When Swinging Goes Wrong

cuminmywife69

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So,

If you've been swinging for very long, it's a good chance you've got a "gone wrong" story. Let's face it, sex is the absolutegreatest thing...ever, and most of the time adding more people can make make that greatest thing ever even more amazing, but not always. My wife and I have been swinging since we were 19 (we're 26 now) and we've run the gamut of bad experiences from couples to single men and women. Sometimes it's just a lack of sexual chemistry or pushing friendships to levels they were never meant to reach. I remember going to work on a day after and exchanging awkward glances with my co-worker because my wife and I decided that he would be a wonderful candidate to stick his cock her pussy and although he talked a big game leading up, he was particularly nervous when the moment quickly came, so he did as well.

The worst experience we've had however, was with a couple who's wife became a tad too clingy. Text messages, phone calls, often and incidental meetings on the street that always ended with a long, one-sided hugs. The wife in question was married to a man who was always out of town on work. We always had great sex with this couple, but the wife was rarely friendly to my wife. In fact if I hadn't watched them in more than a few 69s, I would say there as no chemistry there at all. Anyway, things escalated to the point of this wife showing up at my door when I was home alone and wanting to do things with me without our spouses around, which has always been a 'nope' for us a couple.

This couple finally moved away soon after these visits, but for a little while it was an incredibly uncomfortable situation.

So, what are some of your moments in swinging gone wrong?
 
I've had multiple men convinced that I was only popworld cause I needed the right guy in my life, and that my relationship with my girlfriend somehow wasn't real. So they've caused problems

I can relate to that -- I love my husband but I openly have sex with other guys and with girls. I have so often been told that I wouldnt be like this if I just found the right man. But I have found the right man. I just love being a slut, is all
 
I can relate to that -- I love my husband but I openly have sex with other guys and with girls. I have so often been told that I wouldnt be like this if I just found the right man. But I have found the right man. I just love being a slut, is all

:heart:
 
So,

If you've been swinging for very long, it's a good chance you've got a "gone wrong" story. Let's face it, sex is the absolutegreatest thing...ever, and most of the time adding more people can make make that greatest thing ever even more amazing, but not always. My wife and I have been swinging since we were 19 (we're 26 now) and we've run the gamut of bad experiences from couples to single men and women. Sometimes it's just a lack of sexual chemistry or pushing friendships to levels they were never meant to reach. I remember going to work on a day after and exchanging awkward glances with my co-worker because my wife and I decided that he would be a wonderful candidate to stick his cock her pussy and although he talked a big game leading up, he was particularly nervous when the moment quickly came, so he did as well.

The worst experience we've had however, was with a couple who's wife became a tad too clingy. Text messages, phone calls, often and incidental meetings on the street that always ended with a long, one-sided hugs. The wife in question was married to a man who was always out of town on work. We always had great sex with this couple, but the wife was rarely friendly to my wife. In fact if I hadn't watched them in more than a few 69s, I would say there as no chemistry there at all. Anyway, things escalated to the point of this wife showing up at my door when I was home alone and wanting to do things with me without our spouses around, which has always been a 'nope' for us a couple.

This couple finally moved away soon after these visits, but for a little while it was an incredibly uncomfortable situation.

So, what are some of your moments in swinging gone wrong?

Oh man this is so horrible. A hot wife wanted to have sex with you behind your wife's back. Oh man, I hate when that happens.

I was thinking it was going to be an STD, divorce, death threat from a jealous partner LOL but some hot lady wanted to bone you? That just is not as bad as I imagined.
 
I've never been in a swinging situation. I have had a swinging fantasy. Me and my girlfriend attend a swinger party, and we're surprised to run into my parents. I'd imagine in real life that would be very awkward, but that's why it's a fantasy only.
 
So,

If you've been swinging for very long, it's a good chance you've got a "gone wrong" story. Let's face it, sex is the absolutegreatest thing...ever, and most of the time adding more people can make make that greatest thing ever even more amazing, but not always. My wife and I have been swinging since we were 19 (we're 26 now) and we've run the gamut of bad experiences from couples to single men and women. Sometimes it's just a lack of sexual chemistry or pushing friendships to levels they were never meant to reach. I remember going to work on a day after and exchanging awkward glances with my co-worker because my wife and I decided that he would be a wonderful candidate to stick his cock her pussy and although he talked a big game leading up, he was particularly nervous when the moment quickly came, so he did as well.

