Where can I meet someone to play with?

[bjhouston]

So... I'm just recently exploring my bi-curious side and have had limited encounters with guys so far. I'm in a relationship and not wanting to change that, so finding "buddies" is a bit more of a challenge. The deal we made was that she doesn't want to know about it or for anyone else to know (family and friends).

Where can I discretely meet guys for fun? I've tried craigslist and that's just frustrating, just a bunch of no show pic collectors. The few guys I've met that are sane are usually married too and can't host so we have nowhere to meet... I'm also not into meeting anyone at a shady adult bookstore or public bathrooms. Just want to find other normal bi-curious guys that are looking to explore this urge that won't go away.

I'm in Houston. Any suggestions?

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Come to Australia

But seriously, I understand your frustration - I'm in the same boat. I'm afraid, "Keep looking" is the only thing I can suggest.

 

[bjhouston]

Ugh... so frustrating. I know there are so many clean and sane guys out there in the same boat, but we seem to be unable to find each other... I just really want a nice hard cock in my mouth from a clean, normal, sane guy like myself.

 

[powerstrokin]

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[J1biboi]

If we weren't so far apart, I know where you could meet someone. But that seems to always be the way it is. Especially living in a rural are like I do. Being in a largely populated area like Houston, you would think it would be easy to find someone to play with.

 

[larrycando]

craigslist

If you post an occasional ad on CL you will have plenty of responses to sort through. Not that you have to meet anyone from those responses, but by having discussions with some of them, you will meet guys who are in the same situation.

Patience. It can happen. And if you make an online buddy, time will come where one of you will be able to host for one reason or another.

To feel the soft but hard head of a dick with your lips is a fine experience worth keeping up the effort. It will happen for you if you keep at it.

 

[Cumalong]

In my area, Craigslist is 99% a bust. The same people have been posting for years, yes, I mean years. The ads change a little, but it's the same people with the same lies. Then there are those that will do anyone at anytime. If you care about being and staying DDF, you can forget these people.

Then there are those that claim to be first timers and looking to scratch an itch. Around 90% of those are lies too. The latest thing is to pretend to be a first timer to get more responses.

I'm not saying there can not be meetings on Craigslist, but be sure to ask the same question at different times, and get the same response. Most people lie about their age and weight. Mature guys mostly want young guys, young guys don't usually want older guys. Those that say no endless e-mails are not picky about who they meet, keep that in mind. They are usually regulars with anyone that will show up.

If you do find someone to meet up with, agreeing to the terms you set, and they start asking for more, they have misrepresented themselves. Proceed at your caution.

Just a few observations from a very frustrated Craigslist surfer.

 

[malan9214]

Hi bjhouston

I live in Houston. Maybe we can talk about someplace to meet?

 

[fzintzock]

same problem in ky

 

[larrycando]

All of the complaints about Craigslist are valid. However, if taken for word, I would have never been able to buy or sell a motorcycle (which I have on several occasions) or rent any rentals out.

Read between the lines. If you post your own ad, you are in control of who you respond back to. Take your time.

Yea, there are craigslist flakes on both sides of the ads. However, being diligent, always be willing to meet in a public place, keep the options of playing or not real and meet some people.

Oh.... and have a hobby in common. If you are a bicyclist.... advertise that. If you like to fish. Find a fishing / suck buddy.

Like to go to car shows? well now that is a good cover for a friend calling, isn't it?

When you develop these types of buddies, the occasional opportunity to host a friend opens up. Works the same for him too.

I ride motorcycles and camp.

Oh yea and put the next closest city in your profile so it shows up when you post. Your friend could live on the same street. Or belong to the same church.

Honest bi guys are out there looking for honest bi guys.

 

[jimmyd1249]

same problem in ohio. If anyone ever wants to chat hit me up!

 

[dluvstoread]

same problem in ohio. If anyone ever wants to chat hit me up!

from Ohio also...same problem.