HARDKOREBJ
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caught your kids drinking or smoking.
what would you do...
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Bob Peale
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That depends on how old they are.
16 - We'd have to talk about the long term impact of their actions, and I'd probably encourage moderation. I'd also reinforce that, under NO circumstances should they should get behind the wheel in that state, or get in a car with any of their friends who were drinking.
12 - We'd have to sek counseling as a family. A child experimenting at so young an age indicates greater problems, the least of which is the substance abuse.
4 - Pop a beer and join 'em cause we're all fucked.
16 - We'd have to talk about the long term impact of their actions, and I'd probably encourage moderation. I'd also reinforce that, under NO circumstances should they should get behind the wheel in that state, or get in a car with any of their friends who were drinking.
12 - We'd have to sek counseling as a family. A child experimenting at so young an age indicates greater problems, the least of which is the substance abuse.
4 - Pop a beer and join 'em cause we're all fucked.
Kymberley
I perfected 'BITCHYNESS'
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Caught both my step daughters smoking and drunk after I got home from work one night.
I had fought a long battle in court to get custody of them away from my hubby I was seperated from and their bio mom. I did it because they begged me to help them. They claimed to want a normal life with a normal mom.
When they found out that normal meant following the rules as well, things got rough. I grounded them both from the phone, leaving the house with their friends, and even leaving the bedroom.
I made them both go to work with me each night at midnight when I left. The youngest one stopped. The oldest one left 3 months later when she turned 18.
The youngest did great for another year and then a week before her 18th birthday, she left with a boyfriend. Both girls were sluts, sadly after watching the bio mom bringing home all her men over the years and both needed love so badly from a man since thier dad was a pathetic excuse for a sperm donor.
By the time they both turned 19 they were living and partying with the bio mom in Colorado. The youngest is now 20 with twins about 18 months old, and one on the way. The oldest is 21 with a 2 year old and one on the way.
My sons after watching the addictions of their step brothers, step father and bio dads, stay away from all of that.
I had fought a long battle in court to get custody of them away from my hubby I was seperated from and their bio mom. I did it because they begged me to help them. They claimed to want a normal life with a normal mom.
When they found out that normal meant following the rules as well, things got rough. I grounded them both from the phone, leaving the house with their friends, and even leaving the bedroom.
I made them both go to work with me each night at midnight when I left. The youngest one stopped. The oldest one left 3 months later when she turned 18.
The youngest did great for another year and then a week before her 18th birthday, she left with a boyfriend. Both girls were sluts, sadly after watching the bio mom bringing home all her men over the years and both needed love so badly from a man since thier dad was a pathetic excuse for a sperm donor.
By the time they both turned 19 they were living and partying with the bio mom in Colorado. The youngest is now 20 with twins about 18 months old, and one on the way. The oldest is 21 with a 2 year old and one on the way.
My sons after watching the addictions of their step brothers, step father and bio dads, stay away from all of that.
