Who is Your Refuge?

[juicylips]

Who do you turn to when the bottom falls out of your world?

Is it the same person you go to when you have good news also?


Online or real life.

Tell me.
JL

 

[MechaBlade]

I turn to myself. I curl up in fetus position.

Because no one can help me.

 

[sabbathstorm]

I turn to my best friend (offline) for the good and bad. Sure the online might let me bitch to them about bad days but there's not really a lot they can do to help in most cases.

 

[scylis]

Aaron Lewis.

it's sad enough that he himself connects with his own words, but it's infinently worse that millions of others do, too.

his songs fuck me up and make me feel all numb emotionally, and i thank him for that.

hauntinly beautiful songs they are.

 

[MechaBlade]

whew. For a second there I thought you said Aaron Carter. whew, god.

 

[scylis]

whew. For a second there I thought you said Aaron Carter. whew, god.

oh fuck, just kill me now! better dead than.... THAT!

 

[Debbie]

In real life, my best friend, she's been there for me, and I for her
for nearly 10 years.
Online a few cute, fluffy babes and a certain dude are
good friends I turn to.
And I lub 'dem all.

 

[ToddHwrd]

Who do you turn to when the bottom falls out of your world?

Is it the same person you go to when you have good news also?


Online or real life.

Tell me.
JL

You have been my refuge in the past!! I just have forgotten that lately Thanks for everything Cass

Todd

 

[Xander]

My friends IRL, and a few online.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Male: My husband who knows me more than anyone else in the world and still loves me more than I could ever hope for..... He knows how much my creativity means to me and allows me to travel my minds lenghts with my art and writing..... he is always there to share my artistic ventures and read my writers words....

Female: My closest friend of 16 years, she knows me better than I do... She is one of those people that can just tell by the way I answer the phone that I need cheesecake or I'm horny.... she does not judge me, but just excepts me for who I am. She is a person I love very much.....

And of course my Mum, she has a way of making sence and is not worried if I don't take her advice.

 

[Cupids Fool]

I turn to a couple of people really, my best friend, and my partner.

I also have a few online friends that I talk to alot (good stuff and bad)

 

[Slinky'sWench]

Vivacia, both online and in RL and I love her for being willing to share my joys and tears even at 3am !!

 

[Vivacia]

<hugs Wench> you soppy date!

I am always gonna be there, same as you are there for me hun!

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

I have no real life freinds, so it's online people, and there are a few of them I run to, but not too many

 

[Guest]

I have no real life freinds, so it's online people, and there are a few of them I run to, but not too many

Oh, Fly.....


My RL friends are dwindling like........ things that dwindle. Most have turned into self-centered, drug abusing ass holes whose maturity is backsliding...... New one's I've made aren't much better either

My wife is #1. And online friends, two in particular, possibly 4, are becoming a very important part of my life. I cherish that.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

I turn to my friends (off line) we have known one another since we were in elementary... so they know me pretty well.

I will also talk to my man , he is always there for me when I need him.


There have been times I turn to my online friend Sean but then again he is more then an online friend so I guess he falls into the off line section.

 

[Wiggles]

I turn to my mom and my boyfriend.

They get all the news, good or bad. They're my support center.

I don't think I have anyone that I would turn to online, but there are a few who help me sort out my head. And that is to be appreciated.

 

[alexandraaah]

The two people closest to me: Jim and Jennifer...then my family.

 

[lilfrk]

First...my Man. He's been there for me for 14 years.
Second...David. He's an online friend that turned into an offline best friend.

 

[sexy-girl]

i think everyone can guess who mine is

 

[shynsexy]

no mater what the news is, i call my mom. Next my sister.

 

[Ginny]

my turtle.....he always makes everything right....he calms me...gets me back to my happy place....he's my big lil miracle.....

 

[SilverVeil]

No one really. I left all my friends behind in TX and some of them are kind of "Out of sight Out of mind " as far as staying in contact with me. So off line I am on my own.

I have one person here at Lit I feel I can tell almost anything to. Not totally everything yet, our friendship is still new, but I tell him most everything so far .... and another who is quickly becoming a good friend.

That's about it.

 

[cutie pie]

My best friend. . .I've known her for almost 20 years. . .we tell each other everything and have been there for each other to hell and back. We know that we can talk to each other without being judged, and that comes in handy sometimes.

I have also made a couple of friends here that I know I can go to for support - be it to vent, cry or scream - and they know they can do the same.

 

[hatara]

My best friend in real and my guy.

My parents for some stuff but not all.

Online there are a few close friends I can confide and talk to. Somehow one of them always seems to be online when I need them.