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[Curvyhotwife]

It's obvious that there are no clean-cut rules when posting a personal ad...
I've learnt that the man to woman ratio on here is something to be desired.
Most of the people here are unhappily married looking to fill that void with no desire to split apart families or ruin homes.
When you've replied to a post there are no said rules that indicate whether or not you should reply to every pm you receive, though let's be honest it would be nice.
Most of the pms I received were either clear cut straight to the point sexual (and yes this is literotica I know)
Or
Started off looking promising and then the second they got the chance they asked me about my sexual preferences.
Hey... I have a high sex drive and I'm kinky as hell but that's a bonus not a pre requisite.
So... I'm honestly looking for something different. A connection or understanding. A friendship. A confidante. (yes I know it's not a dating site)
I'm 37 years old, a mom of 2 married for 13 years.
I'm South African so clearly we will never meet and I have no intention to do so.
If you're keen and you think you can contribute more to the conversation than how big my boobs are, or whether I like it in the ass please message me. Hopefully now that I have a little experience Ill have better chance at finding what I'm looking for.
Thank you x

 

[MatureChattyMann]

It's obvious that there are no clean-cut rules when posting a personal ad...
I've learnt that the man to woman ratio on here is something to be desired.
Most of the people here are unhappily married looking to fill that void with no desire to split apart families or ruin homes.
When you've replied to a post there are no said rules that indicate whether or not you should reply to every pm you receive, though let's be honest it would be nice.
Most of the pms I received were either clear cut straight to the point sexual (and yes this is literotica I know)
Or
Started off looking promising and then the second they got the chance they asked me about my sexual preferences.
Hey... I have a high sex drive and I'm kinky as hell but that's a bonus not a pre requisite.
So... I'm honestly looking for something different. A connection or understanding. A friendship. A confidante. (yes I know it's not a dating site)
I'm 37 years old, a mom of 2 married for 13 years.
I'm South African so clearly we will never meet and I have no intention to do so.
If you're keen and you think you can contribute more to the conversation than how big my boobs are, or whether I like it in the ass please message me. Hopefully now that I have a little experience Ill have better chance at finding what I'm looking for.
Thank you x

Inevitably as in life offline, there will be people we meet here tgat we "click" with and some we don't. Hopefully your patience will be rewarded here some day!

 

[lighterman75]

People come on here for all sorts of reasons. I think in your other thread you were honest about what you wanted. I've "met"some awesome people here, so if you can sort the wheat from the chaff, the men from the boys, I'm sure you'll find what you are after. You mayhave to kiss a lot of frogs first though. Now, are there any more clichés I can get in there?
Good luck.

 

[Ironfan]

Hope you find the grail you're searching for.

 

[Fuzzy1975]

Well when I saw this thread it had 199 views and 3 responses. Frankly I can't understand why a women would even open herself up to asking for PM's, hell I get random shotgun approach PM's from guys, and I only comment on some threads....
good luck...ignore can be a Litsters best friend......

 

[Siilver01]

My response

Sometimes we just need someone to talk to. Someone to talk with. A person, or perhaps, persons to discuss matters that one may not want to say in person. To be able to share ones cares and intimate thoughts and not be responsible for any adverse reaction. Why is it so hard to understand that basically what may be needed by many people is that secret pen pal. A pen pal that has the security of a chat thread, chat room or secret email. That place were private, personal talk is shared only with those who will take the time to listen and understand. And let me say, the breast and booty on any woman is a beautiful thing. There is no need to ask.

 

[Gkj29]

interested

garvkumar613@gmail.com

 

[Studly222]

It's obvious that there are no clean-cut rules when posting a personal ad...
I've learnt that the man to woman ratio on here is something to be desired.
Most of the people here are unhappily married looking to fill that void with no desire to split apart families or ruin homes.
When you've replied to a post there are no said rules that indicate whether or not you should reply to every pm you receive, though let's be honest it would be nice.
Most of the pms I received were either clear cut straight to the point sexual (and yes this is literotica I know)
Or
Started off looking promising and then the second they got the chance they asked me about my sexual preferences.
Hey... I have a high sex drive and I'm kinky as hell but that's a bonus not a pre requisite.
So... I'm honestly looking for something different. A connection or understanding. A friendship. A confidante. (yes I know it's not a dating site)
I'm 37 years old, a mom of 2 married for 13 years.
I'm South African so clearly we will never meet and I have no intention to do so.
If you're keen and you think you can contribute more to the conversation than how big my boobs are, or whether I like it in the ass please message me. Hopefully now that I have a little experience Ill have better chance at finding what I'm looking for.
Thank you x

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Oh, Baby.. You sound like my kind of lady. I am an older guy who loves a hot lady. Would love to chat with you and play. I want to know all about you so please email me back ...I have kik and Skype..I think we could have so much fun playing with each other....

