When you first saw him/her did you wonder...

[Iris]

what they'd be like in bed? Were you right or wrong?

Tho personally I'm single as in not in a relationship I do have a friend who's also my sometimes lover. Basically no strings attached sex with someone we trust - each other.

As I was getting to know him when we first met he seemed a little shy and conservative but very kind. He has the most reassuring smile you'd ever see. I was attracted to him right away because of that and plain and simple he's a handsome guy.

When I thought about him sexually I imagined him to be the gentle and romantic type in bed and I was right. He was actually a little nervous the first time we were together because he wasn't sure if I wanted to be with him in that way or not. Like I would have been there at all if I didn't want to. LOL

So how good a judge are you of people's bedroom personalities?

 

[Guest]

The first time I saw my fiancee I knew she'd be great in bed. She has these big brown eyes that just make melt, great body too. On top of that she's got an amazing personality, buubly, fun, great to be around. She's really positive.

 

[Earthmuffin]

It's been a damn long time.....

I haven't a clue how good a judge I am. I do know that ppl take me for quiet, reserved and prudish IRL. *shrug* They'd never expect me to even visit an adult site much less spend the kind of time here or make the friends I have here. Sometimes the blinders need to be lifted, sometimes they're a good thing.

 

[Chuckus]

I would say I am 70/30 Right to Wrong. Though I must confess that people perceive me alot differently (speaking about my sexual desires, etc...) than the way I really am. Which is good, it keeps em guessing!!!

This one g/f of mine, I thought she would be a prude, but WHOA......she was WILD and I mean WILD (not complaining nor did I)

 

[Guest]

well...
with current love interest, I was DEAD wrong. I thought he would be real aggressive in bed, but it seems like I am the one who always has to make the first move. We have sex maybe (and I said MAYBE) once a week. I need more than this LOL.

and with past ones....

This one man I dated..... the room crackled when he came in. I always felt like I was on fire. And the sex was pretty good. So I would say that I was right with him.... he acted just like I thought he would

 

[SeXy ReDHeD]

I think I'm about 50/50 in my experiences...

My intuitions about the one boyfriend that I've had were correct, though... on the good side.

People definitely perceive me very differently than I actually am. Being that I'm very petite with big brown, angelic-looking eyes (so I've been told) people tend to think I'm very innocent and submissive in bed--little do they know!!

 

[Celestiale]

I think I'm usually quite dead-on when it comes to summing up a potential mate sexually...except for one occasion.

He was just out of his teens (I was 2 years older)...wild, liked to party, liked to play...but when it came time to do our 'thing', he could NOT get it up! What a disappointment! I saw him again a few weeks later and he invited me over but I replied as politely as I could with a 'no'. I just didn't want to face that again!

 

[TN_Vixen]

dead on

mostly I judge accurately. I think people underestimate me, though