What would you do in this situation?

[Carl East]

Picture the scene: You've just had a blazing row with the man/woman in your life, whom you love dearly.

Do you make the first move to patch things up, (whether you feel you're in the right or not) or are you too stubborn to make the effort?

Carl

 

[red_rose]

I assume that by "blazing row" you mean a fight?

I think it depends on the situation. What was the fight about?

 

[KillerMuffin]

I make him suffer of course. The longer the better.

Blazing rows at our house are beastly things. Someone might ring the Bobbies over it.

 

[wizbit9]

i give in and try and patch it up as soon as possible wheras the partners i have had have been very stubborn and i've had to give in anyway

 

[Carl East]

I assume that by "blazing row" you mean a fight?

I think it depends on the situation. What was the fight about?

Yes I do mean a fight, as to what the fight was about, you know the petty kind of arguements that we all have from time to time.

Carl

 

[TantaLiza]

If there was a chance...

That I was in the wrong, then I would apologize...have to admit that if I am wrong I'll be damned if I do the groveling...Sorry! I'm told that I'm wrong so much of the time that I can't help rubbing it in when I am right...

 

[Andreina]

I'm a sucker for harmony so I'd try to make things up - according to my conditions


Halo

 

[Carl East]

I make him suffer of course. The longer the better.

Blazing rows at our house are beastly things. Someone might ring the Bobbies over it.

In that case KM, what do you do on those occasions when after thinking it through, you see he has a good point. Will you swallow your pride and apologize?

Carl

 

[Liontamr]

I try to take a few moments away from her, cool down, think about what we just fought about and then go back to her and try to talk it over and reach a compromise.

I hate admiting I'm wrong, but I also hate fooling myself that I'm right.. So for what it's worth, I usually say my sorries forst, and hope that I get one or two in return. (a dance needs to partners...)

And of course the hot make up sessions after make the fighting almost seem worthwhile!

 

[KillerMuffin]

I always do, Carl. Even here.

 

[TN_Vixen]

I make him suffer of course. The longer the better.

Blazing rows at our house are beastly things. Someone might ring the Bobbies over it.

lol, oh god, being stubborn does have its drawbacks, doesn't it?

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Picture the scene: You've just had a blazing row with the man/woman in your life, whom you love dearly.

Do you make the first move to patch things up, (whether you feel you're in the right or not) or are you too stubborn to make the effort?

Carl

I get quiet for a bit, take a deep breath, then make the effort as soon as possible to patch things up (whether I'm right or wrong).

Time is too precious for me at this point in my life!

If either of us needs more time to "cool down", we talk about it before going our separate ways.

 

[Carl East]

Re: Re: What would you do in this situation?

I get quiet for a bit, take a deep breath, then make the effort as soon as possible to patch things up (whether I'm right or wrong).

Time is too precious for me at this point in my life!

If either of us needs more time to "cool down", we talk about it before going our separate ways.

That's just what I'm like, I won't talk for hours, in an effort to calm down I suppose.

One thing I never do though is bare a grudge, I want to get past it and move on, if you know what I mean.

Carl

 

[Saint Peter]

Dont go to bed mad and dont leave the house mad. One never knows when the last goodbye is the last.

 

[Jewelz]

I have to have my space to calm and think about it. After analyzing every little detail, I will go to him and always talk about it. try to patch it up and to get him to communicate with me too. we usually can kiss and make up pretty easily but when i am very pissed, i make him suffer the silent treatment. or quick, cut off answers.