Where is the Romance?

[Moonlight_33]

From time to time i look through the personals, always curious about people, and sometimes finding someone nice to wright to, but it still seems that the second email ends up being filled with questions about my sexual preferances. not that i make them a secret, i just think there is more to building a friendship then sex.
What ever happened to romance, and adventure, the little things like sending a card for no other reason then you were on their minds, or writing a story, or a piece of poerty.
perhaps i am old fashioned, and overly romantic, but to me it's the little things that make it more real. Anyone can write a smutty letter, but is there anyone left who knows about making a lady like being a lady?
I hope there is, it would be a true shame if it was lost to the world in the heat of a moments lust.

 

[JBroadrunner]

Great change of Pace

This is a refreshing change in this section of Literotica. I have sent you E-mail

 

[AmenhotepIV]

I couldn't agree with you more. In fact, I have some ponderings on the subject that I would like to discuss with you further.

AmenhotepIV

ps I love your site!

 

[YoungGun69]

Problem stems fromt he fact that some people on this board think that everyone is a sex maniac and the only reason they post is to get sex.

If only it were that easy.
Take it easy people. dont be expecting a blow job 5 seconds after you send a post.

 

[Moonlight_33]

Thank you for your suport, it's wonderful to know others still feel as i do. Love and romance are still alive and it's a wonderful thing. Relax and let life be a pleasure.

 

[looking4newu]

I have to agree with younggun, everyone is looking for an easy cyber score. A nice email is on the way. lets talk.

 

[Moonlight_33]

You don't know how good it makes me feel to know there are such nice sweet guys left out there. thank you for your email, i will respond as soon as i can.
Kisses

 

[prettygrneyes]

its about time ....

Yes Im looking for a man that is compassionate and caring and not just looking for sex,I posted a ad about this awhile back and got a few responses and its sad to know that if sum ppl dont see the word "sex" they dont view it ...I like to have safe clean fun at all times ,BUT sex is spl and to be shared between 2 ppl in love ,hmm Til now, I was beginning to wonder isn't there anyone out here that wants Romance too not just sex???

 

[Moonlight_33]

I would much rather have a friend that turned into a lover, than a lover whe trid to become a friend, never seems to work that way.

 

[oldtom]

I just thought I'd add: I am a widower. At various times since my wife's death, I have tried sex for pay. Once the sex was just terrific, but with no emotional support it is ultimately empty.(If you think it's hard as a young person to find a partner - of any type- try it at 58.)
But don't forget these boards are meant for play, and I believe that many of the people posting would never emulate the behavior in real life.


Tom

 

[Firewa11]

So very true

I couldn't agree with you more. All of my friends seem to be completely focused on sex, and build their relationships around that. They always question why I'm 22 and still a virgin, but what they can't seem to understand is my goal is that of an honest, loving relationship.

They seem to think this type of relationship occurs *after* a person has sex. I think that sex is a side-dish, and not the main course. I beleive a woman should be pampered. Flowers, cards, a phone call, etc... all of these are *not* tools to get in bed with a person, they are tools to show that you honestly care. And I beleive in honesty, not ulterior motives.

Anyways, just my $0.02.

-Fire

 

[Moonlight_33]

Bravo Fire, and thank you. It's true, many of the people who are over the top on line would never behave that way in rality. A pc give a little extra freedom of expression i guess, but there is always room for romance. I love a call for no reason, a flower from the front garden cause he was thinking of me on the way past. little things that don't cost ahything, but mean a whole lot.

Thank you again.