In my first two signature posts, I outlined what my hopes and desires are, for an intimate mail relationship. And I told to every woman interested, why she might possibly like me, perhaps even a lot. And here I want to lay out my thoughts on a few essentials, that you should bring to the party, so everything can work out.
In a nutshell, every one of these essentials is one form or another of civility. Which you either possess, or you don't. You ought to want to ■ fully respond to the messages I send you, I mean to everything essential in them, while we are getting to know one another at least. Specifically questions I ask you. When a mail of mine contains let's say three of them, I find it hard to swallow, if you replied to only one. Of course, if you responded to some thoughts put on the table also, I would find that wonderful.
And I would not mind if you did not wait a week or so, before you reply to a mail I send you. I will do the same for you, of course.
And I need to sense a certain amount of ■ empathy in you, from your mails. Empathy is important for me, and when I see mine not being responded to, that turns me off in a flash.
And then I find ■ a curious and open mind on your part essential as well. Because I tick that way, and I am afraid I won't get along with a woman who is very different in that respect.
That was my shorter – and better-explained-than-before – "wish list" of what I would like you to be like. I suppose a certain amount of maturity in you would be nice as well, and a born-with, or easily acquired, wish for treating everyone you meet with civility. But I suppose if all the above essentials exist within you, these two others will be there as well.
Of course, it goes without saying so, that everything I seek in you I am offering to you as well.
In a nutshell, every one of these essentials is one form or another of civility. Which you either possess, or you don't. You ought to want to ■ fully respond to the messages I send you, I mean to everything essential in them, while we are getting to know one another at least. Specifically questions I ask you. When a mail of mine contains let's say three of them, I find it hard to swallow, if you replied to only one. Of course, if you responded to some thoughts put on the table also, I would find that wonderful.
And I would not mind if you did not wait a week or so, before you reply to a mail I send you. I will do the same for you, of course.
And I need to sense a certain amount of ■ empathy in you, from your mails. Empathy is important for me, and when I see mine not being responded to, that turns me off in a flash.
And then I find ■ a curious and open mind on your part essential as well. Because I tick that way, and I am afraid I won't get along with a woman who is very different in that respect.
That was my shorter – and better-explained-than-before – "wish list" of what I would like you to be like. I suppose a certain amount of maturity in you would be nice as well, and a born-with, or easily acquired, wish for treating everyone you meet with civility. But I suppose if all the above essentials exist within you, these two others will be there as well.
Of course, it goes without saying so, that everything I seek in you I am offering to you as well.
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