Where did everyone go?

lots of people are stuck at home with spouses....may not be able to get on without being caught
 
North Dakota. Huge bonfire there. It's BYOB but still...
 
I wasn't getting what I was hoping from here so I'm starting to fade away. The forums aren't really what I remember them to be and I think that's expected probably with the changing demographic.

So now I just check once a day or so but was considering just stepping away entirely after getting a feel for the water.

There seems to be a very specific need here that our wants aren't really compatible with. I did notice, however, aside from that, that the posts were dwindling and there are only a select few that are regularly active.
 
I wasn't getting what I was hoping from here so I'm starting to fade away. The forums aren't really what I remember them to be and I think that's expected probably with the changing demographic.

So now I just check once a day or so but was considering just stepping away entirely after getting a feel for the water.

There seems to be a very specific need here that our wants aren't really compatible with. I did notice, however, aside from that, that the posts were dwindling and there are only a select few that are regularly active.


Changing demographic?

Specific need?

You are making me curious.
 
Oh yeah. I don't know what it is but people definitely relax and open up more.

Flames and fire remind us of our vulnerability and mortality. So, people are humbled and open to interaction.
 
Changing demographic?

Specific need?

You are making me curious.

When we joined, we were hoping to make the right person curious. Instead, I was getting some odd PMs that weren't on topic to what we were looking for and those that seemed to match sort of faded away/fizzled out.
 
When we joined, we were hoping to make the right person curious. Instead, I was getting some odd PMs that weren't on topic to what we were looking for and those that seemed to match sort of faded away/fizzled out.

There can be some odd pms lol.


What I miss are the interesting meaty discussions that were also erotic. Hasn't been like that in a very long time though.
 
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There can be some odd pms lol.

Yeah, I think if you don't even follow what the ask is it's an immediate turn off. Like not to sound like an asshat, but hey, messenger, did you even read my post?

I remember this site being a lot more fun. We even had long time subs that we connected with back when we used to frequent this site that were honest about what they were looking for and were opened to making the connection.

Maybe the changing demographic is that everyone is home and has to sneak around. But damn, that sounds fun to me! haha. I'm just lucky that doesn't have to happen anymore.
 
What I miss are the interesting meaty discussions that were also erotic. Hasn't been like that in a very long time though.

Maybe you just haven't found the right, descriptive personality to keep you entertained ;)
 
Yeah, I think if you don't even follow what the ask is it's an immediate turn off. Like not to sound like an asshat, but hey, messenger, did you even read my post?

I remember this site being a lot more fun. We even had long time subs that we connected with back when we used to frequent this site that were honest about what they were looking for and were opened to making the connection.

Maybe the changing demographic is that everyone is home and has to sneak around. But damn, that sounds fun to me! haha. I'm just lucky that doesn't have to happen anymore.

Definately glad I don't have to be sneaky. There used to be a very active bdsm forum too.
 
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