The worst experience we've had however, was with a couple who's wife became a tad too clingy. Text messages, phone calls, often and incidental meetings on the street that always ended with a long, one-sided hugs. The wife in question was married to a man who was always out of town on work. We always had great sex with this couple, but the wife was rarely friendly to my wife. In fact if I hadn't watched them in more than a few 69s, I would say there as no chemistry there at all. Anyway, things escalated to the point of this wife showing up at my door when I was home alone and wanting to do things with me without our spouses around, which has always been a 'nope' for us a couple.

This couple finally moved away soon after these visits, but for a little while it was an incredibly uncomfortable situation.

So, what are some of your moments in swinging gone wrong?

If you've had that many bad experiences, I'd question your selection of the people you meet...We almost exclusively have great fun with fabulous people...
 
I can relate to that -- I love my husband but I openly have sex with other guys and with girls. I have so often been told that I wouldnt be like this if I just found the right man. But I have found the right man. I just love being a slut, is all

Amen......

He has gotten the same. He needs the right woman. HELLO, the right woman brings other women home for him (and her) to fuck. LOL
 
Not so long ago, I had a dedicated stalker for myself. It was...a very depressing experience for me. Me and my other half used to engage in threesomes until that incident. Now I can't even think about doing it with some other guy without feeling nauseous.
 
There have been two memorable times that have gone wrong.

Girlfriend (at the time) and I met a couple, things seemed to be going fine at first, and then I startef getting a sense that they weren't for us, she leaned in and whispered in my ear "oh hell no, they are giving me the creeps". So we politely excused ourselves and went on about the party. My girlfriend started chatting up a woman that had come to the party alone, I went to refresh drinks, and when I returned, the guy from the couple was giving my girlfriend hell for blowing them off. I was trying to diffuse the situation, when the host couple came up, and threw us all out. Including the woman that my girlfriend was talking to. So outside, as we are going to our cars, I invite the woman out for a drink, she accepts, then the woman of the couple goes off about that woman being a whore. Anyway we left, met the other woman for drinks, had a great time with her. Never saw that couple again.

Then there was the woman from hell. She had a thing for my girlfriend, and she was clingy, and just a complete pain in the ass. Remember the show friends? Chandler's girlfriend? She talked and laughed just like her. One day I had had enough of this woman, and my inner demon had come out, needless to say I made a complete ass out of myself, and told this woman off, sent herhome crying. Well my girlfriend in turn chewed me out for being an asshole. In the end her and I broke up, we still talk on occasion, but we have both moved on.
 
Oh man this is so horrible. A hot wife wanted to have sex with you behind your wife's back. Oh man, I hate when that happens.

I was thinking it was going to be an STD, divorce, death threat from a jealous partner LOL but some hot lady wanted to bone you? That just is not as bad as I imagined.

She didn't just want to bone him, she was stalking him and trying to wedge herself between a married couple. That's more than a nuisance.
 
I've never been in a swinging situation. I have had a swinging fantasy. Me and my girlfriend attend a swinger party, and we're surprised to run into my parents. I'd imagine in real life that would be very awkward, but that's why it's a fantasy only.

That would certainly be a mood killer for me.
 
Oh man this is so horrible. A hot wife wanted to have sex with you behind your wife's back. Oh man, I hate when that happens.

I was thinking it was going to be an STD, divorce, death threat from a jealous partner LOL but some hot lady wanted to bone you? That just is not as bad as I imagined.
Maybe he has a pet bunny that he loves very much?
 
The shortened version is we were all naked, mom was on a bed with a young black guy, mom's husband got behind me without a condom, my husband got on the bed with my mom after the black guy finished.

Strange, surreal, weird ---- and fun.

Continued since in private mostly. Occasionally mom and I have gone out together.
I love the concept. Can not imagine it happening to me but I am pretty sure I would encourage my partner to go fuck my mother.
 
We got into this lifestyle in our 60's so not star eyed kids. We did not start out with swapping but more of a hotwife thing. More recently I have been introduced into a group of swingers and it is an older group that has been into it for quite a few years. With the hotwife scene, I felt that one of the men was growing a bit closer than I thought he should. I did not become a problem but I think the potential was there if I did not stay on top of things. Just an opinion but I think there might be less problems when older people get into the lifestyle.
 
The shortened version is we were all naked, mom was on a bed with a young black guy, mom's husband got behind me without a condom, my husband got on the bed with my mom after the black guy finished.

Strange, surreal, weird ---- and fun.

Continued since in private mostly. Occasionally mom and I have gone out together.
I read this and actually caught my jaw dropping! OMG! Surreal for sure! HOT, definitely!
 
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