Who cums first? you or your partner?

[naughtoldperv]

My wife, [being the dutiful Asian wife that she is] mostly insists that I cum before her 95% of the time with her skillful mouth and pussy and then she cums after me with her toy because I'm already spent. I do appreciate her generosity, but sometimes I would love for her to cum first, either on my tongue or in her cunt, but she mostly wants to see/feel/taste my cum shooting in her.
In a perfect world and time, we would both cum together, which is my all time favorite, but only achieved 5% in our case.
Just wondering if other women do the same to their husbands?? and why?
Would love to hear it from the [real] ladies out there.............

 

[Sheana_V]

Usually if I'm going to cum with the person I'm going to cum first. That happens a majority of the time.

 

[Goodguy56]

She does, always.

 

[naughtoldperv]

Usually if I'm going to cum with the person I'm going to cum first. That happens a majority of the time.

You mean that you cum first, then again when your partner cums?

 

[Sheana_V]

You mean that you cum first, then again when your partner cums?

No, I cum then later they do. Sometimes only my partner does.

 

[gabriel16]

She does

I always love her to cum first.

 

[submit4pleasure]

With my man

If I use my vibrator to cum a few times first, I can almost always time it right.

 

[hilton1958]

My wife almost always cums first, but she also almost always has two or more orgasms in one session. Her first orgasm is most often from oral, and her second or third (on my cock) will generally coincide with my first. I purposefully do it that way, because as a guy, I know that once I have cum, I'm pretty much useless to her. Sometimes if we are fucking and I know I am about to cum but I can tell she is still quite far from it, I will pull out and go down on her, rather than expend the single round in my chamber before she is satisfied.
There are also times when she says she doesn't really want to or need to cum, but wants to make me cum, these times often result in her giving me a very nice hand job.

 

[screwher]

Chivalry

I believe chivalry isn't dead. The lady cums first.

 

[Noor]

Me, the woman always comes first

 

[RiverKnight]

Her....if love is a shared passion, then my giving her the pleasure enhances my own

 

[grannykat]

If a guy cums first with me then he definitely has premature ejaculation issues. My orgasms start very quickly and subside only when the guy reaches orgasm and collapses. Older men with medicinally enhanced erections can keep me going forever it seems.

 

[smallpieceofbliss]

My husband always cums first. If I want to cum then I usually have to finish myself off after he's finished

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Either

my wife cums first, or we cum together. I think we're very lucky.

 

[MissJW]

I cum first, of course. Sometimes he doesn't cum at all

 

[Hans101]

My ex was multi-orgasmic and would cum at the drop of a hat. There were times she climaxed the moment I penetrated her. Loved that of course.

Now I'm with someone who has trouble reaching orgasm.

The upside is, SHE'S NOT CRAZY!

 

[tishadomina]

Wasn't there a philosophy that originated in the East where it was considered best for the woman to orgasm first? The name isn't coming to mind immediately but I definitely remember reading somewhere.

 

[LauraJane008]

I come first. Oral or touching often. Then I like to touch myself (fingers or vibrator) while we fuck. I like it when I come again before him or at the same time. He likes that too, but loves it when I carry on after him. He says heaven is looking at me with my fingers in and one me with his stuff coming out of me.

 

[ukbicuriousguy]

I come first. Oral or touching often. Then I like to touch myself (fingers or vibrator) while we fuck. I like it when I come again before him or at the same time. He likes that too, but loves it when I carry on after him. He says heaven is looking at me with my fingers in and one me with his stuff coming out of me.

Lovely image

Back on topic... We're clearly not as organised as some of you because, for us, it depends

 

[Calliesdad2010]

I always make sure my partner chums before i do

hopefully multiple times

im polite

 

[twister947]

I cum first, of course. Sometimes he doesn't cum at all

This. She has learned that denial pays dividends.

 

[BJ476]

First?

Why the ladies of course, i like to see them cumfrom fucking someone then feeding me the remnants.

 

[HoldYouDown]

I usually do. Honestly the less my partner(s) and I think about that kind of stuff, the better the sex is. Sounds counter-intuitive but it works for us.

 

[chargergirl]

I do, unless I blow him 'til he comes.

 

[Skeetertats]

Wife

My preference is for her to cum all over my face first but if she doesn't want that either a hand massager or vibrating dildo does the trick then it's my turn