Where oh where can my fuck buddy be?

Wil_Dohimorher

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Well, I’ve posted on lit personals a few times and changed my criteria to broaden my prospects, but still no luck so far.

I’m male, mid forties, average build and an average cock…well, at least in terms of size. J

I’ve exchanged a pm or two with a few fine folks here on Lit but nothing consistent developed.

I’m a well read person and I have no problem articulating my thoughts or conveying my passion using the written word. Above average intelligence…can carry on a conversation about politics, arts, sports, human rights issues, literature and of course sex…my forte.

I do have a “significant other“, but am not married. Nor am I doing this on the sly. I believe everyone needs their own space from time to time in order to keep in touch with their own identity. I’m willing to answer any questions about my current relationship…there’s nothing to hide there. Any time constraints I have in terms of my online availability are due to my profession, not because I’m doing this behind someone’s back.

I am looking for a woman who is at least my equal in terms of intelligence and communication skills. I would not rule out a real-life meeting, but that is not what I am seeking at this time. First step is to find someone to chat with and let nature take whatever course it may from there. She should (obviously) share my interests, which I will describe below.

I’m not an A/S/L kind of guy and I won’t ask for photos of you. Personal appearance is low on my priority list. Intelligence, imagination, creativity and open-mindedness are the most important things to me. Sex appeal, real beauty and flat out sexiness come from within.

Honesty is also very important to me…be upfront with me and I’ll do likewise.

I’m certain there’s a woman out there who shares some of my fantasies, ideas and sexual kinks. I suppose good things cum (yuk, yuk, yuk) to those who wait, so I’ll keep trying. In the meantime…

My resume:

I have had very limited (real life) bi experiences, so technically I am still “bi curious”…meaning I haven’t actually taken another man’s cock into my mouth and sucked on it. I’m quite comfortable with the label “bi”, I just don’t feel I’ve earned that title…………..yet! J

I mention bisexuality because it is near the top of my “to do” list.

Let’s be clear…I am not Gay. If I were, I’d be fine with that, but I’m not. I don’t profess my non-gayness for fear of association, on the contrary…I love all people regardless of their sexual orientation and that includes heterosexuals, bisexuals, gays, lesbians and republicans.

An MMF threesome is something I’m very interested in exploring as is an MFF threesome…which would of course require a woman who is herself at least bi-curious. Bisexual women are so incredibly sexy. Safe to say it’s nearly every straight guy’s fantasy to be with or witness first hand two chicks together.

My real-life experiences both straight and bi have had a cross-dressing element involved on more than one occasion. I’m not talking full-fledged get-up with wigs and makeup. Just a few articles of lingerie here and there to add an edge and make it that much more taboo. It is one of many kinks I enjoy, but by no means a deal breaker. I suppose I’m more turned on by other men wearing lingerie as I am myself dressing in ladies lingerie. But, it’s all good…I’m open to any and all ideas in this realm.

As much as the thought of sucking another man’s cock turns me on, (and believe me it does) there is nothing I enjoy more than licking a woman’s pussy. Yes…just about every guy on Lit seems to make the same claim, but for me it is a very, very, very special act. It is second only to kissing…yet it is kissing as well.

I approach a woman’s pussy as I do her mouth, in some ways. Tenderness and passion mean everything when I’m licking her wet pussy.

When I’m going down on a woman, I like to be settled in, comfortable…because I plan on being in that position for a very long time. My favorite is for her to lie on the bed with her ass hanging over the edge and me on my knees between her widely spread thighs, allowing my mouth easy access to her pussy and her ass. I love licking her crotch in slow long trails, tracing my tongue from her tight ass-hole to her clit and back down again. I love making her cum in my mouth and just continuing on until she comes again…and again…and again. But I digress.

Kissing…yes kissing. Fortunately I come from good jeans and my lips both through genetics and a 20 year addiction to lip balm have rendered me with “the softest lips I have ever felt” in the words of several former lovers. Kissing can never be under-rated nor underestimated in terms of it’s ability to stimulate your partner and get them horny as hell. J I am blessed with the ability to lay the mother lode of lip-locks on my partner. I am typically a modest man, but I will bet dollars to donuts that I can kiss you out of your panties within 15 minutes. I’ve actually won this bet on more than one occasion. Again I digress.

I enjoy role playing and have as much fun in the Dom role as I do being a Sub. Ideally, I’d like to chat with someone who can also play both roles, but it is not a necessity.

I haven’t experimented with bondage much, but that is something I would be open to exploring. Spanking I think, would also be hot. Mild humiliation in the context of a “cuckold” role play would also be a big turn on I think.

Toys are great and I have been fucked in the ass with a strap-on in real-life. That’s always something I’m willing to explore further.

Watching adult films (porn) is also a big turn on during sex...trying to emulate what the actors (a loose term in more ways than one) are doing is fun.

You’ll find (hopefully) that I am pretty easy going and very, very passionate. I am open to learning and exploring new things. The few exceptions are:

Scat (Hey, to each his or her own, but no thank you, no way)

Animals (Some people take the phrase “Man’s best friend” too far. In my book it’s a form of animal abuse and I have no interest in it and zero tolerance for those who partake…in my opinion they should be prosecuted by the law)

Non-Adults (Must be 21 years old or older…no exceptions)

Pain (Play can get a little rough and that’s ok, however I prefer not to be kicked in the nuts repeatedly or have my cock stepped on with a stiletto heel)

I think I’ve covered enough for now and since I am sipping Brandy as I write, this post could get really, really interesting or head south in a hurry, should I continue to type while under the growing influence of alcohol. No I’m not a lush…nursing a cold and the Brandy helps…J

My apologies for over use of …, “ “ ( ) and smile’s.

Feel free to send me a PM if you’d like to chat. Just because I’m seeking a woman, doesn’t mean I can’t or won’t chat with men or couples…it’s all good.

Peace.

W-
 
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