Who are you missing? (the lonely hearts thread)

[SuperShyGuy]

I thought maybe I'd start a thread for those of us who are apart from someone we would much rather be close to right now. If there is someone you are missing, tell us about how wonderful they are. If you are just alone and looking for a place to bitch about it, do it here too.

These days, I'm missing my lit friend Chem_E Student. I still talk to her through e-mail once in a while, but she only has internet access through work right now and her work's firewall blocks out Lit so she can't join us over the summer.

She is an amazing woman. I don't think I've ever known anyone wuite like her. If I had it my way, we'd be able to chat every day. Getting to hear from her always brightens my day.

So, anybody else missing a sweetie? Or maybe just looking for a place to express frustrations with the single life? Maybe this would be a good place to do it.

 

[fuzion]

let me be the first to post here.


been single for a while and miss having someone there to return unconditional love. i just feel so alone not having someone there....it's worse when I see other couples and how happy they are. makes me realize that i'm not truely happy on the inside. i don't know what to do about it. don't know where to look to find that someone special

 

[tnshygirl]

I hear ya Fuzion.

Same here. I've been alone for awhile now and honestly do know it's better to be alone than to be with someone and unhappy...been there and broke it off because I realized it wasn't making me happy.

But then there are days when I'm sitting here...no one to call to go out with, or stay in snuggled up watching a movie. Can get lonely.

take care, thanks for listening.

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

Where to begin SuperShyGuy????

How appropriate this thread was when I signed onto Lit. You see, I had just hung up from talking to MY-Sir and was feeling the let down I always feel after speaking with Him. As many here know, He's on the other side of the "pond" in England and we don't get to be with one another as we'd like. With immigration laws such as they are both here and in the UK, its not as easy as if He lived in Maine or someplace. In fact, I've had many a rude word with several immigration employees over our policy towards our one true ally. But; I digress.

My-Sir is all that I have ever wanted in a lover and Master. Funnily enough, it wasn't until I met Him and we began chatting that I recongised my submissive tendencies for what they were. I knew I had always wanted to be dominated, but was unsure of exactly what I wanted. He brought that home for me and has given me a most precious gift in His acceptence of my service to Him.

My-Sir not only cares for my physical needs, but meets my mental ones as well. He listens to my thoughts, and helps me to sort out my mind so that I gain a greater insight to how I feel concerning life and all it offers. He and I are on the same page in many matters and its wonderful to have someone who is so like minded to bounce thoughts off of without worring if my thoughts will be rejected. He accepts me for the unique person that I am and appreciates and requests my imput on different matters. I suppose one could say that we mentally stimulate one another.

All that being said, I don't want to give the impression that I top from the bottom. I don't nor do I wish to. I am quite comfortable in His taking control of life and of me as well. I trust His judgement in all things and know that He looks out for my best interests. Its a rare find when one has that, whether we're talking BDSM or "nilla"; it matters not. He is trust worthy and dependable and for me that is such a relief to have. I've had to be independent most of my adult life and this is a most welcome change. I want to give all of that choice over; its easy to do with MY-Sir.

Whew! Seems I've rambled on, and I hope that you don't mind SuperShyGuy. I just had so much to say about MY-Sir. I love Him with all that I have to give, and I count the days until we are able to be together again. Which will be 88, btw.

Thank you for allowing me this space to open my heart and let all know how much I love and miss MY-Sir.


-kym- Longing for His embrace

 

[wildrose70]

The love of my life...My Bobber who thinks I can't handle what he's going thru....and only wants me to be happy.....but not without him....it's very hard to have someone slip out of your life...

 

[Trainerman]

Excuse the hi-jack

How appropriate this thread was when I signed onto Lit. You see, I had just hung up from talking to MY-Sir and was feeling the let down I always feel after speaking with Him.

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Thank you for allowing me this space to open my heart and let all know how much I love and miss MY-Sir.


-kym- Longing for His embrace

I could not let this pass without some comment..short though it must be.

Kym honours me with her words. It must be said though that I could not be me...if Kym wasn't Kym. The things she values in our relationship are valued by me also. We are perhaps fortunate that we seem to have found the person that is the'other half' that we need .

I miss Kym just as much....and cannot wait for September. Roll on the day when I have her in my arms again.....or should that be clutches ???!!

Dave

Sorry for the hi-jack SuperShyGuy

 

[naughtygirl]

Its a wonderful idea for a thread, SSG.

I miss being able to touch, hold, and make love to Nigel. He is my one, my light, my love. He excepts me for everything I am, and everything that I am not, and he loves me in spite of it all. He is wonderful. Im truly blessed.

Its makes it truly difficult to be apart from each other. Even though we have a timeline we are working towards when we will be together always, there are some moments when its incredibly hard. Life has just been rough recently and these are the moments when I wish I could come home to him. He provides me such comfort, even over the phone, but that does not compare to his touch, to be able to look in his eyes, to be able to be lost in a kiss with him. I miss him deeply.

 

[Native Alien]

I am missing him but only because he is busy tonight. I knew that an LDR would be hard and real life intrusions can only make it harder some times. I miss the sound of his voice on the phone, but it won't be long and I will hear that very voice whispering in my ear. For real, up close, and very personal. I think that a large part of the dealing of a LDR is to have a realistic timeline as to when it will no longer be that. When that special someone will be with in my arms and not online or on the phone.

 

[Vinde]

Wouldn't have thought it possible to miss someone you have never met before, but here i am. I'm missing someone i have become very close to in the last couple of months. Closer i feel than i have ever been with anyone else. Not a moment goes by that i don't think of him. He helps me see all the possibilities there are in my life, i don't feel trapped when i'm here with him. The really sucky thing about is that this may be all we have due to circumstances beyond both our control. So i'm left here missing him. Love you Bach.

 

[Yaeger]

I miss three different people right now...I am back from college and in MN. Two of them are in Texas and one is in Oregon.

Sarah is the girl you take home to mom and I miss her more than I can say. I didn't appreciate her until during pledging when I was so sleep deprived and in pain that I didn't know what was up and what was down...and she took care of me despite me having been a complete dick to her. She was the one who was there for me when my grandfather died and she was always there for me.

Erin is the princess...it was the weirdest, yet best relationship I have ever been on, she was truly the only girl I can say I loved.

Andrea a better friend there never was, we partied together so much I lost count. Beautiful girl with a great mind, nothing better than being with her.

So yeah thats who I am missing.

 

[Native Alien]

To wildrose

Rose, I wish I had some words that would make it feel better but I don't. But if you just need someone to talk with about it, I am here most anytime. You can pm me and I will give you my yahoo.

Ladies, do you find that this thing happens often with the men that we love? That they THINK that we can't handle whatever crisis that they are going thru and therefore, try to protect us by leaving us?

Sorry for the hi-jacking of the thread.

 

[SuperShyGuy]

Just wanted to thank everyone who's partipated. I hadn't seen this one on the first page and I thougt it had died after just a couple of posts, but I'm glad some of you found it and had a place to get some stuff of your chests.

In other words, this is just a really long way of me saying...bump.