When counting sexual partners..

[MissMaidenMinx]

Do you include people you have had a non physical relationship with? I.e. text, phone and/or video)

 

[Oh_That_Guy]

That's like counting your hand as a partner.

 

[allateup]

Do you include people you have had a non physical relationship with? I.e. text, phone and/or video)

Having sex has evidently just about lost all of its literal meaning.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

What if the relationship has a strong emotional connection? Does it count if losing that person is devastating?

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

Having sex has evidently just about lost all of its literal meaning.

These days, I wonder if it has.

 

[BabblingBrooke]

What if the relationship has a strong emotional connection? Does it count if losing that person is devastating?

While the relationship and connection is very real, the intimacy is real, they wouldn't count as a sexual partner unless you had sex with them.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Do you include people you have had a non physical relationship with? I.e. text, phone and/or video)

Noap.

That's talking, that's communicating, that's sharing intimate info.

If we have sex, we had sex. Like, the kind of sex where you left skin cells on the sheets from you being on the bottom thrashing your soul out as I was pounding between your legs like a mad axe splitting a tree trunk in half or the kind of sex where I can dust for your fingerprints on the headboard from your gripping it to death when I was riding you from behind like a rodeo bronc.

THAT'S the sex partners I count. None of that non-physical "virtual" shit!

 

[Paul_Chance]

I do.

 

[Noor]

While the relationship and connection is very real, the intimacy is real, they wouldn't count as a sexual partner unless you had sex them.

I suppose phone sex and cyber sex would count since it's interact and you come or should

 

[Aquagal]

No. Absolutely not.

 

[Noor]

Noap.

That's talking, that's communicating, that's sharing intimate info.

If we have sex, we had sex. Like, the kind of sex where you left skin cells on the sheets from you being on the bottom thrashing your soul out as I was pounding between your legs like a mad axe splitting a tree trunk in half or the kind of sex where I can dust for your fingerprints on the headboard from your gripping it to death when I was riding you from behind like a rodeo bronc.

THAT'S the sex partners I count. None of that non-physical "virtual" shit!

so only PIV or PIA?

 

[BabblingBrooke]

I suppose phone sex and cyber sex would count since it's interact and you come or should

That's aided masturbation, imo. I'm not discounting the potential for intimacy, just noting the lack of physical contact.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

So, if you're in a new physical relationship, if asked how many people you've been with, nothing non physical counts? (a friend and I have been discussing this, neither of us are decided, though she pulls towards no, I pull towards yes.)

 

[lovetoread]

You cannot say you had sex with anyone unless you had sex.

Phone/cyber sex is masturbation with an audience.

It doesnt matter what kind of connection you feel for anyone online, its not sex.

 

[Aquagal]

so only PIV or PIA?

I'd count all oral...hmmm not sure about a handy. Probably.

 

[Noor]

I suppose it counts if it was interactive, person specific and you both orgasm or near enough.

 

[lovecraft68]

Noap.

That's talking, that's communicating, that's sharing intimate info.

If we have sex, we had sex. Like, the kind of sex where you left skin cells on the sheets from you being on the bottom thrashing your soul out as I was pounding between your legs like a mad axe splitting a tree trunk in half or the kind of sex where I can dust for your fingerprints on the headboard from your gripping it to death when I was riding you from behind like a rodeo bronc.

THAT'S the sex partners I count. None of that non-physical "virtual" shit!

and your finger prints were left on the hundred dollar bills you paid for it and the fifty dollar bonus for them acting as if they liked it.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

Noap.

That's talking, that's communicating, that's sharing intimate info.

If we have sex, we had sex. Like, the kind of sex where you left skin cells on the sheets from you being on the bottom thrashing your soul out as I was pounding between your legs like a mad axe splitting a tree trunk in half or the kind of sex where I can dust for your fingerprints on the headboard from your gripping it to death when I was riding you from behind like a rodeo bronc.

THAT'S the sex partners I count. None of that non-physical "virtual" shit!

Based on that, really bad physical partners don't count either?

 

[Noor]

Divorce courts seem to count cyber sex and phone sex as sex

 

[Aquagal]

Noap.

That's talking, that's communicating, that's sharing intimate info.

If we have sex, we had sex. Like, the kind of sex where you left skin cells on the sheets from you being on the bottom thrashing your soul out as I was pounding between your legs like a mad axe splitting a tree trunk in half or the kind of sex where I can dust for your fingerprints on the headboard from your gripping it to death when I was riding you from behind like a rodeo bronc.

THAT'S the sex partners I count. None of that non-physical "virtual" shit!

So no finger prints on the screen.

 

[jezzilee]

I would only count those that there was physical contact with. I am not discounting the fact that some online encounters can become as emotionally involved as an in person relationship. One does not have to touch someone to become emotionally invested in that person.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

I suppose it counts if it was interactive, person specific and you both orgasm or near enough.

There's the rub of the argument. If there's things you only do with that person, and it is all part of a growing relationship, surely it begins to count.

 

[girlsmiley]

Do you include people you have had a non physical relationship with? I.e. text, phone and/or video)

What? No.

I'm curious. Why do you ask?

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

What? No.

I'm curious. Why do you ask?

A few reasons, but partially because a friend of mine and I have been discussing it.

 

[putzpotus]

No. Absolutely not.

so you didnt really mean all those things you texted me:caning::caning::caning: