Where to go?

[LockedOut]

I'm going to get straight to the point:

My SO and have very few places to have sex.

Neither of us live alone (and not together), and it would be a very large problem if we were found out.

Neither of us have cars, or sufficient funds with which to rent a hotel room.

Sex outdoors (where we've been forced to go for the past year or so) is good enough, except that the weather rarely favors us. Either it's cold, rainy, or full of insects.

Public places aren't our cup of tea, either, by the way.

I guess what I'm looking for is an alternative to having sex on a forest floor somewhere. Somehow, I don't see one, but I thought that it couldn't hurt to ask the friendly people at Lit. :|

Yeah, it's an odd situation, and maybe we're being too picky, but I'm the type who would honestly prefer to make love to her on a bed covered in rosepetals if I could. The sex is fine, but the hard ground is a far cry from romantic. :|

 

[Ravin the Poet]

One thing would be to get the other people out. Don't say your having sex, say something like "I want to cook dinner and have a special evening with her, can you leave us alone for a few hours" and see if you can get parents/roommates/who ever out of the house.


Just my thoughts


Ravin

 

[LockedOut]

Sorry to bring up an old topic, but I was having... password issues.

In any case, though a good suggestion it may be... it isn't gonna work.

Somebody's always around for one reason or another, especially around dinnertime.

As it gets further and further into winter, and the windchill takes us into double-digits-below-zero, it's beginning to look quite a bit like a sexual standstill for awhile...

Guess I'll have to wait it out.

Thanks for the help.

Edit- Upon further reflection, I have NO idea why this thread is where it is. Maybe I misclicked or something while I was browsing more than one section of lit?

 

[done_got_old]

hotel

 

[LockedOut]

I'd thank you kindly to read the first post thoroughly in the future.

Money's tight now, and we don't have the cash to just spend on one night. Granted, one night can encompass quite a bit, but the idea is more looking for a long-term solution.

 

[done_got_old]

I'd thank you kindly to read the first post thoroughly in the future.

Money's tight now, and we don't have the cash to just spend on one night. Granted, one night can encompass quite a bit, but the idea is more looking for a long-term solution.

I read the first post thoroughly. If a few hours comfort isn't worth the price of a hotel room, perhaps you should rethink the issue.

I think there's more than meets the eye here;

Is it safe to ask someone to use their apartment? If you can't afford to be found out, then the answer to that is probably no. The affair seems to be a secret and once someone knows, it fails to be a secret.

There are hotels/motels in major cities that rent by the hour.

If you don't want your affair out in the open, having sex outside is not a good idea. You have no control over your surroundings.

I'm sure you already know the answer to the long-term solution.

 

[Denae]

Perhaps you could borrow a friend's place. A very discreet friend. And of course, bring your own sheets or wash theirs before you leave.

 

[Donsehan]

A room, or if you want you can try dressing rooms in shopping places.

 

[Bridget69]

Why would it be a large problem if you were found out? Do you mean you don't want anyone knowing you're together, or you're afraid of being intruded upon while you're having sex?

 

[done_got_old]

Why would it be a large problem if you were found out? Do you mean you don't want anyone knowing you're together, or you're afraid of being intruded upon while you're having sex?

I think he doesn't want anyone to know they're together.

 

[Donsehan]

Originally posted by done_got_old
I think he doesn't want anyone to know they're together.

I agree with DGO here, but then again I don't see too much reason for that.

 

[done_got_old]

I agree with DGO here, but then again I don't see too much reason for that.

Perhaps you also smell a rat. Notice when our poster was last here.

 

[Bridget69]

Ah, now I understand the need for discretion. I thought it was just a simple matter of lacking privacy.

 

[Donsehan]

Originally posted by done_got_old
Perhaps you also smell a rat. Notice when our poster was last here.

why do I get the distinct feeling that our poster is cheating on someone.

 

[done_got_old]

why do I get the distinct feeling that our poster is cheating on someone.

Because you're smart.

