Whipped

[JoshWinks]

Ok mostly these boards are for posting abot sexual matters well im wondering this: My best friend is SOOOO whipped and hes kind of fed up with it and he told her to stop and hes done all this stuff but shes just too controlling really, anyone have any ideas on this and he wont break up with her either????? NEED HELP QUICK.

 

[Gilly Bean]

Ok mostly these boards are for posting abot sexual matters well im wondering this: My best friend is SOOOO whipped and hes kind of fed up with it and he told her to stop and hes done all this stuff but shes just too controlling really, anyone have any ideas on this and he wont break up with her either????? NEED HELP QUICK.

Ok, for starters, you can't 'whip' a guy if they don't want it. If he is fed up, he has a voice, and can tell her no. If he keeps doing what she wants, every single time, then she will keep getting in a snit every time he says no.

 

[JoshWinks]

Unfortunatly hes already came past that point she gets mad at him just for talking to other girl sometimes, and everytime she gets mad he runs after him and then so goes crazy on him and slaps him and imbaresses him in front of people just to get back and flirt with guys she dosent know in front of him, if it were me i would just dump her but thats just me, what do u suggest??

 

[lilminx]

It sounds like it's just as much his fault for putting up with it. She sounds like a bitch, but he sounds just as bad by not taking a stand. You should talk to him about it and ask him why he puts up with her crap. After that, you really shouldn't get involved- it's a situation for him to deal with, and you can't totally fault her. If someone knows that they can get away with something, then they will often do it...

 

[cyndiesweet]

He must like being whipped if he won't break up with her. Maybe you want him to break up more than he does.

 

[Gilly Bean]

He must like being whipped if he won't break up with her. Maybe you want him to break up more than he does.

-nods enthusiastically-

If he really doesn't like it, he CAN use his voice. Sure, it might piss her off, and make his life hell for now, but if it is a relationship that makes him miserable, and her a bitch, then they shouldn't be together anyway.

No matter how far its gone, she is only a girlfriend, and there ARE others out there. He CAN use his voice, if that's what HE wants.

 

[JoshWinks]

I guess he does like being whipped, like some people r attracted to certian people, im attracted to bitch's, i guess he like girls who r possive

 

[JoshWinks]

Actually as far as i can remember all his girlfriends have been really possive, maybe my theory is correct. (weve been best friends since we were 6).

 

[Natalie Nessus]