Where do married men who are bi meet each other ?

[CuriousRob]

Happily married but want some bi love on the side. Where do men who must be very discreet meet each other ? I have not figured this one out yet, could use some ideas

 

[Dreamer110]

Happily married but want some bi love on the side. Where do men who must be very discreet meet each other ? I have not figured this one out yet, could use some ideas

I suppose you could find a guy who is single and lives alone. I'm sure there are other scenarios.

 

[martinfs]

There's usually lots of wedding rings to be seen in gay saunas

 

[BInowGay]

Use to go to a Wednesday night poker game with like minded guys.

 

[Trisexualguy]

Happily married but want some bi love on the side. Where do men who must be very discreet meet each other ? I have not figured this one out yet, could use some ideas

Where do you live, Rob? It may be right here You will need to be a bit open about your desires, because like-minded guys can't find each other in a dark closet. You can always use apps like Sniffies if it is used in your neck of the woods

 

[spraybomb13]

Are you in Upstate SC?

 

[Wag_that_tail86]

Where do you live, Rob? It may be right here You will need to be a bit open about your desires, because like-minded guys can't find each other in a dark closet. You can always use apps like Sniffies if it is used in your neck of the woods

Rob, also your Lit profile doesn't say much, perhaps more info might help you connect with someone.

 

[klippert]

I would suggest doing a search to find out if there are any signals Bi Married men can you to find each other in public spaces. or the best options are web sites.. fill out your profile and be absolutely clear what you are looking for

 

[Uncut1969]

would sure like to find a like minded married guy also would be great to help each other out

 

[Britva415]

Happily married but want some bi love on the side. Where do men who must be very discreet meet each other ? I have not figured this one out yet, could use some ideas

A lot of "car play".

Having a boat with below-decks cabin(s) is a nice option.

If you aren't limited to other married guys, just find someone who can host at their place.

Or look for guys who are traveling to your town and already have a hotel room.

 

[phil1955]

Being older, I look for divorced or widowed men who are not dating. They probably are not getting anything except their own hand. You just need to be observant for guys giving a subtle glance and be open to chatting and getting to know them a bit. The last guy I met on the golf course or in the clubhouse. The vibes were there and it did not take too long before we were discussion how frustrated he was. Since he has his own place, we had a good place to meet up.

 

[leftwantingmore]

Being older, I look for divorced or widowed men who are not dating. They probably are not getting anything except their own hand. You just need to be observant for guys giving a subtle glance and be open to chatting and getting to know them a bit. The last guy I met on the golf course or in the clubhouse. The vibes were there and it did not take too long before we were discussion how frustrated he was. Since he has his own place, we had a good place to meet up.

I agree, if you are older, divorced or widowed men who are not dating tend to be more available and more in need.
I have also found a few who say they are bi but are really just looking for some oral satisfaction and then they are gone. That is not being bi. I also look for honesty. That takes a bit of time. But that does not discourage me.

 

[FlirtyWordy]

Being older, I look for divorced or widowed men who are not dating. They probably are not getting anything except their own hand. You just need to be observant for guys giving a subtle glance and be open to chatting and getting to know them a bit. The last guy I met on the golf course or in the clubhouse. The vibes were there and it did not take too long before we were discussion how frustrated he was. Since he has his own place, we had a good place to meet up.

I'd love to about your expertise in some detail. I'd love to be better (or more bold?) in sending/recognizing vibes.

 

[phil1955]

I agree, if you are older divorced or widowed men who are not dating tend to be more available and more in need.
I have also found a few who say they are bi but are really just looking for some oral satisfaction and then they are gone. That is not being bi. I also look for honesty. That takes a bit of time. But that does not discourage me.

I agree you need honesty and I want bi of even a guy that just wants to get sucked off as long as I know that is all he wants. Above all you want discrete.

 

[phil1955]

I'd love to about your expertise in some detail. I'd love to be better (or more bold?) in sending/recognizing vibes.

I think the key is getting to chat with them. Finding out that they are frustrated and then drop a subtle hint or two. I find if you can talk about porn, it can give you some idea of their desires. Even talking about women can get you started. If they indicate that they do not want to get married again and don't need the BS, chances are they would be happy have their cock sucked.

 

[surfdude1]

Happily married but want some bi love on the side. Where do men who must be very discreet meet each other ? I have not figured this one out yet, could use some ideas

I found my bi lover on a swingers website.
We are both married and so discretion is everything.
As luck would have it he frequently come to London on business and we’d arranged to meet for a drink the first time we’d met.
We both decided we wanted to take it further and went up to his room.
We didn’t fuck the first time but lots of kissing and oral.
The second time was a whole different matter.
No initial niceties just getting naked. Getting each other hard, then me on my back with my arse nicely lubed up and wow the feeling of him fucking me was amazing.

 

[phil1955]

I found my bi lover on a swingers website.
We are both married and so discretion is everything.
As luck would have it he frequently come to London on business and we’d arranged to meet for a drink the first time we’d met.
We both decided we wanted to take it further and went up to his room.
We didn’t fuck the first time but lots of kissing and oral.
The second time was a whole different matter.
No initial niceties just getting naked. Getting each other hard, then me on my back with my arse nicely lubed up and wow the feeling of him fucking me was amazing.

That sounds like a lot of fun for you and him. The nice thing about male lovers is that most like to get right to it.

 

[cheetah2]

Use to go to a Wednesday night poker game with like minded guys.

nice , sounds fun

 

[cheetah2]

Are you in Upstate SC?

i visit friend in anderson often

 

[Dreamer110]

In my bed I hope.

 

[TrailerHitch]

Sniffies.com

 

[spraybomb13]

i visit friend in anderson often

I'm not too far from there!

 

[cheetah2]

nice

 

[desertman45]

Being older, I look for divorced or widowed men who are not dating. They probably are not getting anything except their own hand. You just need to be observant for guys giving a subtle glance and be open to chatting and getting to know them a bit. The last guy I met on the golf course or in the clubhouse. The vibes were there and it did not take too long before we were discussion how frustrated he was. Since he has his own place, we had a good place to meet up.

I am one of those guys. but you would never knkow it..my bad i guess

 

[FlirtyWordy]

Sniffies.com

I've noticed that site has taken a big plunge lately, perhaps because of ID requirements?