 

[Donsehan]

Originally posted by done_got_old
Because you're smart.

lol, I should really edit my posts, because I gave some good suggestions of what to do.

 

[LockedOut]

Okay. I've got many things to say here, but I'll just start from the top, okay? Okay.

I read the first post thoroughly. If a few hours comfort isn't worth the price of a hotel room, perhaps you should rethink the issue.

I guess it must be nice to be in a situation where you can blow that kind of cash, but as I said several times, we cannot. It just doesn't fit the budget.

Notice when our poster was last here.

I haven't been here because we said "fuck it" and just decided to take our chances having sex when nobody was home. It's worked so far.

I fail to see how my absence indicates I'm cheating on somone.

As to the rest of your posts, don't exactly know what part of "my SO" you fail to understand. Not "my secret lover", not "my affair", but my Significant Other, you know, that one term that implies monogamy not unlike girlfriend, fiancé, wife. Yeah. That one.

I have only been with one woman- Her. Only woman I've ever dated, ever kissed... She is my One and Only. Likewise for Her. We are each other's first and last.

And I resent the fact that you would turn her into some midnight woman that I simply lusted after, or found after I entered an unhappy marriage, or vice versa, or whatever scenario you had going in your heads. Cheating is unthinkable to me, and to be honest, I'm really offended. Like you care.

It IS simply a matter of privacy. I, for one, have a pet peeve about people knowing when I'm having sex. Or being around while we're having sex. Furthermore, we are unmarried currently (both of us are, though we will be married eventually), to the devout christians of the family (read: most of them), finding out through the grapevine that we're engaging in premarital hanky-panky wouldn't be a good thing, either.

But you know what? Think whatever you like. Obviously you've already done that. Hell, if I hadn't clicked the wrong bookmark this morning, I would never have known what you were saying about me.

I remember thinking when I first posted, "The people at Lit are helpful and understanding. They won't judge me because of my odd circumstances."

Guess that was my mistake.

Also, since our problem has been resolved, the mods or whoever can feel free to lock this topic. It's not serving any purpose anymore except flamebait.

 

[DLL]

Okay. I've got many things to say here, but I'll just start from the top, okay? Okay.


I guess it must be nice to be in a situation where you can blow that kind of cash, but as I said several times, we cannot. It just doesn't fit the budget.


I haven't been here because we said "fuck it" and just decided to take our chances having sex when nobody was home. It's worked so far.

I fail to see how my absence indicates I'm cheating on somone.

As to the rest of your posts, don't exactly know what part of "my SO" you fail to understand. Not "my secret lover", not "my affair", but my Significant Other, you know, that one term that implies monogamy not unlike girlfriend, fiancé, wife. Yeah. That one.

I have only been with one woman- Her. Only woman I've ever dated, ever kissed... She is my One and Only. Likewise for Her. We are each other's first and last.

And I resent the fact that you would turn her into some midnight woman that I simply lusted after, or found after I entered an unhappy marriage, or vice versa, or whatever scenario you had going in your heads. Cheating is unthinkable to me, and to be honest, I'm really offended. Like you care.

It IS simply a matter of privacy. I, for one, have a pet peeve about people knowing when I'm having sex. Or being around while we're having sex. Furthermore, we are unmarried currently (both of us are, though we will be married eventually), to the devout christians of the family (read: most of them), finding out through the grapevine that we're engaging in premarital hanky-panky wouldn't be a good thing, either.

But you know what? Think whatever you like. Obviously you've already done that. Hell, if I hadn't clicked the wrong bookmark this morning, I would never have known what you were saying about me.

I remember thinking when I first posted, "The people at Lit are helpful and understanding. They won't judge me because of my odd circumstances."

Guess that was my mistake.

Also, since our problem has been resolved, the mods or whoever can feel free to lock this topic. It's not serving any purpose anymore except flamebait.

ok how old are you?? you sound very young to me...and i dont understand why you cant start a fuck fund so you can at least enjoy a night or two in a hotel room....start putting some cash aside...