What's Taboo?

[Gaucho]

In the short time I've been visiting this and the How To Board, I've noticed a lot of threads dealing with particular sexual practices (come tasting for men and women, anal sex, gang bangs, etc) and it's made me wonder about sexual practices in general what is or isn't considered taboo anymore. Not from a legal standpoint, mind you. I'm thinking of personal taboos. And I'm not necessarily looking for the exotic, either.

Let's face it: We all have things we won't do (at least with some partners) and other things that we really don't like to do (but sometimes do anyway to please a special partner) for a variety of reasons. And, conversely, there are sometimes things that we would like to have done to us and don't bring up (usually because we're afraid of what the other person might think).

So, two scenarios: In a LTR, what is it you won't do (or are least inclined to do) and what would you like your partner to do (if anything) that you're afraid to ask for?

And second, in a one-nighter with a complete stranger (use your imagination if you've never had one), what might you indulge in if you thought no one else would ever find out about it?

 

[Jade]

That could be a long list Gaucho... there are some pretty nasty things out there.... many things have yet to hear about I am certain!

Things I wouldn't want to do... To name a few..... (LTR OR one nighter!) NOTHING with children... (that means, anyone under 19 to me... no offense to the 18 year olds.. they are adults but too young for me now ...) anything with someone old enough to be wearing dentures, be on medicare, etc. (again, no offense to anything in that category)... nothing with stupid people (hope that doesn't make me a bitch), nothing with uncaring, unfeeling people, nothing with boring people, um... (I am getting off the topic in a sense here, so) ...anything involving bodily waste (mine or theirs) and um... ugh, I am getting grossed out now, so I will just leave it at that.

A one night stand for me wouldn't have to be too many wild things, the main purpose would be to find out if sex is different with different people. Main stipulation would have to be that both of us are DD free and STD free (so we wouldn't nec. "have" to use protection) and that I am not ovulating! haha

Okay, now that I have the complete "ickies" I am going now! AHhhh!!

 

[CreamyLady]

Oh, those buttons again!

Right now, my LTR looks as if we might be reaching its limits, partially because of our varying needs, and partially because of other difficulties that will, in the end, be insurmountable. I had hoped we would have longer together before they became an issue, but it is not to be.

Anyway, while stimulating, it has always been very straightforward, with a few digressions. These have been enjoyable, but my lover does not care for anything too far out of his experience, and does not -- and will not -- understand my need to be submissive.

I haven't had a really good one night stand in years, but basically, just about anything would go that didn't involve children, animals and bloodshed.

 

[ShyGuy68]

Some have already posted their likes and dislikes on this thread:

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=11032

As to what you won't do in a LTR (Long Term Relationship? sometimes it's not easy for non americans to get all those abrevations!) versus as one nighter.

Well I think personally that you should be able to be more open with your partner in a LTR, than in a one night stand. It's not like you meet somebody out one evening, and say, "hey can I have you as my slave for tonight?"

But then again, people have been known to so strange things!


ShyGuy

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

Many people posted on the taboo topic here:

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=10910

 

[Expertise]

No kids (18 or younger)
No Bodily waste
No animals
No non-consensual sex
No bodily injury beyond scratches and love bites

Beyond that .... knock your socks off!

 

[SimplySouthern]

what Exp said...me too.

Cept' sometimes I like a man to stay fully dressed...makes it more appealing for a quickie somehow (don't ask...its a visual thing) Boots, BDU's...black tshirt. Oh my...ummm, I'm going now

 

[Gaucho]

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My thanks to all those who have replied so far. And kudos to Dixon and ShyGuy for enlightening me about the earlier threads.

A couple of qualifiers, I guess: I wasn't really thinking of animals or kids, for that matter. While I understand that this site may be a bit more liberal than the norm when it comes to these matters, I kind of took it for granted that no one would admit to lusting after preteens or wanting to add Fido to the party.

I guess I was thinking more in terms of specific acts that you either would or wouldn't do - with either a long term partner or a relative stranger (or a strange relative, for that matter) - and why. An example would be you really want to be spanked but can't quite bring yourself to ask your partner to do it. Or vice versa and you can't bring yourself to do it for him/her and keep a straight face.

It should also be a given that all acts are consensual.

ShyGuy-I know what you mean about how a LTR should be, but my experience is that completely open relationships (and I do mean completely!) are a pretty rare thing. With a LTR, there are emotions and expectations that wouldn't come into play with a one night stand. I can't imagine that we Americans are that much different in that respect.

SimplySouthern-a fully dressed quickie? Isn't that a contradiction in terms? Actually, there is something very erotic about being completely dressed (preferably formally) with a naked woman. Only in my fantasy, I'm satisfying her; not the other way around. Am I weird, or what?

[Edited by Gaucho on 07-18-2000 at 01:26 PM]

 

[April]

the main purpose would be to find out if sex is different with different people.

It damn sure is different with somebody else! 'Nuff said.

 

[Ezzie]

My list of no no's:

No one under 18
No animals of any kind
No playing with things that belong in the toilet
Nothing that is dead

I'm sure there are other things but those four are the first things that popped into my head.

As for one night stands, only been in one and am still suffering the consequences from that. But it was fun getting to experiment but I probably wouldn't do it again. I figure if I fall in love with someone then I can tell him what I like and want to try and we'd go from there.

Ezzie http://smilecwm.tripod.com/fk/witch.gif

 

[Jade]

the main purpose would be to find out if sex is different with different people.

It damn sure is different with somebody else! 'Nuff said.

April!
Thank you for telling me that! I always wondered....!!

 

[April]

Is that sarcasm I see? LOL

 

[Jonas]

I've been in the same LTR for over 18 years. We keep sex fresh by being open to new and exciting (at least to us), ideas. Our relationship is open. It's based on trust and honesty. There is nothing we wouldn't do to amuse each other. Of course this excludes the aforementioned-animals, children, pain, bodily wastes, etc.

One nighters can never be that open. They're basic sex only-protection required.