where to start?

[trixy46589029]

Good Day,

I am a 25 year old female sub. I have been interested in BDSM(mostly the bondage and discipline aspects) for eight years now. I have a fairly indepth knowledge of the lifestyle and my needs and desires. My problem however is finding a partner to satisfy those needs. Perhaps "partner" is the wrong word. I am looking for a Dom(or Master) to help train me better understand my submissive urges. In the past I have tried telling my partners(the right word now) how I wish to be taken and how I long to do anything to please them. One took me for granted and I gave my whole heart just to have it broken, while another couldn't understand that I got pleasure from pleasing him. I would like to find someone who is experienced with r/l relationships in the bdsm lifestyle. While begining online is very safe and a great way to start off, I am looking for long-term fulfillment and a real-life relationship.

If you PM me and your message is what you would do to me I will not respond. I want to know the real you. Your likes and dislikes, hobbies and interests, etc. In return I will share the same. I am a very intellectual person and wish to find someone who has an opinion, ideals, and can share a meaningful conversation. I want you to know and understand me on a level that only a Dom/Master can.

*hugs*

 

[Enji]

It's called a mentor. A beautiful start, you may wish to add any physical requirements/ locations, ie not older then 40 and males only?

I'll probally pm you soon, unless you pm me first

Good Day,

I am a 25 year old female sub. I have been interested in BDSM(mostly the bondage and discipline aspects) for eight years now. I have a fairly indepth knowledge of the lifestyle and my needs and desires. My problem however is finding a partner to satisfy those needs. Perhaps "partner" is the wrong word. I am looking for a Dom(or Master) to help train me better understand my submissive urges. In the past I have tried telling my partners(the right word now) how I wish to be taken and how I long to do anything to please them. One took me for granted and I gave my whole heart just to have it broken, while another couldn't understand that I got pleasure from pleasing him. I would like to find someone who is experienced with r/l relationships in the bdsm lifestyle. While begining online is very safe and a great way to start off, I am looking for long-term fulfillment and a real-life relationship.

If you PM me and your message is what you would do to me I will not respond. I want to know the real you. Your likes and dislikes, hobbies and interests, etc. In return I will share the same. I am a very intellectual person and wish to find someone who has an opinion, ideals, and can share a meaningful conversation. I want you to know and understand me on a level that only a Dom/Master can.

*hugs*

 

[TheleHun]

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[Primalex]

If you PM me and your message is what you would do to me I will not respond. I want to know the real you. Your likes and dislikes, hobbies and interests, etc.

Been there, done that.

And after spending an hour writing a long text, you never hear or see the person again. I don't think it makes much sense to answer people with a post count of 2.

 

[Enji]

lol they have to start somewhere..though i do get your drift. Nothing like writing a page long personal reply to that person and they go poof, or no answer

 

[trixy46589029]

thanks

Thanks for coming to my defense Enji! It's much appreciated. Suprisingly you put something like that and still get the response you asked not to get. *L*

 

[Enji]

well the hard part is to keep you talking hope your feeling better with that back injury, write soon

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Hi trixy,

I highly recommend getting out from behind the computer and getting involved in your local community. There are a LOT of real time kink groups out there. To find local Munches, email groups, and events in your area, try:

SceneUSA - http://www.darkheart.com/sceneusa.html

Caryl's Page - http://www.drkdesyre.com/

The BDSM Events Page - http://www.thebdsmeventspage.com/ which has links to both organizations AND events.

SirPaul's National Munch Page - http://phoenixdragon.dreamknight87.com/nmp.htm

And best of luck!

 

[trixy46589029]

local groups

Thanks geoff! Found a couple local groups on yahoo. Some really great people on there too!