Where would you put strap-on+?

[tanyachrs]

The story's got touches of BDSM and some M/M but is primarily hetero strap-on. Anal do you think? Or does spanking and forced M/M automatically say BDSM to you? I think there's a certain segment that likes their strap-on fantasies with those elements but who don't necessarily identify with either BDSM or Gay Male, so I'm torn.

 

[Guest]

I have two F/M strap-on stories in the ANAL category.

If that helps -

 

[OhMissScarlett]

The story's got touches of BDSM and some M/M but is primarily hetero strap-on. Anal do you think? Or does spanking and forced M/M automatically say BDSM to you? I think there's a certain segment that likes their strap-on fantasies with those elements but who don't necessarily identify with either BDSM or Gay Male, so I'm torn.

I guess if it's forced, you could put it in non-consent/reluctance. Or if there's any m/f/m or m/m/f in it, you could put it in group.

 

[cantdog]

I guess if it's forced, you could put it in non-consent/reluctance. Or if there's any m/f/m or m/m/f in it, you could put it in group.

Careful with group.

Group readers want happy, consensual group sex and any coercive stories will sink there.

 

[Boxlicker101]

The story's got touches of BDSM and some M/M but is primarily hetero strap-on. Anal do you think? Or does spanking and forced M/M automatically say BDSM to you? I think there's a certain segment that likes their strap-on fantasies with those elements but who don't necessarily identify with either BDSM or Gay Male, so I'm torn.

I'm not sure what you mean by hetero strap-on. If it is about a woman doing a man, there is only one place it could go. I've never heard of a man using one on a woman, although I suppose he might if he wanted to give her a DP. I have one story something like that but it's actually a butt plug.

I have several stories about a woman using one in a man's ass and they are all posted to "Toys and Masturbation", except one in Erotic Horror. In all cases, the man enjoyed it and wanted more. The only other place I could think of would be in NC/Reluctance or maybe group. It could probably go into BDSM if it was non-consensual torture, or some kind of a D/s thing. Since I don't dig stories of either type, I won't write one.

Edited to add: I suddenly realized you meant "Where does the story go?" not "Where does the dildo go?"

 

[OhMissScarlett]

Edited to add: I suddenly realized you meant "Where does the story go?" not "Where does the dildo go?"

Hahaha. The answer to that will always be "Bend over and I'll show ya."

 

[OhMissScarlett]

Careful with group.

Group readers want happy, consensual group sex and any coercive stories will sink there.

You know, you're totally right. I'd go with putting any forced stuff in non-consent just to be on the safe side.

 

[Alessia Brio]

I'd go with putting any forced stuff in non-consent just to be on the safe side.

That is a very interesting quote ... when taken out of context.

 

[OhMissScarlett]

That is a very interesting quote ... when taken out of context.

Hahaha!

Hmmm....

 

[Boxlicker101]

Hahaha. The answer to that will always be "Bend over and I'll show ya."

Actually, I think I would enjoy that. The men in my stories always do.

 

[tanyachrs]

Sorry, the word forced is throwing people off a little. As a minor plot element, a guy is told to suck another guy's dick and he does. Not much force to it - more like ordering (BSDM type force, not non-consent type force). So maybe BDSM is the way to go though now you've thrown Toys and Masturbation into the mix and I hadn't even thought of that one.

I guess the question for guys who like strap on is: where do you look? Anal or BDSM?

 

[Boxlicker101]

Sorry, the word forced is throwing people off a little. As a minor plot element, a guy is told to suck another guy's dick and he does. Not much force to it - more like ordering (BSDM type force, not non-consent type force). So maybe BDSM is the way to go though now you've thrown Toys and Masturbation into the mix and I hadn't even thought of that one.

I guess the question for guys who like strap on is: where do you look? Anal or BDSM?

Like I said, I put mine in Toys and Masturbation. One example is "The Professor's Dildo" and there are others. You title and description should make it clear that it is a man being fucked, and you should probably include a disclaimer at the start of the story. Some guys think this kind of story is disgusting.