What's your sexual fantasy?

[SusanJillParker]

What's your sexual fantasy? We all have a sexual fantasy and no two sexual fantasies are quite alike.

My sexual fantasy has always been the Pretty Woman fantasy where a man who must have you, has to have you, pulls up in a limo, a car, a pickup truck, a motorcycle, a bike, or a skateboard, whatever.

It's just that look that he has in his eyes that melts you inside that's so romantic.

That was the sexual fantasy that I used to have but now, I'd rather be taken.

I'd rather have a man who refuses to take no for an answer. Of course, I don't want to be raped and it must be a man that I want sexually but instead of him waiting for me to give him permission to have sex with me, I'd rather he make all of the moves.

So...now that I told you my sexual fantasies, what are you sexual fantasies?

 

[Gorza]

I'd rather have a man who refuses to take no for an answer. Of course, I don't want to be raped and it must be a man that I want sexually but instead of him waiting for me to give him permission to have sex with me, I'd rather he make all of the moves.

Rape fantasy and rape are completely unrelated. With new students here at university, we've had sexual-consent workshops, because schools fail to teach it. In fantasy, even if acted out, there is consent. That's why in BDSM there are safewords, so I can scream "No, please stop!" while still giving consent for whatever is going on.

Rape fantasy is often more about the attractive idea of masterful, passionate, unstoppable lover, and being so submissive that one isn't even allowed to make decisions. We have to make so many decisions that there is sexual release in being used for sex.

So...now that I told you my sexual fantasies, what are you sexual fantasies?

As a man, I am active and dominant in sex. Sometimes I wish for role reversal, for a woman to seize me, tell me she'll take care of me, that she'll fuck me.

I think it's more than being a nice change. I wonder whether gender roles have unbalanced our sexual activity.

 

[GoldenMaia]

I love the fantasy of a big, huge, strong man who is a soft, buttery subby-boy inside. Timid bois need not apply. No brat-subs looking to be bad for a spanking.

Something about a big man also being completely pliable that I find very delicious. I think it's because they are not common to find in the real life that does it for me.

On the flip side, also love the rape fantasy. I find that lately it's a big huge no-no but...my mind wants what it wants.

 

[SusanJillParker]

Rape fantasy and rape are completely unrelated. With new students here at university, we've had sexual-consent workshops, because schools fail to teach it. In fantasy, even if acted out, there is consent. That's why in BDSM there are safewords, so I can scream "No, please stop!" while still giving consent for whatever is going on.

Rape fantasy is often more about the attractive idea of masterful, passionate, unstoppable lover, and being so submissive that one isn't even allowed to make decisions. We have to make so many decisions that there is sexual release in being used for sex.



As a man, I am active and dominant in sex. Sometimes I wish for role reversal, for a woman to seize me, tell me she'll take care of me, that she'll fuck me.

I think it's more than being a nice change. I wonder whether gender roles have unbalanced our sexual activity.

What you wrote was insightful. Thank you. Other than the woman being a Dominatrix, I never thought that a man would want to be seized, to tell you that she'll take care of you, and that she'll fuck you. Wow! I'll have to try that sometime. Only, I suspect it would more work when my bed partner is half my age and into older women (lol).

"I love you, Mommy."

"Love me? Strip! Get naked and get on the bed. I'll show you love...bitch."

 

[SusanJillParker]

I love the fantasy of a big, huge, strong man who is a soft, buttery subby-boy inside. Timid bois need not apply. No brat-subs looking to be bad for a spanking.

Something about a big man also being completely pliable that I find very delicious. I think it's because they are not common to find in the real life that does it for me.

On the flip side, also love the rape fantasy. I find that lately it's a big huge no-no but...my mind wants what it wants.

Stop it! You getting me wet and making my nipples hard (lol).

You should meet my four brothers. They are all well over 6' tall and all over 260 pounds. Freddie is 6'4" tall and Big Louie is 6'6 and 300 pounds. They all competed in the strong men competitions years ago.

 

[GoldenMaia]

Stop it! You getting me wet and making my nipples hard (lol).

You should meet my four brothers. They are all well over 6' tall and all over 260 pounds. Freddie is 6'4" tall and Big Louie is 6'6 and 300 pounds. They all competed in the strong men competitions years ago.

RRrrr!! Dear God! What are you feeding those boys? Wow, 6'6? *blinkblinks*

 

[Everyday_Man]

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[SusanJillParker]

[Discussion of underage sex is prohibited. Final warning.]

 

[SusanJillParker]

To have sex with Jesse James. He's still my #1 bad boy.

Sandra Bullock knew what she was doing when she married him.

Hmm, I wonder if that makes her a...bad girl.

 

[49greg]

Nowadays my fantasy works more on the lines of having a heart that's healthy enough to get me as hard and big as it was when I was 17, and a hip that could move like it did back then.

