ok, sorry for this all, but I am pissed, just need to vent a little. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. today my hub came home and said there was something on the table for me, it was a carnation (which is very nice, however it was what the church gave to all moms, not from him or my son) This is my sleep day because I have to go into work all night tonight. He went to his mom's gave her the present, I picked out for her and wrapped, said how she loved it. Said he had a rough day with our son in church, was frustrated, didn't feel like taking him anywhere to buy anything. My response was, so? it's mothers day not fathers day.....lol. I guess I can't expect him to teach our son how to treat me right, when He doesn't even know how to treat HIS mother. WHat really gets my goat is, his mom had said of her kids, my hub was the most sensitive and sentimental, he always remembers mothers day and her birthday (right! lol).......ok done with my little rant, writing it out does really help......and it is not all about the gifts, I know that, but he could have taken time out and had my son make a card or something. pick a flower from our garden, a child needs to be showed these things........
who else could strangle their husband on mothers day?
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Golden Eyes
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RANTING
AAWWW KAT
SPECIAL HAPPY MOTHERS DAY FROM ME TO YOU KAT SWEETY 
Not Real Flowers, but the Best That I Could Do
Love GE
AAWWW KAT
SPECIAL HAPPY MOTHERS DAY FROM ME TO YOU KAT SWEETY Not Real Flowers, but the Best That I Could Do
Love GE
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Dear Kat,
I'm sorry your Mother's Day hasn't turned out the way you might have hoped for. And I agree, writing this stuff out does help. But, have you tried discussing this with your hubby? He may not be aware of your hurt feelings, especially if you take care of all the gift-giving for his mom. Men sometimes need to be reminded of the little things that mean so much to us.
You might start out by saying something along these lines. . .
"You know, when it's Mother's Day and our son is too small to buy his own gift and you don't help him out, it makes me feel <insert emotion here>.
I feel as if you are saying <insert thoughts here>.
If I were to wish for one thing next year, it would be <insert hubby's action here>."
I know it sounds a little hokey, but sometimes a little prodding goes a long way.
I'm sorry your Mother's Day hasn't turned out the way you might have hoped for. And I agree, writing this stuff out does help. But, have you tried discussing this with your hubby? He may not be aware of your hurt feelings, especially if you take care of all the gift-giving for his mom. Men sometimes need to be reminded of the little things that mean so much to us.
You might start out by saying something along these lines. . .
"You know, when it's Mother's Day and our son is too small to buy his own gift and you don't help him out, it makes me feel <insert emotion here>.
I feel as if you are saying <insert thoughts here>.
If I were to wish for one thing next year, it would be <insert hubby's action here>."
I know it sounds a little hokey, but sometimes a little prodding goes a long way.
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Oh Sweetie....I do so understand your rant.......husbands are unreasonable most of the time and stupid the other!!!
Mine brought me a stack of plastic plates and cups then crowed about how he got them for only $3!!!!! You have a wonderful Mothers Day.....you sure do deserve it!
Mine brought me a stack of plastic plates and cups then crowed about how he got them for only $3!!!!! You have a wonderful Mothers Day.....you sure do deserve it!
Huggs kat!
A thousand and one roses for all the mom's here that give each and every day to their kids, and yes, even to their stupid and neglectful spouses. May you each have a special moment this day to remember that there is nothing greater than a mother's love. Special thoughts to all the moms out there who are strugggling to make it on their own. I've been there too, and it gets tough sometimes, but there are the many little things that add up to make your lives even more special than you could ever have imagined. Sending special huggs out to Kat for allowing us to share these thoughts with each other today.
~Awden~
A thousand and one roses for all the mom's here that give each and every day to their kids, and yes, even to their stupid and neglectful spouses. May you each have a special moment this day to remember that there is nothing greater than a mother's love. Special thoughts to all the moms out there who are strugggling to make it on their own. I've been there too, and it gets tough sometimes, but there are the many little things that add up to make your lives even more special than you could ever have imagined. Sending special huggs out to Kat for allowing us to share these thoughts with each other today.
~Awden~
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awww Kat!
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY, KAT!!!
http://www.hawaiiangrown.com/bouquets/mothers-day-ps.jpg
Unfortunately, your story is all too familiar; there are many mothers I'm aware of that rarely get a special something on their day!
Best wishes to all the mothers from LIT!
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY, KAT!!!
http://www.hawaiiangrown.com/bouquets/mothers-day-ps.jpg
Unfortunately, your story is all too familiar; there are many mothers I'm aware of that rarely get a special something on their day!
Best wishes to all the mothers from LIT!
