What's the appeal of a strap on?

[Jada59]

I don't get it. I suppose if a woman wanted to be a man or wanted to feel like a man, the strap on might appeal to her. But to me, it seems like it would be awkward. I don't think I'd be comfortable using one and I would fear that I might injure the guy.

I have no problems using a dildo with my hand and I think it would give me so much better control. But guys always seem to want the strap on. Why?

 

[runsilent]

You didn't think about the men who want to get fucked by someone they love.

 

[Jada59]

You didn't think about the men who want to get fucked by someone they love.

I did. But why in that manner? One can fuck with a dildo and I personally feel I would have much better control with that than a strap on.

 

[runsilent]

The raw animal feeling of being fucked. Think about how that feels to you. Do you want dildo play or be fucked?

 

[Jada59]

The raw animal feeling of being fucked. Think about how that feels to you. Do you want dildo play or be fucked?

They're both good but when I'm being fucked, it's with a cock. A strap on is nothing more than a strapped on dildo. I still don't get it.

 

[runsilent]

It's the best a strait man can hoped to be fucked with. It may feel like an inanimate dildo to you but I feel your hips grinding into me. Maybe you should think about the difference about anal play and being fucked.

 

[Artfan2]

How well it works aside, there's something about seeing a woman brandishing a big hardon. It definitely puts her in a different light.

 

[Jada59]

It's the best a strait man can hoped to be fucked with. It may feel like an inanimate dildo to you but I feel your hips grinding into me. Maybe you should think about the difference about anal play and being fucked.

Well, I'm not that picky when it comes to sex. I pretty much like it all!

 

[Jada59]

How well it works aside, there's something about seeing a woman brandishing a big hardon. It definitely puts her in a different light.

Hmmm... I just think it would make me reel weird but then I've never tried it. Thanks!

 

[twister947]

I don't get it either. I'm totally open to being fucked with the real deal, but plastic dicks do nothing for me, and women wearing strap-ons look bizarre to me. One man's opinion...

 

[SissySalina]

Can it be, giving Her the power to pound away. Is it possible that She might enjoy being able to just go for it and slam it in there.

Just a sissy's thought.

 

[Naughtyboy31]

Superiority. Theoretically, It's the man's "job" with the hard penis to pleasure the woman. So when a woman can wear something that reflects something similar as a hard erect penis it makes them feel more superior. They are in charge. It's all about a hard penis. Your not going to see a non erect strap on right? I know others will have varying opinions but when I think sex my definition is penis penetrating vagina. Nothing else.

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[Ilovetoeatsperm]

Hey it’s not for everyone. Myself being a size fanatic, to see my wife with an impossibly huge strapon hanging from her is a huge turn on for me. Just knowing she is going to stick it up my ass while I submit my butt for her to do as she wishes gets us both going. For me I think it’s the submission. For her it’s the control.

 

[Jada59]

I don't get it either. I'm totally open to being fucked with the real deal, but plastic dicks do nothing for me, and women wearing strap-ons look bizarre to me. One man's opinion...

*High Five*

Thanks!

 

[Jada59]

Can it be, giving Her the power to pound away. Is it possible that She might enjoy being able to just go for it and slam it in there.

Just a sissy's thought.

Maybe some women do. I'm not one of them.

 

[Jada59]

Superiority. Theoretically, It's the man's "job" with the hard penis to pleasure the woman. So when a woman can wear something that reflects something similar as a hard erect penis it makes them feel more superior. They are in charge. It's all about a hard penis. Your not going to see a non erect strap on right? I know others will have varying opinions but when I think sex my definition is penis penetrating vagina. Nothing else.

https://m.xhamster.com/photos/gallery/11929277/280186657

https://m.xhamster.com/photos/gallery/11918269/279602705

https://m.xhamster.com/photos/gallery/11667055/267005801

https://m.xhamster.com/photos/gallery/11667055/267006019

Hmmm... See, I don't think it's the man's job. I think both people should work at it. Granted, one or the other might want to take control at times but I don't need a strap on for that.

 

[Jada59]

Hey it’s not for everyone. Myself being a size fanatic, to see my wife with an impossibly huge strapon hanging from her is a huge turn on for me. Just knowing she is going to stick it up my ass while I submit my butt for her to do as she wishes gets us both going. For me I think it’s the submission. For her it’s the control.

Okay. I guess I figure I can control without needing a strap on.

