What would you do?

[wildp]

This has kinda been covered in other threads but lets see if this takes off. My gf had mentioned a previous guy and told me about their relationship. That it was just a fling which meant sex but that it also eneded bad. So then somehow the previous guys starts messaging me sending me naked pics of her that he took and that she sent him. Then he sent a video of him fucking the absolute hell out of her all night one night. What would do? Has you ever had an ex actaully show stuff not just say it? And all that

was sent to me was from the past not while her and I been together​

 

[savmitch1038]

Consider yourself lucky. Now you know that your girl is properly trained! Maybe she is also kinky and wants you to share her with her past "fling".

 

[bigpecker7]

This has kinda been covered in other threads but lets see if this takes off. My gf had mentioned a previous guy and told me about their relationship. That it was just a fling which meant sex but that it also eneded bad. So then somehow the previous guys starts messaging me sending me naked pics of her that he took and that she sent him. Then he sent a video of him fucking the absolute hell out of her all night one night. What would do? Has you ever had an ex actaully show stuff not just say it? And all that

was sent to me was from the past not while her and I been together​

Does your girl know you have the pictures of her and the video?​

 

[wildp]

Does your girl know you have the pictures of her and the video?

The pics yes, the video no. Awesome and hilarious thumbnail you have by the way lol

 

[HordHolm]

This has kinda been covered in other threads but lets see if this takes off. My gf had mentioned a previous guy and told me about their relationship. That it was just a fling which meant sex but that it also eneded bad. So then somehow the previous guys starts messaging me sending me naked pics of her that he took and that she sent him. Then he sent a video of him fucking the absolute hell out of her all night one night. What would do? Has you ever had an ex actaully show stuff not just say it? And all that

was sent to me was from the past not while her and I been together​

There are some questions here;

1. What is the ex after with all this? Is he gaslighting you? Is he trying to start a fight? Does he want you to get horrified, dump your g/f so he can get back with her? Or does he want something sexual with both of you? Is he being a stalker?

2. What does your g/f think about her ex? About you having the pics of her that her ex sent? Is she horrified or embarrassed? Or turned on? Or is she just like, "oh, it's just John being John," and shrugging her shoulders? Is she scared about it to the point you might want to consider involving the authorities?

3. What are your feelings in all this? Does it turn you on? Piss you off? Leave you confused? Make you want to beat the guy down? Or beat him down and then screw him? Or have him beat you down and screw you?

You see, there are so many different possibilities.

And no, I've never had a partner's ex send me stuff, but my reaction if it did happen would depend on the answers to a lot of questions; I might love it, hate it, report it, ignore it.​

 

[artgorden]

I would watch the video with her. Tell her I loved the way he fucks the shit outta her. Then I would would ask if he ever let a man blow him. Just me. Thats what I would do.

 

[HoldYouDown]

That's messed up.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

This has kinda been covered in other threads but lets see if this takes off. My gf had mentioned a previous guy and told me about their relationship. That it was just a fling which meant sex but that it also eneded bad. So then somehow the previous guys starts messaging me sending me naked pics of her that he took and that she sent him. Then he sent a video of him fucking the absolute hell out of her all night one night. What would do? Has you ever had an ex actaully show stuff not just say it? And all that

was sent to me was from the past not while her and I been together​

I would fuck her sister on her living room couch while she watched, then drag her by the hair of her head to the ex-boyfriend take his phone and shove it up his ass past my elbow and make him suck my dick in front of her.
That's my version of sharing.​

 

[klippert]

How did he get your number ???

 

[wildp]

How did he get your number ???

sent message to one of social media apps

 

[twister947]

I would hire someone to break his leg.

 

[wildp]

I would hire someone to break his leg.

break leg or more

 

[Crankbait88]

This has kinda been covered in other threads but lets see if this takes off. My gf had mentioned a previous guy and told me about their relationship. That it was just a fling which meant sex but that it also eneded bad. So then somehow the previous guys starts messaging me sending me naked pics of her that he took and that she sent him. Then he sent a video of him fucking the absolute hell out of her all night one night. What would do? Has you ever had an ex actaully show stuff not just say it? And all that

was sent to me was from the past not while her and I been together​

I'd kick his ass.​

 

[screwher]

I’d just enjoy what he sent me. Sending this material would be just to get me worked up and maybe try to hurt our marriage. Well the jokes on him! I’d love nothing more than having a video of my sexy wifey getting pounded!

I guess if I wanted to mess with him in return, I’d thank him and tell him I sold to video to a smut site for some major $$$.

 

[Tubesocklover]

That's messed up.

Agreed. Despite having an upbringing that promoted sharing, I don't share my women with anyone. I understand they're not property but when im in a relationship its between har and i. If i got those pics and videos id be super pissed and want to do something about it.

That being said there really isnt much you can do! Unfortunately she made the choice(i assume) to be photographed and video taped. Something i never condone.

Id probably have a response something like "Thanks, but i do her better" and leave it at that.

 

[HordHolm]

That being said there really isnt much you can do! Unfortunately she made the choice(i assume) to be photographed and video taped. Something i never condone.

I must confess to some ignorance here - the OP's location is abbreviated to 'tn', would I be correct in concluding this refers to Tennessee? From which I think there are some other questions to ask re; your point above that there isn't much that can be done. In particular, what's the law in Tennessee about sending explicit material unsolicited to a third party? Would this qualify as 'revenge porn' and if so how does the law react to that in Tennessee? Because the fact someone agreed to be photographed/filmed, need not amount to an agreement to those images being shared.

