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As far as with a date or potential partner, it’s something to bring up when you’re talking about sexual likes and proclivities. I still remember the look on my guy’s face when I brought it up. We had both been on our best date behavior, “we are definitely not sexual deviants, etc” and I asked him if he had any kinks. We looked at each other for a silent minute and he said “Yes, I have some kinks. You?” I smiled at that and we really started talking.
I have found Reddit to be a great resource, Fetlife seems a little awkward sometimes but does have decent events. Only problem is see there is that its so well known that you get a lot of creepy abusive assholes there too.
Back in the day, munches were something you could find listed on Fetlife. I don’t know if that’s still the place to look; it’s been several years since I visited that site. Not sure that munches are happening with COVID, either.
As far as with a date or potential partner, it’s something to bring up when you’re talking about sexual likes and proclivities. I still remember the look on my guy’s face when I brought it up. We had both been on our best date behavior, “we are definitely not sexual deviants, etc” and I asked him if he had any kinks. We looked at each other for a silent minute and he said “Yes, I have some kinks. You?” I smiled at that and we really started talking.
I am new to my area and have no idea how to find others into bdsm, any ideas? I am a submissive.
For everyone on Fetlife who honestly lives and has real knowledge of the lifestyle there are at least 4 other wanna bees or fakes. There are still a sad number of people who act as if its a hook up site. but still the best place to find munches and events (though most have suspended due to the pandemic).
I tried to make one of those for my pen name and felt really bad that I put readers through that. It seemed like a good idea and it was... not very.
I have a strange answer to this though. It’s not a BDSM venue and it heavily depends on what your thing is and where you live, but some places have body suspension circles and those guys are really cool and open minded. It’s definitely not for everyone, but the people it attracts are usually somewhere in the kink world too and have connections. It was a place that came up when I was chasing my dreams of a kef brand, done strike style.
I know someone out here who is amazing at that. I would categorize him as a Top.
Yes, Suspension bondage is just a sub class of bondage... so it is very much a part of BDSM communities.
Back in the day, munches were something you could find listed on Fetlife. I don’t know if that’s still the place to look; it’s been several years since I visited that site. Not sure that munches are happening with COVID, either.
As far as with a date or potential partner, it’s something to bring up when you’re talking about sexual likes and proclivities. I still remember the look on my guy’s face when I brought it up. We had both been on our best date behavior, “we are definitely not sexual deviants, etc” and I asked him if he had any kinks. We looked at each other for a silent minute and he said “Yes, I have some kinks. You?” I smiled at that and we really started talking.
Don’t believe the 50 people here, with no posts, messaging you now to tell you what an amazing Dom they are.