turned toward her she planted a wonderful kiss on my lips, to which she replied “that was real”.

As I flew home, I couldn’t help but ponder that statement as I wondered why I didn't try to extend my stay.

Well 40 plus years later that kiss still haunts me and I can’t help wonder what could have been.

I can only hope she or “L” or anyone she may have told might see this.

If this rings a bell, please pm me.

 

[bayoudog57]

Dang I didn’t mean to run everyone away with my sad story

 

[Tweedledude]

Becky

 

[tristianc]

When I was a senior in high school I met a young woman on-line I fell for her instantly. We spent a year getting one another. She fell for me along the way and eventually had the chance to meet and we took it. I spent one night with her and it was the most romantic night of my life. I ruined it completely and she turned cold to me the rest of our time together. She gave me one of the best orgasms I ever had without sex actually taking place.

 

[Blueeyes4u100]

I had a CO worker who I had a short affair with that I was hoping would continue before she moved away. I think she code you nice because she was afraid to break of her relationship with her husband at the time.

 

[Kolejdayz]

Due to Limerence I tend to lose myself in relationships adjusting to what they want me to be.

The one who got away was the one I was with as my true self. I was pouring into him in the way that best suited me and he was best at getting me. The limerence caused me to sabotage it.

Same experience and she is still in my fantasies decades later. I tried all sorts of things to exorcise her and surprisingly found that when I let my fantasies run wild the experience wasn't so bad

 

[1darknightowl]

A blonde very short at under 5ft Pediatric nurse. We went on a couple of dates with the interest of taking it further but it was nit to be. Partly due to the health board closing hospitals and she was moved twice in that time.

I still think of her. I have attempted to find ger on Facebook or such to see if she married. And I do still wonder what sex with someone a whole foot shorter than I would have been like. Logistics wise.

 

[FreckledSprite]

Same experience and she is still in my fantasies decades later. I tried all sorts of things to exorcise her and surprisingly found that when I let my fantasies run wild the experience wasn't so bad

I can’t. I have to control my fantasies or I get hurt all over again.

 

[Kolejdayz]

I can’t. I have to control my fantasies or I get hurt all over again.

I tried controlling too, but the strain was terrible. Now my fantasy H gives me what I want in the fantasy. She is not the same as the real H, who I no longer spend that much time on. (Although I do hear from her occasionally). Does your significant other know of this person?