 

[Valendon]

I don't get it. I suppose if a woman wanted to be a man or wanted to feel like a man, the strap on might appeal to her. But to me, it seems like it would be awkward. I don't think I'd be comfortable using one and I would fear that I might injure the guy.

I have no problems using a dildo with my hand and I think it would give me so much better control. But guys always seem to want the strap on. Why?

Well, each of us are likely moved differently, but when I'm wearing one, I love the feel of my hips, thighs, lower belly smacking against my lover whether it's him or her. And they say the same! Sex for me isn't just feeling penetration with my vag (or ass) it's that, plus all the rest of the contact.

And when my woman uses one on me, same deal! I want to feel all of her lovely parts involved in what's moving in and out of me!

Yes--dicks and dildos feel different, but each has its charms!

 

[Jada59]

Well, each of us are likely moved differently, but when I'm wearing one, I love the feel of my hips, thighs, lower belly smacking against my lover whether it's him or her. And they say the same! Sex for me isn't just feeling penetration with my vag (or ass) it's that, plus all the rest of the contact.

And when my woman uses one on me, same deal! I want to feel all of her lovely parts involved in what's moving in and out of me!

Yes--dicks and dildos feel different, but each has its charms!

Okay. Thanks! I have a lesbian friend who says she would never use one becaus she doesn't want to be a guy. Guess we're all different.

 

[justdamhorny]

Don't forget that strapon's can also be used by men, who for whatever reason can't get an erection.They allow the man to at least feel like they are somewhat manly even if it isn't his cock in her pussy!!!

 

[UnderMyKilt]

What's the appeal of a strap on?

What isn't? It's just part of the toolbox for kinky ass play. It's also important that you have good equipment, that works for both, and isn't more frustration than fun.

As the OP relates, my wife too is into fucking me with dildos, and HUGE dildos, while holding them in her hands and I certainly like it to. Plus, that certainly affords her the best opportunity for sucking me while simultaneously dildo fucking my ass.

The strap on is a different experience for both of us. While, as a bi bottom, I love to have my ass pounded by the real thing, I also love to have my ass pounded by my wife with a huge strap on (bigger than any guys I've ever met). Plus, when my wife is fucking me missionary style with the strap on, those huge, pendulous breasts of hers are also dangling in my face just asking to be licked and suckled.

BTW, we also love double-ended dildos and all the fun possibilities they allow. Ass to ass. Ass to pussy. Both doggy style...and our favorite on our backs facing each other, double dildo in our asses (bigger end always in me), and thrusting and grinding while stroking and rubbing ourselves and each other to orgasm.

Again, no big deal....LOL. Just another variation. Just a way to spice things up and do something different every now and then.

 

[CuriousGuy62]

Superiority. Theoretically, It's the man's "job" with the hard penis to pleasure the woman. So when a woman can wear something that reflects something similar as a hard erect penis it makes them feel more superior. They are in charge. It's all about a hard penis. Your not going to see a non erect strap on right? I know others will have varying opinions but when I think sex my definition is penis penetrating vagina. Nothing else.

https://m.xhamster.com/photos/gallery/11929277/280186657

https://m.xhamster.com/photos/gallery/11918269/279602705

https://m.xhamster.com/photos/gallery/11667055/267005801

https://m.xhamster.com/photos/gallery/11667055/267006019

that second picture looks fun!

 

[Jada59]

What isn't? It's just part of the toolbox for kinky ass play. It's also important that you have good equipment, that works for both, and isn't more frustration than fun.

As the OP relates, my wife too is into fucking me with dildos, and HUGE dildos, while holding them in her hands and I certainly like it to. Plus, that certainly affords her the best opportunity for sucking me while simultaneously dildo fucking my ass.

The strap on is a different experience for both of us. While, as a bi bottom, I love to have my ass pounded by the real thing, I also love to have my ass pounded by my wife with a huge strap on (bigger than any guys I've ever met). Plus, when my wife is fucking me missionary style with the strap on, those huge, pendulous breasts of hers are also dangling in my face just asking to be licked and suckled.

BTW, we also love double-ended dildos and all the fun possibilities they allow. Ass to ass. Ass to pussy. Both doggy style...and our favorite on our backs facing each other, double dildo in our asses (bigger end always in me), and thrusting and grinding while stroking and rubbing ourselves and each other to orgasm.

Again, no big deal....LOL. Just another variation. Just a way to spice things up and do something different every now and then.

Thanks!

 

[lowcollar]

If you really love women, like I do, but also like having your ass stretched and pounded. Strap on sex is fantastic. I love being her bottom.

 

[Gr82meetu2]

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