Jim

 

[Replicant2018]

It's obvious that there are no clean-cut rules when posting a personal ad...
I've learnt that the man to woman ratio on here is something to be desired.
Most of the people here are unhappily married looking to fill that void with no desire to split apart families or ruin homes.
When you've replied to a post there are no said rules that indicate whether or not you should reply to every pm you receive, though let's be honest it would be nice.
Most of the pms I received were either clear cut straight to the point sexual (and yes this is literotica I know)
Or
Started off looking promising and then the second they got the chance they asked me about my sexual preferences.
Hey... I have a high sex drive and I'm kinky as hell but that's a bonus not a pre requisite.
So... I'm honestly looking for something different. A connection or understanding. A friendship. A confidante. (yes I know it's not a dating site)
I'm 37 years old, a mom of 2 married for 13 years.
I'm South African so clearly we will never meet and I have no intention to do so.
If you're keen and you think you can contribute more to the conversation than how big my boobs are, or whether I like it in the ass please message me. Hopefully now that I have a little experience Ill have better chance at finding what I'm looking for.
Thank you x

As an older guy, i would be glad to pm with you. All of us need a person to confide in and talk about life experiences. Would love to chat with you.

 

[Taggy1]

It's obvious that there are no clean-cut rules when posting a personal ad...
I've learnt that the man to woman ratio on here is something to be desired.
Most of the people here are unhappily married looking to fill that void with no desire to split apart families or ruin homes.
When you've replied to a post there are no said rules that indicate whether or not you should reply to every pm you receive, though let's be honest it would be nice.
Most of the pms I received were either clear cut straight to the point sexual (and yes this is literotica I know)
Or
Started off looking promising and then the second they got the chance they asked me about my sexual preferences.
Hey... I have a high sex drive and I'm kinky as hell but that's a bonus not a pre requisite.
So... I'm honestly looking for something different. A connection or understanding. A friendship. A confidante. (yes I know it's not a dating site)
I'm 37 years old, a mom of 2 married for 13 years.
I'm South African so clearly we will never meet and I have no intention to do so.
If you're keen and you think you can contribute more to the conversation than how big my boobs are, or whether I like it in the ass please message me. Hopefully now that I have a little experience Ill have better chance at finding what I'm looking for.
Thank you x

I’d love to chat with you

 

[filt]

garvkumar613@gmail.com

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Oh, Baby.. You sound like my kind of lady. I am an older guy who loves a hot lady. Would love to chat with you and play. I want to know all about you so please email me back ...I have kik and Skype..I think we could have so much fun playing with each other....

Jim

As an older guy, i would be glad to pm with you. All of us need a person to confide in and talk about life experiences. Would love to chat with you.

I’d love to chat with you

Gentlemen, attention to detail is king. This lady is no longer a member here

 

[Specula]

It's obvious that there are no clean-cut rules when posting a personal ad...
I've learnt that the man to woman ratio on here is something to be desired.
Most of the people here are unhappily married looking to fill that void with no desire to split apart families or ruin homes.
When you've replied to a post there are no said rules that indicate whether or not you should reply to every pm you receive, though let's be honest it would be nice.
Most of the pms I received were either clear cut straight to the point sexual (and yes this is literotica I know)
Or
Started off looking promising and then the second they got the chance they asked me about my sexual preferences.
Hey... I have a high sex drive and I'm kinky as hell but that's a bonus not a pre requisite.
So... I'm honestly looking for something different. A connection or understanding. A friendship. A confidante. (yes I know it's not a dating site)
I'm 37 years old, a mom of 2 married for 13 years.
I'm South African so clearly we will never meet and I have no intention to do so.
If you're keen and you think you can contribute more to the conversation than how big my boobs are, or whether I like it in the ass please message me. Hopefully now that I have a little experience Ill have better chance at finding what I'm looking for.
Thank you x

PM me, please

 

[Just4AFriend]

I would love to have an idea of how the work looks from South Africa
Pm?

 

[MMM_wms]

Curvy’s new modus operandi

Gentlemen, attention to detail is king. This lady is no longer a member here

Her approach has changed indeed, you are right about that, filt. And it seems to me, in the direction of higher efficiency.

When she was still a LIT member, up thru a month ago, men could send her PMs. And Curvy mentioned 180 suitors who did just that. Myself included; I am known for my gullibility. But wading thru 180 PMs was time consuming, I guess.

But now, gullible men must reply to her out in public, and the way it seems to me, only silver01 has a chance to receive a PM back from her, like I did a month ago. So all in all, a move of Curvy in the right direction. Far easier scanning of suitors for suitability, it seems to me. Bravo Curvy, and better luck to you this time!

 

[Gkj29]

hello

garvkumar613@gmail.com , interested to chat