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kat-44
so sad and so sorry to hear your frustration.....boys tend to be less than understanding that something so simple can mean so much......don't worry about your son; yea he can follow in the steps of his father, but he can also learn from his mother....my father was less than caring and loving to my mother, but I learned that this was not the way to treat one that you love....so too can he...mothers are the ones that shape a son's heart....through my mother i learned to appreciate and love those that are special....i wish that she had such a life, for there is no more deserving a person than a mother for which this day is dedicated for.....wishing you the best
so sad and so sorry to hear your frustration.....boys tend to be less than understanding that something so simple can mean so much......don't worry about your son; yea he can follow in the steps of his father, but he can also learn from his mother....my father was less than caring and loving to my mother, but I learned that this was not the way to treat one that you love....so too can he...mothers are the ones that shape a son's heart....through my mother i learned to appreciate and love those that are special....i wish that she had such a life, for there is no more deserving a person than a mother for which this day is dedicated for.....wishing you the best
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Re: awww Kat!
See I stole her flowers for you....and if it didn't work here I agree they will not do it if they are not shown...
JennyOmanHill said:HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY, KAT!!!
http://www.hawaiiangrown.com/bouquets/mothers-day-ps.jpg
Unfortunately, your story is all too familiar; there are many mothers I'm aware of that rarely get a special something on their day!
Best wishes to all the mothers from LIT!
See I stole her flowers for you....and if it didn't work here
I agree they will not do it if they are not shown...
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After weeks of reading these boards, I finally found a thread that I had to respond to.
After readinding Kat-44's post, I realized I wasn't thanked for my Sons mothers day gift of an expensive perfume gift set. Did she think He bought it for her?
In fact, I think I'll go to her bedroom, wake her up and demand a THANK YOU (if you know what I mean).
After readinding Kat-44's post, I realized I wasn't thanked for my Sons mothers day gift of an expensive perfume gift set. Did she think He bought it for her?
In fact, I think I'll go to her bedroom, wake her up and demand a THANK YOU (if you know what I mean).
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Happy Mothers Day Kat!!
That does seem very insensitive to me and hope they both do something to make up for it!
Huggggggggggs...AA
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Awwwwww Kat!!!
Sweeyt, sorry to hear that the day didn't turn out as you had hoped.... ((((((HUGG))))))))
Some, and i said Some, men are a bit clueless when it come to things like this. I'm sure your son will learn what is the right thing to do, just let him know what is expected of him.
and a few Licks to make you feel better
And even if they don't...remember IAY!!!!
Sweeyt, sorry to hear that the day didn't turn out as you had hoped.... ((((((HUGG))))))))
Some, and i said Some, men are a bit clueless when it come to things like this. I'm sure your son will learn what is the right thing to do, just let him know what is expected of him.
and a few Licks to make you feel better
And even if they don't...remember IAY!!!!
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thank you all.........and a belated happy mothers day to all you mom's and a thank you to all those caring spoused that helped make their wives mothers day special.
star, good advice and though i didn;t word it exactly that way, I did let him know how i felt, and communication is something i am trying to get him to do, thanks again,
jewelz, thank you, hope yours turned out nice, I agree, what a child makes for you is from the heart and the best kind of present. MY son, made that special card for me today , he had a belly ache and wrote how he lovesme, and how i make him feel better when he is sick or scared, that meant so much to me.
ty, oman,Jenny, bug eyed, always awake, golden eyes, sexy lady, ringo, awden, ohio male.........you all made me smile
MM, thank you, and licks back..............IAY.......
well as a little update, my husband did make up for it, bye 1) staying home so i could sleep (worked nights sunday night) and son was home sick. 2) they cooked dinner together, but most of all that special card my son made for me, oh and some more flowers, lol..........
thank you all again., huggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggs
star, good advice and though i didn;t word it exactly that way, I did let him know how i felt, and communication is something i am trying to get him to do, thanks again,
jewelz, thank you, hope yours turned out nice, I agree, what a child makes for you is from the heart and the best kind of present. MY son, made that special card for me today
, he had a belly ache and wrote how he lovesme, and how i make him feel better when he is sick or scared, that meant so much to me.ty, oman,Jenny, bug eyed, always awake, golden eyes, sexy lady, ringo, awden, ohio male.........you all made me smile
MM, thank you, and licks back..............IAY.......
well as a little update, my husband did make up for it, bye 1) staying home so i could sleep (worked nights sunday night) and son was home sick. 2) they cooked dinner together, but most of all that special card my son made for me, oh and some more flowers, lol..........
thank you all again., huggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggs
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Kat, I'm so happy to hear everything worked out for you and you got the affection you deserve. Hope your son is feeling better soon!
