What would you do?

[symbolicflame]

Ok here is the drama as it is going on at this very moment. My girlfriend lives in different town not far and I normally go up on weekends and spend it with her. Yesterday I was too tired to make the drive, though I did spend the day on Friday taking her out to breakfast and shopping, so I stayed in town and got some needed sleep. She went out last night like always, no big deal, I do not drink and she does in excess (sp?), well she ended up taking another female home that she had just met. (stated she did not want to have her drive home drunk, she lives in my town! and I just met her and her g-friend yesterday. They got into a fight and so my g-friend takes her home, slept in same bed, they both swear nothing happened. I went over when my g-friend followed her back to town (why would she do that?) and now has spent the day with her claiming to be a friend and help her sort her shit out in the way of feelings. Well I called g-friend earlier on cell, no answer, called her house, no answer, called cell back and got her, she was still in my town, down at the local straight bar, making sure her new friend (who is wasted beyong belief) gets home. So I went down there, even though I have never been in the place. I walk in and she is getting digits from a "straight" girl. The new friend is drunk as hell, and then my girl tells me that other hit on her. I said give her truck key and I will drive you to get your car. I asked her to do this 5 times. I finally walked out before I started a fight with someone. I then just called to see if she gave her key back and was ready for me to come get her to take her to her car and she said no she wanted to make sure new friend got home safe. I said I did not understand why she would want to be in a car with someone who she just stated to me has been hitting on her. WTF? So then she says we are not committed, ok what in the hell have we been doing for the past year and a half? Playing games?
Oh and in the last year and a half she has been only to my town once, saying her car is too old to make the trip!
I feel like such a fool and so damn confused!

 

[Mr. Briggs]

I know it's tough but life is way too short to go thru bs like this. I say move on. You deserve way better than that.

 

[Lansky_Lair]

what would i do?

i'd say, commit to this, bitch, and walk away

but i have too much attitude for my own good

kelly

 

[symbolicflame]

I have found my answer in all places a song. A 1980's song at that! I love Phil Collins and have for years and was listening to his songs yesterday and "I don't care anymore" was played.
The lyrics inspired me to yes to think about it, but not let her bring me down. Basically me and her were on two levels, I was on the up and up and wanting to live life. She is on the level that is lower than a streetwalker. So I move on!
Thanks you to for responding!

 

[kbate]

I shall answer in stolen lyrics, as you found your solace in such:


Your cheating heart will make you weep
You'll cry and cry and try to sleep
But sleep won't come the whole night through
Your cheating heart will tell on you

***

The problem is all inside your head, she said to me
The answer is easy if you take it logically
Id like to help you in your struggle to be free
There must be fifty ways to leave your lover.

***
Don't take your love away from me
Don't you leave my heart in misery
If you go then I'll be blue
'Cause breaking up is hard to do

***

You gave me love
You did me wrong
Didn't know what to do
But baby I'm strong
I'll get over you
A new girl I'm gonna choose
My love was true
You threw it all away
Other girls will have me
They'll appreciate my love
How does it feel
You know that I needed you
You know that you meant the world to me
You know I had to have you
Now I'm gonna find somebody new

I'm looking for a new love baby
A new love Yea yea yea yeah
What she got does she turn you on
Curiosity rules my brain
Bet she wouldn't mind if we're all apart
Are you going back again, tell me
My love was true but you threw it all away
Now your like the rest unworthy of my best
I still miss ya, baby
You know that I needed you
You know that you meant the world to me
You know I had to have you
Now I'm gonna find somebody else

 

[mynameiskate]

hmm...

I don't know. I would move on. Sounds like she's not that interested.

 

[Leashed]

I agree with everyone else. It doesn't sound like she shows you much respect