Which would be worse?
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510mike
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Depends...both can be extremely pleasurable if done well.
hadahardon
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Denied orgasm. Could potentially lead to blue balls.
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What is a ruined orgasm?
I'd say both can be fun if well done. It's all about the pleasure, the build-up and the endless teasing.
So it depend of the set-up, at least for me!!!
In short you're being jacked and just as you're starting to cum the stimulation is let off. You can't stop the orgasm but with not stimulation all your cock does is dribble your load out. So you've lost your load with no pleasure.
masterslave00
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DENIED! Actually love ruined ones...
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Probably denial, because when one is close enough for the partner to try to ruin it, then one can switch to no-hands techniques and blow their own top.
I mean, not everyone has learned how, but everyone probably is capable of it.
Also because "denied orgasm" isn't a sensation, it's a mindfuck.
I guess mindfuck is the intention behind attempted ruined orgasms too, but you can still orgasm, and have a good one.
I mean, not everyone has learned how, but everyone probably is capable of it.
Also because "denied orgasm" isn't a sensation, it's a mindfuck.
I guess mindfuck is the intention behind attempted ruined orgasms too, but you can still orgasm, and have a good one.
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I don't think that is necessarily being denied anything. There is still pleasure, still that build-up and release. I don't count how far my wad shoots towards how much of an orgasm I have. If the woman is jerking me off, and I cum, I am good. I edge myself to just before that point anyway. If I happen to blow off, so be it. Oops on me...lol
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