When did you know your relationship was over?

[Tryharder62]

I'm just curious about what makes someone say enough is enough?

 

[Saint Peter]

When her last gasp of air found its way through my hands clenched around her neck.

 

[silver gurl]

When certain changes and expectations were to be made. Nothing changed. More of the same.

 

[Saint Peter]

When the title to the truck was signed and the keys handed to the prettyboy lawyerdouchebagmotherfuckingasshole.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Dollie

When did you know your relationship was over?

It's over ?

 

[Saint Peter]

When the walnuts from the front porch came down on me like an Oklahoma hail storm.

 

[Saint Peter]

When Manu told me that he would add a 1 to the end of my name if I kept sending her dirty PMs.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

When the walnuts from the front porch came down on me like an Oklahoma hail storm.

Our walnut tree is in the back yard and it's bare, like a cheap stripper in Toledo.

 

[FeeNicks]

When her last gasp of air found its way through my hands clenched around her neck.

OK

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[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Dollie

When her last gasp of air found its way through my hands clenched around her neck.

Right after she bit his fingers off, got a lawyer, ended up with the Vette, the dog, the house, and the gold mine.
Now that's funny!

 

[Debbie]

When I was running through my head the quickest, cleanest ways to catch him unaware, play whack a mole on his head, tear him limb from limb and dispose of the body without getting caught.




(He was a cruel person who treated his family like he owned us and could do whatever he wanted including violence to me in front of our small child. I had been raised in a very strict religious family and kept praying that he would get help. But he wouldn't and when it got really bad and my second son was born I knew we had to get out. I deflected his anger on to me if the children made a mess or did something he thought was wrong so he would strike me and not them.

I did not want my sons to repeat the cycle of domestic violence and I wanted them to be safe, loved and happy.

So with a few friends I planned how to get him out so we could be safe and eventually it happened and we were lucky even though for awhile he did stalk, harass, threaten etc. )

 

[jezzilee]

My last long term live in relationship lasted seven years. I knew it was over (for me) after 3.

Every time I broached the subject of my departure he would cry and I would cave. We have been apart for a long time and he still contacts me to try to reconcile no matter how I tell him I am not interested.



Do you have that one person you would do anything to get back? I don't. When it is over, it is over.

 

[Spartygrl13]

It took me a long time.

I knew it was rocky when he gave me a FWB to make his life easier. He's not so into women.
I was always told to stay for the child and that's what you do, you stay married.

He's done some awful things to me and I had enough. Divorce should be final by March.

The only thing I'm grateful for is he gave me
My son.

 

[Lord Pmann]

When the pregnancy test shows positive.

 

[Hypoxia]

Which relationship? There were many, each with its own terminal signs. When we both were fucking around. When the other two of our threesome kicked me out. (Twice.) When a door slammed. When adoption papers were signed. When the death announcement was posted. When our accounts were cleaned out, and not by me. These are all giveaways.

 

[TwinkleStars]

My last long term live in relationship lasted seven years. I knew it was over (for me) after 3.

Every time I broached the subject of my departure he would cry and I would cave. We have been apart for a long time and he still contacts me to try to reconcile no matter how I tell him I am not interested.



Do you have that one person you would do anything to get back? I don't. When it is over, it is over.

Just say you have found a wonderful girlfriend (me) that worships the ground you walk on. I treat you like a queen with body massages, long luxurious baths, your family loves me, I make you cum so good that you cannot think of anyone but me all day and I treat everyone politely and sweetly.

*fawns over jezzilee* http://i106.photobucket.com/albums/m242/axiemeluv/Smiley/drool-animated-animation-love-smile.gif

 

[Conager]

When hearing country break-up songs felt like the start of a process.

These things are only truly known, though, in hindsight. Even though the relationship ultimatelt did in, many other waypoints along the way could easily have been "the end." I have no regrets about the up and down cyvles of any relationship. Lot of goog miles were enjoyed after patches were applied. No relationship is done until the words or actions of both says it is.

A better question would be when did you know that you were on the mend after the loss of a relationship?

Turning again to country music, I realized that when Miranda Lambert's "Baggage Claim" resonated more than David Nail's "Red Light."

 

[spacekowboy]

When she was riding someone else's dick besides mine.

 

[hashtag46]

I was dumped far more times than I was the dumpee, so I obviously wasn't paying attention..

Even within the ones that were in my head

 

[raindancer]

When I cry more than I laugh or smile, it's emotionally over.

 

[jezzilee]

Just say you have found a wonderful girlfriend (me) that worships the ground you walk on. I treat you like a queen with body massages, long luxurious baths, your family loves me, I make you cum so good that you cannot think of anyone but me all day and I treat everyone politely and sweetly.

*fawns over jezzilee* http://i106.photobucket.com/albums/m242/axiemeluv/Smiley/drool-animated-animation-love-smile.gif

Women, for me, were always a sideline, or addition to the fun. I have never had a relationship with one.... you are making me curious!! But, omg, I love penis.

You also made me blush...

I was dumped far more times than I was the dumpee, so I obviously wasn't paying attention..

Even within the ones that were in my head

I am sure that being dumped sucks. It happened to me once when my fiance was killed. I kinda feel like death dumped me.

 

[hashtag46]

Women, for me, were always a sideline, or addition to the fun. I have never had a relationship with one.... you are making me curious!! But, omg, I love penis.

You also made me blush...



I am sure that being dumped sucks. It happened to me once when my fiance was killed. I kinda feel like death dumped me.

1.It does. But strangely enough, there's also some strange pay-off in it.
Once the pain wears off, those are nice emotions to dabble in, and those are the times when one gets most creative or 'produces', if engaged in such leisurely pursuits.

2.Must have been horrible. How old were you at the time?

 

[cleaver]

When did you know your relationship was over?

I'm just curious about what makes someone say enough is enough?

a great thread...
truly
i'm sure it has been asked here before... (but not of the current crop)
and were we but a circus susceptible to
a little honest introspection
there would be dozens of...

interesting, helpful(?)... cathartic stories
to follow...

no one can deny that contained within this little corner of lit
is a fair stream of broken toys...
many, if not most, damaged by the vagaries of ...
relationships that disintegrated for some reason (or bucketful of them)

the "when over/ and or when to go" question?
hmmmmm?

certainly - like divorces themselves...
each set of circumstances is singular to the situation...
the stories you hear/read may be instructive
but cannot be seen as road maps...

you gotta do your own do in these things...

i do wish you the best in this tough time tryharder62
(perhaps i presume too much)

your honest question surely has me...
in serious ( and somewhat painful ) retrospection.

hypoxia's 'which one', is actually less glib than it comes across as being...

i have left a number of... once dear
for a number of very specific - to each - moments/issues...
the 'when' i knew... was most often long before the end.
the 'when' i accepted what in my gut i knew; usually some time after...

as i have gotten older, i have learned of this to trust my gut
and
to not prolong the... slow... painful... inevitability.

the when did i know game is....
hmmmmm?
i cannot say that my specific experience(s) can help instruct...
other than to say that...
when you know, you do know...
and every breath after that - entangled - is...
a personal detriment...
in fact, a mutual detriment...

so... when you do know - you simply must do...

 

[GiaCat]

When I packed all I could and got the hell out.

 

[jezzilee]

1.It does. But strangely enough, there's also some strange pay-off in it.
Once the pain wears off, those are nice emotions to dabble in, and those are the times when one gets most creative or 'produces', if engaged in such leisurely pursuits.

2.Must have been horrible. How old were you at the time?

When he died, I was 22. Extenuating circumstances,as in I was supposed to be there, and I know who killed him.

not. happy. times.