When I cum??

[juicyloosey]

When I cum or close to cum or have an orgasam I feel like I have to pee. So I tell my boyfriend to stop. Is this natural or is there something wrong with me. Please will people respond to this, because it really gets me worried. Plus, sometimes when he touches me down there it hurts but feels good is that supposed to happen? In feedback would be helpful....

 

[Weird Harold]

...I feel like I have to pee. ... Is this natural or is there something wrong with me. ... Plus, sometimes when he touches me down there it hurts but feels good is that supposed to happen?

What you describe, is almost exactly the way most women who ejaculate (squirt) describe approaching orgasms. The following threads are just a few that discussing "squirting."

Your last problem is both a problem and not a problem...

It's a problem if the BF is being clumsy and/or not spreading your natural lube around and chafing tender skin. If he's rubbing you raw, that's NOT a good thing!

It's not a problem if it "hurts" because you're too sensitive because you're close to orgasm or just post-orgasm. Sometimes, going past that little "pain" of being too sensitive can result in a bigger orgasm.

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=70892&highlight=squirt*

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=93469&highlight=squirt*

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=82543&highlight=squirt*

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=73750

 

[juicyloosey]

Thank you for replying I thought there was something abnormal about me.

 

[Lust Engine]

Thank you for replying I thought there was something abnormal about me.

I'd say you're hardly abnormal in here. It takes all kinds and as far as I'm concerned, you just happen to add a wee bit more spice to our stew here!

 

[ApplesMcgee]

really...

The best thing to do is continue to have sex. For many women that urge to pee is a sign that their body is nearing a climax and/or want sto cum.

I also am told by women that cumming after experiencing that feeling is much mroe intense.

PowrDragn

 

[JasonBe]

I'm a man and I have to pee after I cum. Like almost immediately i need to run to the bathroom to pee. Whats that all about?


Jason

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I'm a man and I have to pee after I cum. Like almost immediately i need to run to the bathroom to pee. Whats that all about?


Jason

I think it sounds like a PC muscle thing, but I wouldn't know. How about peeing before you have sex?

 

[Rod Hardwick]

This has happened to my wife sometimes, too. Actually, once she accidently peed on me while we were having sex...I know it was an accident, because we don't share that particular fetish. Thankfully we were in the kitchen at the time (tile floors and all that). Anyway, a weak bladder control condition of some kind runs in her family, but I forget the name of it. Your feelings may be an indicator of that, but I'm no medical man in the doctorin' business, so don't take my word for it. Next time you're in for a check-up, ask your doctor about it.

 

[apmadox]

I'm a man and I have to pee after I cum. Like almost immediately i need to run to the bathroom to pee. Whats that all about?

For a guy, the urethra is the vessel for both sperm and urine. When he is aroused, the urethra opens to semen and closes to urine, which is why it is very difficult, if not impossible, for him to pee when he has a full erection.

If he's been hard for a long time, he may be holding back the urine, so after he comes, the need to release the bladder comes back with a vengeance. OTOH, the stimulation to the penis is much more intense (at least for me) when I feel that pressure from the bladder.

 

[Cirrus]

juicyloosey, sounds normal to me. For every woman the sensation is different. Keep going...my guess is you'll have a great orgasm, and won't actually pee. I've heard stimulation on the G Spot can feel like you have to pee...that might be the case with you too.

Jason, I'm a lady, and even if I pee before sex, I have to pee after as well. Whether I orgasm or not doesn't seem to make a difference. I don't have a bladder or any other infection, it just must be a quirk of my body. If you don't have any infections or anything, you're probably just like that too.

 

[Dr.O]

Keep in mind though if you are one of the few that does squirt, it's not peeing.. You will know generally by the texture of it.. But worry not and go with it, you never know what will happen..

Open minds lead to the most exquisette experiences. How do you think the BJ was thought up..

 

[Native Alien]

just put a towel in under you and let go. see what happens and i tend to agree with you Dr.O. plus i am like Cirrus in that i have to get up and go immediately after a orgasm.

 

[Elizabeth]

I always have to get up and pee after sex BUT it seems really difficult to even go after orgasm. Does anyone else have that problem. Doesn't matter if I'm having intercourse or masturbating.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Re: Re: When I cum??

What you describe, is almost exactly the way most women who ejaculate (squirt) describe approaching orgasms. The following threads are just a few that discussing "squirting."

Your last problem is both a problem and not a problem...

It's a problem if the BF is being clumsy and/or not spreading your natural lube around and chafing tender skin. If he's rubbing you raw, that's NOT a good thing!

It's not a problem if it "hurts" because you're too sensitive because you're close to orgasm or just post-orgasm. Sometimes, going past that little "pain" of being too sensitive can result in a bigger orgasm.

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=70892&highlight=squirt*


Well you're just a plethora of information on squirting, aren't you?

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=93469&highlight=squirt*

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=82543&highlight=squirt*

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=73750

Well you're just a plethora of information on squirting, aren't you?

 

[Naughty n Nice]

For a guy, the urethra is the vessel for both sperm and urine. When he is aroused, the urethra opens to semen and closes to urine, which is why it is very difficult, if not impossible, for him to pee when he has a full erection.

If he's been hard for a long time, he may be holding back the urine, so after he comes, the need to release the bladder comes back with a vengeance. OTOH, the stimulation to the penis is much more intense (at least for me) when I feel that pressure from the bladder.

Wow, very impressive response!!