CanuckKitty
Shy but curious
- Joined
- Jul 20, 2023
- Posts
- 26
Where we live, there are only 2 LS clubs (plus something akin to a bathhouse with a not-so-great reputation).
I've looked online for other types of places locally to find people (munches seem to get recommended a lot), but have found nothing but personal ads.
I'm not comfortable to go to a club yet, but would like to meet like-minded people in a low-key way - people that are into the lifestyle, but are ok to just hang out and chat, no expectations.
I feel like I live in a place where this is really behind closed doors and you need to know where to find the right doors. But how? Is FetLife it?
I've read stories about clubs that aren't strictly LS clubs, but where people can play if they want to. Like if a couple wanted to experiment with public play in a safe way, but it's not a full on sex club. Do these actually exist? I think that's something I would be open to trying, if it were a thing. We'd like to explore exhibitionism, but discreetly and safely.
I've looked online for other types of places locally to find people (munches seem to get recommended a lot), but have found nothing but personal ads.
I'm not comfortable to go to a club yet, but would like to meet like-minded people in a low-key way - people that are into the lifestyle, but are ok to just hang out and chat, no expectations.
I feel like I live in a place where this is really behind closed doors and you need to know where to find the right doors. But how? Is FetLife it?
I've read stories about clubs that aren't strictly LS clubs, but where people can play if they want to. Like if a couple wanted to experiment with public play in a safe way, but it's not a full on sex club. Do these actually exist? I think that's something I would be open to trying, if it were a thing. We'd like to explore exhibitionism, but discreetly and safely.
