Where does a cuckold find his niche?

[adidasv40]

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[spankableBelle]

I'm rather young (or at least i think) for alot of the sexual stuff i'm into. (24/m).

My absolute fantasy to be a slave for a woman. I'm more into humiliation than i am pain. I love feet, and have fetishes about leg/foot wear on women.. and me wearing them myself. I love to be ordered around by women, have them take my ass with toys, to be pissed on by women, I could go on forever with various scenarios i guess.

My main two wants though is to be with a woman and watch her be taken by as many men as possible.. and her ordering me and my tongue to clean up the mess or to participate in other ways. My second want would to be the center piece for a all male bukkake. I have a cum obsession for both mens and women's and i want all that i can get.

I have recently moved to VA, and to get into this lifestyle all by yourself seems rather difficult. I'm far too introverted to go wandering off to clubs on my own.. and i have no one here that knows this about me nor would i want the people i have relations with to know. So where would a chap such as myself even begin to get involved in this lifestyle upon my relocation?

Well, I have nothing to say in the way of help other than to perhaps see if you can find one online to explore with...smiles

But, I will also say...wow! smiles... I love the images your words paint of what you desire to experience. I hope that you find what you seek.

Belle

 

[adidasv40]

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[spankableBelle]

thanks for your kind words. I do find it a bit distressing though. Even personal ad sites such as swappernet (which i do love a great deal) i find have far too much of a "conservative" atmostphere for what i'm looking for. Not to mention that VA is conservative and uptight as hell. All praise the Bible Belt and Southern Living Magazine..

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I love Southern Living Magazine!

There's Bondage.com, Alt.com, Collarme.com...and a host of other 'alternative/fetish' personal sites.

 

[adidasv40]

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[Pure]

excuse my saying it, but the impression is of your wanting a woman and several others to cater to and service your kinks. you want a high degree of control.

if you aren't a rock star or rich or handsome like a young movie star, what exactly are you offering?

the implication I see, is that you'll have to pay $$$.

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

Pure is right. In a normal femdom relationship, what Mistress wants comes first, within the limits both domme and sub have agreed upon beforehand. Men with specific femdom fantasies and kinks go to pro-dommes; fulfilling such fantasies is what they do. (But always remember to be polite and respectful, whether dealing with a pro or non-pro.)

 

[MissTaken]

If you want a meaningful relationship, the key might be to meet someone who is adventurous without giving her a laundry list of fantasies.

Build a relationship and watch where it goes.

It seems to me that paying a Pro Dom to help you live out a cuckhold fantasy would be far less intense than if you were with someone you know well and perhaps care about.

I could be wrong.

 

[bound]

If you want a meaningful relationship, the key might be to meet someone who is adventurous without giving her a laundry list of fantasies.

Build a relationship and watch where it goes.

It seems to me that paying a Pro Dom to help you live out a cuckhold fantasy would be far less intense than if you were with someone you know well and perhaps care about.

I could be wrong.

I agree, I think the whole point of cuckolding is that it's done by someone you care about. Otherwise the cuckolding loses it's zing doesn't it?

Who cares if some person I am paying gets off on someone else? If it's someone I care for though, EEK!

 

[adidasv40]

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[CyberChatter]

hi, long time lurker first time poster but it hit close to home (literally) so i thought i should post:

i too am in VA and just broke up with a girl (for unrelated reasons) that was into a lot of the things you meantioned. we were both into some very kinky things and loved it. now that i am back on the market (so to speak) i am also very worried that i will not be able to find a girl with similar interests. she and i developed into our kink together (neither were into anything special before) and hope that i can find someone like her again. i do have one advantage though. we were both very switch on the dom/sub thing. we both played both sides of those kinks and loved every minute of it. that makes the "demanding" factor go down a bit i think. good luck in you're search and let us know if something happens.

 

[adidasv40]

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[Vixandra]

Try posting a "want ad" in the personals side of the forum, see if you get any "hits."

Okay, excuse the bad pun, but I had to.

Moving along- what you're after sounds like a Domme or a Femdom for the most part. There are Dommes out there that love to humiliate rather then inflict pain upon thier subs. You've just got to be patient and find one with similar interests.

And remember:
A masochist will beg to be spanked.
A sadist will smile evily and say 'no.'

Approching a domme with demands probalby won't get you too far. Though if you're that far introverted you probably won't be making demands, now that I think of it.

I do wish you the best of luck in finding a Mistress to 'scene' with to your heart's delight.

 

[MissTaken]

Thank you for the update, adidas.

You may find, by joining a munch group, you will find other women who want to "scene" once in a while. To be frank, I have found people who want to "scene only" often have other obligations that need thier attention, but wherein they don't get these needs met.

If you and cyber chatter
get to know one another, you might be able to find a discreet group to attend together.

Or, find a group that has an online chat group or message board wherein you can get to know others prior to making your entrance in person.

What you are asking for isn't out of the question, but you may need to be a bit creative in your approach and always be honest.
It will happen.

 

[MissTaken]

Oh, and another option might be that once you are involved in a group, play parties or dungeon nights may be scheduled.

There, you can play, and say "good night" at the end of the evening.