What's the obsession with large dicks ?

[Addicted098]

In almost every other story I read, the desirable man has to have large dick (8+ inches ) & that's the main reason he is desirable. The stud with large dick, husband's friend, son, young boy & even the nerd in some stories had to have a large to be desirable. & that is normaly enough to make him great in bed ? When in reality a 7 incher is more than enough for most women.

Why can't authors write about the man's experience, techniques used for kissing, touching, licking or his knowledge of pleasure points or the different positions of fucking ? Use of same cliche in so many stories is quite surprising & off-putting.
According to my research, men are more hung up on the size of the cocks compared to women. This obviously reflects in literotica; since most of the writers are males I think. But still, I think the writers coud definitely show some creativity & more realistic writing.

 

[RossieOregon]

I'm a woman, and I agree with you. Not all women have a deep vagina, so they can not take all 8 inches of dick. Like you said, an author should emphasize on the guy's techniques instead of how long the penis is!

 

[Addicted098]

Wanted to add that I a man & not a virgin as mentioned under my name. I have an average 1 but this large cock thing gets under my skin.

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Because it's fantasy. Simple as that.
It's like large breasts. I'm not going to get all sensitive because every tale suggests 32Es are the best. We live in a time where exaggerated body parts (lips, tits,dicks ect) are viewed as sexy.
I love large cocks so I enjoy it.

 

[RossieOregon]

Wanted to add that I a man & not a virgin as mentioned under my name. I have an average 1 but this large cock thing gets under my skin.

The term "Virgin" only shows your experience level on this forum. To help others know you better, why don't you include a detailed bio?

 

[HisBabyDollJ]

It's not a large dick that turns me on.
It's a large mind that can get into mine.

 

[sr71plt]

According to my research, men are more hung up on the size of the cocks compared to women. This obviously reflects in literotica; since most of the writers are males I think.

You answered your own question, didn't you?

I can say that in GM it matters.

 

[JaxRhapsody]

In almost every other story I read, the desirable man has to have large dick (8+ inches ) & that's the main reason he is desirable. The stud with large dick, husband's friend, son, young boy & even the nerd in some stories had to have a large to be desirable. & that is normaly enough to make him great in bed ? When in reality a 7 incher is more than enough for most women.

Why can't authors write about the man's experience, techniques used for kissing, touching, licking or his knowledge of pleasure points or the different positions of fucking ? Use of same cliche in so many stories is quite surprising & off-putting.
According to my research, men are more hung up on the size of the cocks compared to women. This obviously reflects in literotica; since most of the writers are males I think. But still, I think the writers coud definitely show some creativity & more realistic writing.

The american average is about 5.4 inches, 7½-9 are common large sizes. This site is mostly fantasy, and even if it's annoying, I don't know a woman- even if she didn't care about the dick size would really be getting off reading, or actually fucking such a small dick, besides; isn't 6" about average in India? Sure all the pleasuring nerve ending are at the entrance of the pussy, as somebody with about 8½ to work with, there's something to be said about seeing a woman having her self nearly filled with a long dick. I feel I have enough for any woman, and I've seen most of my friends dicks- I'm one of the biggest.

 

[JaxRhapsody]

I'm a woman, and I agree with you. Not all women have a deep vagina, so they can not take all 8 inches of dick. Like you said, an author should emphasize on the guy's techniques instead of how long the penis is!

I find it hard to believe the existance of a shallow pussy, not to say they don't exist, but it would be rare, if not just conditioned from only being fucked by average dick. My girlfriendz ex was about 7 something- the biggest she'd had until me, a womans pussy will eventually give to something bigger, as the average pussy is actually deeper than the average dick is long, which on average would probably be between 7-8inchez or so, some may be tighter than others, or actually have a smaller diameter, but I'm sure by the main purpose of it, it'll stretch to yield, otherwise fisting would be impossible. My girl did bleed the first few timss we fucked, but it soon adapted.

 

[Addicted098]

Because it's fantasy. Simple as that.
It's like large breasts. I'm not going to get all sensitive because every tale suggests 32Es are the best. We live in a time where exaggerated body parts (lips, tits,dicks ect) are viewed as sexy.
I love large cocks so I enjoy it.

Well, the things is I understand men to fantasizing about big breasts while writing; Although I often find them being called perky than big actually. Anyway, why fantasize about big cocks though ? Woudn't it be more fun to fantasize about an average cock satisfying the woman using many other techniques in the story ?

 

[Addicted098]

You answered your own question, didn't you?

I can say that in GM it matters.

I did say I thought writers woud use more creativity especially after reading the same cliche been used in so many stories.

 

[Addicted098]

The american average is about 5.4 inches, 7½-9 are common large sizes. This site is mostly fantasy, and even if it's annoying, I don't know a woman- even if she didn't care about the dick size would really be getting off reading, or actually fucking such a small dick, besides; isn't 6" about average in India? Sure all the pleasuring nerve ending are at the entrance of the pussy, as somebody with about 8½ to work with, there's something to be said about seeing a woman having her self nearly filled with a long dick. I feel I have enough for any woman, and I've seen most of my friends dicks- I'm one of the biggest.

