whats this place?

[Freebear]

you guys just make up stories? And tell them to each other? Thats kind of gay.

 

[DrStein]

And you felt the desire to comment on this because...?

Is your life that hollow?

 

[DeliciousMaiden]

Response:

19 out of your 21 posts thus far are criticising and deriding whichever forum you've found your way to.

Judging my your earlier posts you're seeking contact with a "kinky gal".
Might I suggest you'd fare better if you were more tolerant and less judgemental and do your background reading PRIOR to posting.

If you read the rules at the top of each forum you'd know what each board was for and what the rules are.

People are here because they share a common interest and want to be.
Using "gay" as a derogatory term also is so outdated and infantile, especially in the context of the Sexual Roleplaying Forum where all forms of adult sexuality are permitted.
It's about freedom of speech and tolerance of all lifestyles even those you have no knowledge/appreciation/interest in.
If something repulses you, don't read it. You don't have to go there.
Putting down other people and their ideas/opinions/lifestyles, especially when expressed through fiction is "sadder" than anything you've been criticising mocking.

As to the "head" posts ie. queries about why you're not able to have an avatar next to your screen name:

You have to make a number of posts before you can insert a picture beside your screen name - I can't remember how many it is now - the site recently changed formating. You can find that and any more info if you click on FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions) at the top of the page.

Oh and one final point:
All you see on here are screen names and accompanying pictures.
There are people behind everyone of them and being able to post your opinon freely means you're responsible for the consquences of your words and the effect it has on others.

If took the time to look around, read and introduce yourself on any of the Boards, you'd find most people are welcoming and will answer any genuine queries you may have.

Conversely, you'll find that they respond to ignorant or offensive comments in kind.

I hope you find what you're looking for ... on this site or another.

Best wishes
DM

 

[BedtimeStories]

Usually it's wise to just ignore trolls. They go away once they're bored.

 

[DeliciousMaiden]

Oh and one final point:
All you see on here are screen names and accompanying pictures.
There are people behind everyone of them and being able to post your opinon freely means you're responsible for the consquences of your words and the effect it has on others.

True that would be easier ... but those you call "trolls" are people too in my humble opinion.

I thought he warranted a response ...

DM


Edited note:

Of course after seeing his recent little "tirade" in Lit Personals - playground, I could be wrong ... *smiles* ...

 

[Freebear]

thanks for the novel. I'll be sure to read it someday when Im unemployed.

 

[DeliciousMaiden]

Shame on you ...

*Files amongst the offensive and ignorant and clicks to ignore*

I only waste my time once.

DM

Footnote:

To me someone who finds it necessary to systematically insult what they term as being "gay" or "bi" must have sexual issues themselves.
Feeling threatened and insecure isn't an excuse for such appalling behaviour however.

 

[DrStein]

Naturally. It's kind of a self-fulfilling prophecy in a way. Men so insecure in their sexuality go to great lengths to prove to themselves and others that they are straight, and in the process end up behaving in such an absurd manner that no self-respecting gay man would want to have anything to do with them.

Of course, neither does any other rational person, straight or gay, but I digress.

 

[DeliciousMaiden]

Naturally. It's kind of a self-fulfilling prophecy in a way. Men so insecure in their sexuality go to great lengths to prove to themselves and others that they are straight, and in the process end up behaving in such an absurd manner that no self-respecting gay man would want to have anything to do with them.

Of course, neither does any other rational person, straight or gay, but I digress.

So true Dr Stein.
Everything we type here gives people clues about what type of person we are.
I try to think the best of people until proven otherwise.

He's managed to annoy and insult people on almost every Board at Lit.

Enough said I think ...

{{{ huggs Dr }}}
DM x