Who cums last?

[naughtoldperv]

Duuh............ I can be so stupid when it comes to figuring out women as it only just occurred to me that my wife [of many years], who always insists that I cum first and she is the last to cum.......... does it for her own pleasure. Maybe there is a little wifely 'duty' to please her man in there, but I'm beginning to suspect that it's her selfish way to sneak in a cum while her pussy is full of my cum.
I sometimes have to beg her to cum first, then let me lick her juices out, but she says that she is too ticklish down there.
What's your experiences and is there any etiquette for who cums first??

 

[carlsnake]

She's first and last

I make sure my wife cums first, and while she is cumming, I fuck her until I cum. If she is still having an orgasm, which happens often, I use my mouth or fingers to keep her going until she finishes. I don't know if it is one long orgasm or a series of orgasms, but she does enjoy cumming!

 

[Jake1945]

Generally my wife always came first. Usually with her on top as she would grind out a series of orgasms (usually 4 to 10) I would try to time it so I came as she was about finished. Sometimes I could just not time it right and she would lie on her side and let me finish from behind. I had to be quick because after she came, she did not have much energy left. In the last few years, she has sometimes wanted me to cum and then make her cum with my fingers while sucking her nipples. That way she can just drift off after she gets off.

 

[naughtoldperv]

Generally my wife always came first. Usually with her on top as she would grind out a series of orgasms (usually 4 to 10) I would try to time it so I came as she was about finished. Sometimes I could just not time it right and she would lie on her side and let me finish from behind. I had to be quick because after she came, she did not have much energy left. In the last few years, she has sometimes wanted me to cum and then make her cum with my fingers while sucking her nipples. That way she can just drift off after she gets off.

I think that we all just want to 'drift off' after cumming [in a perfect world] and most of us want to please our partner as well. Sometimes it happens with that perfect timing when we both have our happy endings at the same time and that's total perfection. It's always fun just trying for that perfect simultaneous happy ending.
And as you say, 'we don't have much energy left after a good cum' and it makes it hard to put your whole heart into giving your partner to return the favor.
Makes life interesting..............

 

[HoldYouDown]

She does.

 

[albertaboy]

I make sure my wife cums first, and while she is cumming, I fuck her until I cum. If she is still having an orgasm, which happens often, I use my mouth or fingers to keep her going until she finishes. I don't know if it is one long orgasm or a series of orgasms, but she does enjoy cumming!

That's sort of our thing, my wife usually comes during foreplay at least once.

The actual sex at the end tends to me fast and hard usually resulting in another orgasm for her.