who are we?

[dolf]

special special SPECIAL
You are joking right????

Most PYL's should go on bended knee and thank their God/deity/lucky stars they have such wonderful worshipping adoring pyls. rofl

oh I am a pyl can't you tell

*bats eylashes at all those 'special' PYLs*

*wonders if folk can tell shy's been spending time with dolfee today*
xx

 

[graceanne]

special special SPECIAL
You are joking right????

Most PYL's should go on bended knee and thank their God/deity/lucky stars they have such wonderful worshipping adoring pyls. rofl

oh I am a pyl can't you tell

*bats eylashes at all those 'special' PYLs*

I was being very very sarcastic, hon. lol No one is more special than me, you know, and i'm a pyl.

 

[shy slave]

I was being very very sarcastic, hon. lol No one is more special than me, you know, and i'm a pyl.

and me i can be special too honest i can

 

[Netzach]

If you insist on being a pyl are you really being a pyl?

or

Are you being a PYL that only thinks they are a pyl

or

Is it something like a PYlyp?

I would say being a demanding pain in the ass bottom who gets her burger her way is not particularly suited to the idea of submission, nor much of a "switch" in orientation.

 

[TigerClaw]

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[TigerClaw]

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[graceanne]

No, just sounds like someone deserving of a spanking or having her favorite things taken away for the night.

I would pay money to see you try to do that. LOL

 

[TigerClaw]

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[FungiUg]

I would say being a demanding pain in the ass bottom who gets her burger her way is not particularly suited to the idea of submission, nor much of a "switch" in orientation.

I can see it now...

"You WILL top me, and you had better do it right or by god there will be hell to pay!"

 

[Netzach]

No, just sounds like someone deserving of a spanking or having her favorite things taken away for the night.

That would be something we put on the warning label as certain to induce highly dangerous and undesirable side effects.

 

[Netzach]

I can see it now...

"You WILL top me, and you had better do it right or by god there will be hell to pay!"

LOL kinda.

Bottom line, I don't do things purely because someone wants me to. That's a nice fantasy on other people's parts, but fundamentally as soon as I sense that agenda creeping into a scene, my bottoming time is over and I call it. We are done.

I am fueled by self interest. If I don't get hit hard enough, I get bored and show it, if I do get hit right I purr and tingle and act very appreciative. If I am going to be tied up, I set out the parameters of what is and isn't going to happen, and if those are screwed with it is unlikely I will ever speak to or play with the person who violated my limits again.

So, the only Tops who have ever really worked for me are usually primarily bottom switches who enjoy using their Top skills to give pleasure to the other. Or Tops willing to do that because they are switchable enough to understand what I want when I bottom, or not caught up in the bullshit of "oooo this Domme is submitting to me".

Because I'm not.

Things like "deserving a spanking" or any type of modification, don't enter into it. Homey don't play dat.

Someone once suggested punishment to me as a way to address a bad habit of mine, and probably to this day wonders why I never let him get near me with a toy ever again.

 

[FungiUg]

It makes perfect sense to me. "Bottoming from the Top" might be a good description of what you do in that case.

 

[graceanne]

Do you think thems was fightin words???? lol

This was the thread I was talking about

aaaaah. I knew you were joking, but just the mental picture of someone trying to spank Netzah . . . . well suffice it to say, I'd pay to see it happen. LOL I could sell tickets I think. It'd be a better attraction than wrestling. *giggles* Ok, I need to get out more, I'm getting just silly.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Now that I have to see.

For the couple of people who have asked.....

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[blue kat]

Now now, I voted PYL. If I feel like bottoming, I'd like to see someone stop me.

looking weird at Netzach Were we separated at birth or something?

Anyway, put me down as a PYL, too. I rarely bottom anymore at all, and the last few times I did, it was because I was learning a new technique. Or in one memorable occasion, because I was trying to teach the girl something! Oh! That was a fun night! But if I did feel like goin' under for someone, I'd just do it, all kidding (and labels!) aside.

 

[Marquis]

P. Y. L.