With those physical improvements I'd let nature take it's course.

 

[lovecraft68]

A threesome with Abby from NCIS and Charisma Carpenter

Equally one with Allisa Milano and shannon douherty back in the prime of "charmed"

 

[NotWise]

My fantasies these days are usually based on the characters in my stories. That's not necessarily a good thing if you actually want to finish a story.

I went years with my fantasies focused on a former girlfriend -- even long after I was married. We had a two-year relationship with a lot of issues, but she was hot.

 

[SusanJillParker]

Nowadays my fantasy works more on the lines of having a heart that's healthy enough to get me as hard and big as it was when I was 17, and a hip that could move like it did back then.

With those physical improvements I'd let nature take it's course.

Sorry about your medical issues. I guess Viagra is not for you.

I have a friend with a bad heart and he swears by the pump. He bought a good one instead of a cheap one, about $120 and he has an erection that last 3 or 4 hours.

 

[SusanJillParker]

A threesome with Abby from NCIS and Charisma Carpenter

Equally one with Allisa Milano and shannon douherty back in the prime of "charmed"

Shannon Dougherty is sexy and pretty. I never understood the cult connection with Allisa Milano. She's average at best and pales in looks and in body to Shannon.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

My fantasy involves working with two big gals moving pianos up stairs.

 

[SusanJillParker]

My fantasy involves working with two big gals moving pianos up stairs.

So...are they naked, wearing lingerie, movers overalls with nothing underneath, prison uniforms, nuns habits, short skirts and low cut blouses, or Girl Scout uniforms (lol).

 

[shwetaCD]

My fantasy is to be a father visiting a church in a new land ..where the nuns are drug addicts... And a lot of crazy sex goes on in the church..

 

[NotWise]

My fantasy is to be a father visiting a church in a new land ..where the nuns are drug addicts... And a lot of crazy sex goes on in the church..

Sounds like any number of old Italian porn flicks.

 

[MaryanneB]

My fantasy is that at 106y/o I am as horny and active as I am now.....YES!!!

 

[SusanJillParker]

My fantasy is that at 106y/o I am as horny and active as I am now.....YES!!!

Seriously. You don't look your age. Nice legs. I'd do you (lol).

 

[NOIRTRASH]

So...are they naked, wearing lingerie, movers overalls with nothing underneath, prison uniforms, nuns habits, short skirts and low cut blouses, or Girl Scout uniforms (lol).

Overalls

 

[shwetaCD]

Sounds like any number of old Italian porn flicks.

Here's another one...a male private tutor is giving home tutions to a girl..he then seduces the girl and later her mother who is divorced n single..n then to pay the tuition fee ..he turns them into whores..which takes the sex to another level

 

[latenttalent]

Mine is to fuck both a mother and daughter.

They don't have to touch or do anything to each other... but in turn, I fuck each of them alternately.
Then the other sucks me clean of the other's secretions.

Time and time again.

That simple (and bad), but hey, it's fantasy.

 

[redzinger]

Like others, I think I'd like/I fantasise about a strong man controlling me.

However, when my ex held me down, even though he was the safest bloke in the world, I didn't particularly like it.

My hottest fantasy used to be two men, but similar RL experiences have mostly felt...seedy.

...and a hip that could move like it did back then...

I need two of them!

It's been way over a year for me, partly due to hip problems. I'm celibate, and it's not totally my choice. Plus IME if I don't fancy them, the sex isn't great.

So, my current fantasy would be decent sex with a guy I'm attracted to.

That reads fucking tragically, doesn't it? FML.

 

[Gorza]

Like others, I think I'd like/I fantasise about a strong man controlling me.

However, when my ex held me down, even though he was the safest bloke in the world, I didn't particularly like it.

My hottest fantasy used to be two men, but similar RL experiences have mostly felt...seedy.

So true! Most of us would never like to act out our fantasies, and, if we do, we realise that real life does not live up to our fantasies. Part of it is worry about what happens after: how this changes relationships and our concept of ourself. Sometimes it's the lure of the unknown, that the grass is greener in a new field, and we find it isn't That word 'seedy' kind of covers all of this.

It's been way over a year for me, partly due to hip problems. I'm celibate, and it's not totally my choice. Plus IMW if I don't fancy them, the sex isn't great.

So, my current fantasy would be decent sex with a guy I'm attracted to.

That reads fucking tragically, doesn't it? FML.

No, it doesn't read so tragically. I feel for you, but also realise that there is more to you than this. I would love to read a story based on your fantasy, something real about overcoming difficulties to find simple, yet sublime, sexual pleasure. I wonder how many people, putting the bravado and 'more adventurous than thou' aside, would plain admit that decent sex with someone attractive is really where it's at, where it's always been at, for ever and ever. Amen.