Who cums first?? you or your wife??

[naughtoldperv]

98% of the time it's me, as my wife mostly insists that I cum and after 15+ years together she knows exactly how to make me cum. She will either speed up the pace of her riding cowboy and i have to slap her nice little brown ass to get her to slow down and make it last and the same holds true when she is giving me a BJ. Then after she gets her way and I shoot my load, she cleans me up with a wet wipe then will get her toy and play until she cums once or twice. It is extremely rare, but beautiful when we do actually cum together.
Did I mention that she is Asian and I think that has a lot to do with her attitude [duty?] about making sure her man cums first IMHO.

Who cums first in your relationship?? and are there any Asians or any guys married to Asians that will share their experiences re: who cums first??

 

[screwher]

Chivalry isn't dead in our marriage. I like to make sure my wife cums first. But there are definitely timed when we cum together. That's always great!

 

[chatdreamer]

More often its me.. but she makes sure im hard again and makes her cum and i get to cum a second time

 

[bicuriohub]

My lady cums first always,sometimes second and third before it's my turn. Once I cum though she still likes for me to play with her with a vibrator for a bit

 

[GD88]

My wife. No matter how much she tries to resist, my cock just does wonderful things to her.

 

[AskMeVic]

My wife cums first

Or not at all usually. I don't like the "not at all" and she's pretty good at letting me know when it's going to be "all about me" so the first statement is 90% true. My wife cums first. My orgasms are 100% better when she does: so it's not like I'm selfless or anything

 

[jakelc]

I prefer her but it depends what we are doing or more importantly what she is doing to me. Sometimes she just likes to make me cum before her, I think she likes to be in charge and control when I cum, especially if she's in a dominant mood.

 

[ADIDAS00]

I would say that most of the time we cum together. My orgasm peaks her arousal and she cums and if she begins cumming first, I end up cumming almost immediately. It's like we're programmed to cum when the other does.

Every now and again, I'll be in one of those moods where it seems like I can go forever and she may cum before me in those cases. Overall, we get each other off nicely!

 

[Bicurious4safeplay]

Almost always her and it's usually within five minutes. It's actually frustrating because the pressure is on. If I'm not ready to cum shortly after she does, then she clearly loses interest and then just kind of gives up and lays there which makes it that much harder for me to finish.

I'm glad that I'm able to make her orgasm so easily, but it's frustrating to watch her enjoy her orgasm so intensely and then not return the favor by even faking further interest in the sex. Before she orgasms, she is like a wild animal. She is moaning, grabbing, talking dirty, riding me hard, or pulling me in deep and asking me to go harder. Then it's nothing, just like a blow up doll that occasionally asks if I'm almost done.

When I cum first or we cum together, the sex is amazing. Unfortunately, she almost always beats me to it.

 

[ldlarry52]

If she cums at all she cums first through oral stimulation. Once I make her cum once orally that leads to several more times, then it's my turn. If I cum first my interest level drops. Also she is not always ready for oral and oral is the only way I have ever been able to make her cum.

 

[newhere2learn]

Almost always her and it's usually within five minutes. It's actually frustrating because the pressure is on. If I'm not ready to cum shortly after she does, then she clearly loses interest and then just kind of gives up and lays there which makes it that much harder for me to finish.

I'm glad that I'm able to make her orgasm so easily, but it's frustrating to watch her enjoy her orgasm so intensely and then not return the favor by even faking further interest in the sex. Before she orgasms, she is like a wild animal. She is moaning, grabbing, talking dirty, riding me hard, or pulling me in deep and asking me to go harder. Then it's nothing, just like a blow up doll that occasionally asks if I'm almost done.

When I cum first or we cum together, the sex is amazing. Unfortunately, she almost always beats me to it.

I share your pain. Identical scenario.

Sex once or twice a year. She cums in 3-5 minutes. The utters the sexiest phrase on earth;

"I'm off for a shower as I hate bodily fluids... Wank if you want"


Hard to believe that a decade ago she was a whore who drained my cock twice a day, every day.

 

[sterculius]

My wife always cums first (and second, AND third!) because sex between us now exclusively involves me eating her delicious cunt until she begs me to stop, after which I masturbate, then eat my cum while she watches. She used to occasionally give me blowjobs, but she stopped doing that long ago. I don't mind really.

 

[PGP09]

I always "TRY" to have us cum together when that happens it is so intense and just an amazing feeling...but try being the key word...that doesn't happen that often...what usually happens as she is getting close she gets very vocal and starts to grind her clit into my pelvic bone...she sticks her tongue deep into my mouth and her pussy starts to clench my cock...that is it ...I am done...I fight it and fight it...but...I usually shoot deep in her then about 3 minutes later she will orgasm ...I've tried every trick in the book to maintain...but soon as her pussy starts to pulse it's to late...she says at that point her insides are so sensitive that she can feel me shoot and pulse in her and with that feeling and with the hot slippery cum in her this drives her over the edge...so if not together me first...it works for us...

 

[newhere2learn]

Only time I cum first, or even with/in her... Is if she's submissive and I take her ass.

2 years since I got to do that.

Her pussy is so slack and wet, that I could fuck it for a week and not cum.

 

[Dreamer110]

My wife. Last night I started up top and worked my way down. She had a very nice orgasm before I mounted her and had my way. No matter what I always make sure she gets off first.

 

[scott6251]

Usually my wife. If we're masturbating each other or performing oral on each other, sometimes she gets me off first. But if we're fucking, she always cums first.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife. I really enjoy getting her to cum first, which usually results in her begging me to fuck her hard.

 

[Dreamer110]

My wife. I really enjoy getting her to cum first, which usually results in her begging me to fuck her hard.

Exactly!!

 

[EricnJulieColorado]

Wife first

Julie always cums first, and last. In fact, she cums a lot. I'll usually go down on her or will pleasure her pussy, clit and ass with my fingers. After she's had one or two orgasms we will fuck, and then I'll go down on her afterwards.

I absolutely love having her straddle my face after I've cum inside of her pussy.

 

[cumuncut]

She always cums first. I try to make her cum at least 3 times before I do. But once we go doggy I don't last too much longer. My kryptonite I suppose.

 

[Klinkster]

I absolutely love having her straddle my face after I've cum inside of her pussy.

There's our trick to multiple O's!
I cum in her pussy, and then go down on her. She cums like crazy, makes me hard again, and we start over.
Cum eat cum repeat!

 

[DJFaninTN]

of course she cums first, then second and then third. then usually I take that opportunity to unload

 

[Myuniversewithin]

I cum first. She reaches to her peak when I cum and she expects more from me. But I can't go for it again.

She won't exicitky mention she wants more but she mentions it is so quick

 

[StormyWindows]

Except for the rare occasion I have always lived by the rule the lady cums first...Usually somewhat easier to accomplish during oral before..or in certain positions.

 

[TheWhiteBull]

Usually her. She actually enjoys only about 10-15min and her end goal is always my cum inside her pussy so she's always working towards getting it as quick as she can.