Dude, average pussy size is 4 inches & can stretch upto 7 if aroused & pushed hard. U can search on net for yourself.

 

[TheLoafer]

Agree with the OP up to a point.

When a story's whole punchline is the unveiling of an unfeasibly gargantuan member it's all a bit....predictable. To be fair it's the same with perfectly huge and hemispherical funbags.

For me the fun in fantasy isn't about perfecting reality...it's about shifting it just a few inches to the left (if that makes sense ). It's about those little moments when you think...."if I did x, it would be really nice if she did y..".

However, I know not everyone thinks like that.

 

[MyRubiLips]

In almost every other story I read, the desirable man has to have large dick (8+ inches ) & that's the main reason he is desirable. The stud with large dick, husband's friend, son, young boy & even the nerd in some stories had to have a large to be desirable. & that is normaly enough to make him great in bed ? When in reality a 7 incher is more than enough for most women.

Why can't authors write about the man's experience, techniques used for kissing, touching, licking or his knowledge of pleasure points or the different positions of fucking ? Use of same cliche in so many stories is quite surprising & off-putting.
According to my research, men are more hung up on the size of the cocks compared to women. This obviously reflects in literotica; since most of the writers are males I think. But still, I think the writers coud definitely show some creativity & more realistic writing.

Most people write about what turns them on; their fantasy.

I'm sure if you read a hundred, two hundred, etc, stories you'll find the tables will turn. Are you reading the same type of story constantly?

 

[MyRubiLips]

Well, the things is I understand men to fantasizing about big breasts while writing; Although I often find them being called perky than big actually.

"Perky" is a word used to describe smaller breasts; typically "A" and "B" size.

 

[HandsInTheDark]

Any story that gives explicit sizes is a nonstarter for me. Most women do not carry rulers, and few men have experience in fitting bras.

That said, it's a rare story of mine that doesn't make at least passing reference to a large dick. Sex isn't a rational thing. No woman stares at a small dick and wonders about technique. But they'll stare at a large one because somewhere deep in the primitive wiring, and even though it makes no sense, big dick equals more masculine, and lots of cum, and lots of cum means more fertile, and more fertile means big freaking arousal jackpot because that's what evolution made sex for.

Maybe it's because I don't read a lot here, but everyone complains about GG breasts in stories and I just don't remember many stories that talk about anything large than C. Or maybe stories that are going to go there manage to turn me off before they get to cup size (ie, I'm gone by the first paragraph.)

I dunno; pick better authors?

 

[MatthewVett]

"Perky" is a word used to describe smaller breasts; typically "A" and "B" size.

Really? I feel like perky can be used for any size, it's just that once you get big enough, it rarely applies. Now "pert," that I associate with smaller breasts only.

 

[Sammael Bard]

Really? I feel like perky can be used for any size, it's just that once you get big enough, it rarely applies. Now "pert," that I associate with smaller breasts only.

I'm yet to see a "perky" D-Cup. Breasts sag with added weight, despite the age. Unless, of course, the woman in question has worked out some very strong muscles in her chest and back.

 

[GoldenMaia]

Fantasy!

I have a big kink for the big cock. In 'real life' I don't care but in a story, it's a thrill to think about a man who is oversized. It's a fantasy.

I also like to write stories where a guy has a hair trigger and cums premature--also a bit of a kink of mine I guess.

I don't think that a work of fiction should indicate what a woman really wants.

 

[GoldenMaia]

Also? I don't see anyone lamenting that there's not enough A cup titties in stories. Guys aren't ashamed to say they want big breasts in their stories.

 

[LadyVer]

Well, it's the old saying: the bigger the better. When I start a story and it starts with the size of dicks and breasts, I look for something else. But there are readers who want the specific sizes. Maybe there should be a tag called "sizes included"?

 

[GoldenMaia]

Well, it's the old saying: the bigger the better. When I start a story and it starts with the size of dicks and breasts, I look for something else. But there are readers who want the specific sizes. Maybe there should be a tag called "sizes included"?

Oh yes! Size Queens! (although I guess that might be confusing.)

 

[MyRubiLips]

I'm yet to see a "perky" D-Cup. Breasts sag with added weight, despite the age. Unless, of course, the woman in question has worked out some very strong muscles in her chest and back.

Or, unless those "D"s are store bought!

 

[HeyAll]

The majority of readers want to read about a woman who's in the midst of intense lust; screaming, moaning, making faces, squirming, ect...

Taking a big cock is a hot & easy way of making that happen.

Plus it's a fantasy of a lot of people.

 

[sr71plt]

The majority of readers want

You know this how?

I think this is probably true, but we're supposedly writers here. There's a big difference between writing a flat declaratory statement and writing "I think/believe."