We still don't know from the OP whether the g/f, who is aware of the photographs being sent, is content that this has happened. If she isn't, can she make a complaint to the relevant authorities, and if so might this lead to charges? Are there grounds for a) a restraining order in the absence of law enforcement involvement, and b) contacting the ex's cell service provider with evidence that these activities have taken place with the aim of preventing a repeat? All this on the understanding that the g/f ain't happy with what's occurring. If, otoh, she doesn't give a shit, then we need not be concerned for her.

The more I follow this thread the more I'm torn between two things; the fact that the g/f's feelings/position on all this seems not to even factor in to the OP's questions - honestly, there might be some really creepy, stalker shit going on here and he seems not to be considering this aspect of it. Or there might be nothing to see here, and the OP might just be sitting there with a made up problem, no g/f, no pics, no video, and getting us all to comment for reasons that are beyond me.

 

[Tubesocklover]

I must confess to some ignorance here - the OP's location is abbreviated to 'tn', would I be correct in concluding this refers to Tennessee? From which I think there are some other questions to ask re; your point above that there isn't much that can be done. In particular, what's the law in Tennessee about sending explicit material unsolicited to a third party? Would this qualify as 'revenge porn' and if so how does the law react to that in Tennessee? Because the fact someone agreed to be photographed/filmed, need not amount to an agreement to those images being shared.

We still don't know from the OP whether the g/f, who is aware of the photographs being sent, is content that this has happened. If she isn't, can she make a complaint to the relevant authorities, and if so might this lead to charges? Are there grounds for a) a restraining order in the absence of law enforcement involvement, and b) contacting the ex's cell service provider with evidence that these activities have taken place with the aim of preventing a repeat? All this on the understanding that the g/f ain't happy with what's occurring. If, otoh, she doesn't give a shit, then we need not be concerned for her.

The more I follow this thread the more I'm torn between two things; the fact that the g/f's feelings/position on all this seems not to even factor in to the OP's questions - honestly, there might be some really creepy, stalker shit going on here and he seems not to be considering this aspect of it. Or there might be nothing to see here, and the OP might just be sitting there with a made up problem, no g/f, no pics, no video, and getting us all to comment for reasons that are beyond me.

Agreed. More details needed for sure. An excellent point on state laws as well. Hopefully I am never in this position but I will remember that for future.

And if shes content that'd be my signal to hit the eject button. Just a personal feeling on it.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Agreed. More details needed for sure. An excellent point on state laws as well. Hopefully I am never in this position but I will remember that for future.

And if shes content that'd be my signal to hit the eject button. Just a personal feeling on it.

all the talk about state laws and porn sending over thephone or internet or whatever, is all well and fine, if the person is willing to go to court and wash this all out in public. But on the other end of that it is only effective if the person you are going after is AFRAID of going to jail. People like me or worse, are not afraid. We have been there and we ALL know they can't keep ya forever, someday ya gonna get out.
Everything ya got out here, they got in there... and some places have better shit than you have, being free out on the street. Ya just have to be a little tighter with your game, than ya are on the street.

 

[Tubesocklover]

all the talk about state laws and porn sending over thephone or internet or whatever, is all well and fine, if the person is willing to go to court and wash this all out in public. But on the other end of that it is only effective if the person you are going after is AFRAID of going to jail. People like me or worse, are not afraid. We have been there and we ALL know they can't keep ya forever, someday ya gonna get out.
Everything ya got out here, they got in there... and some places have better shit than you have, being free out on the street. Ya just have to be a little tighter with your game, than ya are on the street.

Of course and yes the exposure etc is enough to keep people from doing anything; however, some will go through with it. Me, id just wash my hands of the whole situation if she wasn't willing to do anything about it. I ain't desperate.

 

[PapaDan]

This has kinda been covered in other threads but lets see if this takes off. My gf had mentioned a previous guy and told me about their relationship. That it was just a fling which meant sex but that it also eneded bad. So then somehow the previous guys starts messaging me sending me naked pics of her that he took and that she sent him. Then he sent a video of him fucking the absolute hell out of her all night one night. What would do? Has you ever had an ex actaully show stuff not just say it? And all that

was sent to me was from the past not while her and I been together​

Simple! Ask him for more. Send him an email and ask if he has anymore videos like the last one. Tell him that while you and your wife were watching the one he sent, it was the best sex you've ever had.

And if you really want to piss him off, describe in detail the fantastic sex you and your wife had while watching his video, and how hard she made you cum.

And if you really, really want to piss him off, tell him: "No offence, but, you know, if your dick was a little bigger, maybe she would have stayed with you."

For whatever reason, the moron is trying to piss you off. If he thinks it's turning you on, he will probably stop.​

 

[bigpecker7]

Do you think your girl still has feelings for this guy, and that’s the reason she’s not reacting to the pictures being sent.

 

[cuckoldbill]

Interesting thread.

 

[ukcouple4play]

My now wife told me she still had sex vids and pics of her and her ex. So I asked if I could see them lol. Different thing I know but thought I'd put it out there.

 

[drobert44]

This has kinda been covered in other threads but lets see if this takes off. My gf had mentioned a previous guy and told me about their relationship. That it was just a fling which meant sex but that it also eneded bad. So then somehow the previous guys starts messaging me sending me naked pics of her that he took and that she sent him. Then he sent a video of him fucking the absolute hell out of her all night one night. What would do? Has you ever had an ex actaully show stuff not just say it? And all that

was sent to me was from the past not while her and I been together​

At least U got a lively one!