What's your favorite thing to fantasize about now vs. when you were younger?

[lovepussy691]

How have your fantasies changed through the decades?

 

[Lost_Yonder]

younger women compared to older women (the girl next door rather than the mother next door - though the mother is still part of my fantasy world!)
receiving blowjobs from guys
I tend to fantasize more about specific women I know/knew rather than just a type or some image
My fantasies are much more elaborate, stories in the making rather than just sexual (plots, personalities, various details)

 

[Jada59]

I didn't have many fantasies when I was younger, perhaps because I hadn't experienced very much. Mostly giving blow jobs and being watched while masturbating.

Those things are still in my wheelhouse but I also think about two or more men at once and also some BDSM.

 

[Abbafan]

When I was younger, it'd be classmates and a couple of teachers mostly.

Now I have easy access to dirty movies and stories so that's influenced me quite a bit.

 

[Justfantasies]

Classmates -- usually the unobtainable ones -- when I was at school

Really slutty women now

 

[jays78]

In my youth was almost every female classmate.

Now, gay sex, wife sharing, larger women, cum and more cum. Love seeing cum shoot all over men and woman’s faces.

 

[Umanual]

Interesting

A rather interesting question... what does one fantasize about now vesus when i was a young lad.

For me ... as a young lad i fantasized about having sex with a gal... not any specific gal but all gals... i was focused on me..

Now i fantasize about my wife having sex with other men... my fantasies get surreal when she is out for a solo session with her BF... by the time she gets home i am so aroused... now my focus is on her sexual fun...

 

[Osculum]

When I was younger it was pretty much all domme fantasies, especially facesitting.

Now it’s mostly cuckolding ... though it’s fun to blur the line sometimes.

 

[anniebaby10]

When I was young, it was about my female lover and all the things we would do the next time we were together. I am 25 years removed from that loving relationship an married to a wonderful man but I still fantasize about her kissing me all over and going dow on me.

 

[dz2681]

When I was younger it was of older women, a teacher, friends’ moms, my godmother nonstop and now it’s mainly centered around my wife and sharing her or watching her fulfill different fantasies we’ve talked about. There’s also a couple of lit members wife’s that run through my dirty mind as well.

 

[MidKnight1378]

How have your fantasies changed through the decades?

When I was younger, I fantasized about my wife, now I fantasize about being younger.

 

[gtnlynn]

When I was younger, all my fantasies involved fucking my wife in different scenarios. As I got older, my fantasies involved seeing her being fucked by one of her former lovers or some other sexual scene involving her with another man or woman.

 

[HoldYouDown]

Group sex, then and now. Just different variations.

 

[phil1955]

When younger, fantasies were about almost any girl or woman I knew. Now at 65, my big fantasy is to watch my wife make love with another man. Hung stud would be nice but a fat old guy would work too.

 

[screwher]

When we were younger, during our first couple years together, I often fantasized about my wife and another woman. As well as having a threesome with other women. Which I conveniently forgot to tell her about that part

But after her first tryst with another man, it flipped a switch. I started fantasizing about her getting fucked by other men. Since then that’s been, and still is, my fantasy go to.

 

[Nubbin2Declare]

I'm offering gereralizations. Yes, they may not be true for you as an individual, but there's research behind them.

Men tend to be hard-wired into their kinks at a fairly young age. Women are more adaptable and their sexual tastes tend to change and develop more over time. Those are the general rules.

Although I have experimented for variety and because various partners, including two wives, had different tastes and interests, but my main kinks have remained fairly steady since I first became aware of the most visible difference between male and female human bodies when I was 5 or 6 years old. I understand it to be a matter of sexuality now, and I can explain it in ways I never would have been able to as a child, but I've sexualized fears and anxieties that began at an early age, and learned how to amplify all that old fear and anxiety and channel it into sexual energy, with great effect.

I didn't know at age 6 that my kinks were closely related to each other, that these kinks had names, nor that the excitement I felt was sexual arousal, but now, half a century later, the exact same things are still what turns me on most.

I'm a man, and the general rule is true in my case. I'll try anything once and I'll do anything to please a partner, except for a few hard limits, but I keep coming back to the same things when it comes to my own pleasure.

 

[ready2obey]

Women

Bigger women with bigger asses.

 

[cheetah2]

Bigger women with bigger asses.

that's a good one

 

[AficionadoAngel]

When I was younger I fantasized mostly about older boys, or boys my own age that I knew. I was still very curious about how the opposite sex worked and it was a thrill when I found out that the "right boy" was interested in me. I had some thoughts about other girls, but it was mostly while talking about boys. Now, I still fantasize a lot about men, but in more graphic ways, and I also think a lot more about women, and women and men together. I think I'm more voyeuristic now.

 

[Armyvet23]

I guess for me, nothing has changed. I still fantasize about mostly people I know.

 

[MohanSingh]

Younger was just teachers and crushes. Now it is older woman and stockings.

 

[hogjack]

Love seeing cum shoot all over men and woman’s faces.

Lots of faces to cover and only so much time to get it done.

 

[phil1955]

I guess I have always had a cum fetish. Early on it was mostly about me cumming in or on some woman. Now the big fantasy is to watch my wife with another man and have her look at me and whisper. “Oh god, he is cumming in me “

 

[OldFred65]

When I was younger I only had any interest in women with super model looks and figures. Now it's anyone male or female of any size, shape, race, or age as long as the love sex.

 

[NightOfPassion2]

Crushes on older women -teachers, etc as well as those my age..

Now its ..pretty much age doesnt matter for females (above 20)
As far a males....late onset bi has me fantasying...add to that shemale as well...