Who do you think of . . .

[Kandi]

Now, admit it, you sometimes think of someone else when making love to your partner (assuming 'you' are in a relationship that's lasted longer than a Seinfeld spinoff). It's not even like you're cheating, or wanting to cheat. It's just a natural way to keep the fires alive after you've boffed the same person for a while -- your mind wanders looking for fertile ground.

Who is it you think of in those moments?

 

[Ragingbull]

Damn... and I always though that was a secret. Kandi, I could certainly think about that av of yours as I'm pounding my cock into a steamy pussy. Oh my god, those tits. Those powerful legs of yours wrapped around me. Your tight cunt squeezing me. My hands on that firm, rounded ass. The fresh smell of your soft dark hair. Your full lips pressed to mine. My head throbs. You scream. My cock swells. AAAAARRRRRGGGGHHHHH...

I roll off and look over. Holy shit... I just fucked the wrong women.

Sorry if I messed up your thread. Is this an SRP or what??

 

[Kandi]

well, thanks, bull

but before you met my av,
did you have someone in your head
while you fucked your partner?
old girlfriend, celebrity, checkout girl at the bookstore?

and what about the rest of you?

 

[captainb]

Interesting question, Kandi. I think it depends on what my other senses are experiencing. If the lights are on, if I can see my partner, then I'm thinking about her, watching her, getting excited by her actions and reactions. Usually we're talking, not conversation mind you, but telling what we like, how it feels, what we want, etc. That keeps me in the moment, and so I'm thinking about her.

But there have been times when I've thought of other women. If the lights are out I might imagine I'm with someone else who's just a friend but I've thought about privately. This could be any of several women (whaddya want? I'm a guy...) Recently, for example, I was with my mate in the dark and we both had our fingers in her pussy. She was incredibly wet and moaning loudly, and part of my mind wandered away to think, This is how SHE would feel, it's HER pussy and body, HER skin I'm touching...

There have been a couple of times when, for whatever reason (tired, booze, etc) I didn't respond as well as I wanted. In that case, I'd do whatever I could to help, including closing my eyes and thinking of the hot little sister of my best friend.

In general though, I'm excited enough by the one I'm with not to need to think about anyone else. Besides, there's always the concern of softly moaning out the wrong name. Then you can be sure you'd be doing a lot of imagining as you whack away by yourself in the bathroom.

 

[Kandi]

thanks cap

that's the kind of honest answer i was hoping for.
i think it's typical of people in love, that sometimes
the spark isn't there (maybe booze or exhaustion,
but also the ruts of sex with the same partner over
a period of time) quite like we want it to be, and so
we look for the twist to make it different this time.
and who here thinks that THAT is cheating? there
is the danger of calling out the wrong name: we
could have a policy of always calling our lovers
"honey"

i personally don't think our fantasy lover in any
way violates our commitments to our partners.

and i can tell you for sure that the ladies are
doing the same damn thing, so don't let them
get moralistic wit ya.

 

[TheOlderGuy]

of course we do

i'm with you, kandi
i think everyone does from time to time
and for me the test would be:
can i tell her about it?
and i think i could

btw, i could soon be thinking about u

i guess i'll go tell her

 

[Kandi]

thanks olde

from the looks of your av
you're into beastiality, eh?

i'll try thinking of you and your bunny next time

 

[SlyFox]

Well, oddly enough, what turns me on and gets me really hot is imagining I'm someone else fucking my wife. I love watching her fuck another guy and then getting involved with the two of them. Sometimes I fantasize fucking her while she's eating out another woman...

SlyFox

 

[Kandi]

hey sly

well, that's definately an interesting twist
to the question. i like that. i guess what
it really says is that you have a multiple
personality disorder, eh?

 

[SlyFox]

Re: hey sly

well, that's definately an interesting twist
to the question. i like that. i guess what
it really says is that you have a multiple
personality disorder, eh?

Yeah, and they're all crazy as bedbugs. LOL

SlyFox

 

[Kandi]

Re: Re: hey sly

Yeah, and they're all crazy as bedbugs. LOL

SlyFox

LOL sometimes it takes a little crazy
to shake things up..................k