What was your best (or fav) mind fuck

[MasterNico]

My fav so far was with a submissive that was deathly afraid of knives. She has been to one of my knife play classes and asked if I would help her overcome her fears. she came over, and I blindfolded her after she saw my knife collection. (I know a guy at the local flea market, so I have LOTS of blades of varying shapes and sizes)
One by one, I laid them on her back, telling her "This is next" and then I would run the tips over her back and around her sides. I started off with a small kitchen paring knife. Each knife got bigger and bigger until I was laying full swords on her.
When we were done, I asked which knife she liked best, she had figured that out already and she told me, then I asked which she liked least. She was very adamant that she didn't like the big sword.
Then I told her the truth. I never actually touched her with anything but the little paring knife. She was sure I was lying, but everyone in the room saw what I was doing and told her it was the truth, and I giggled my ass off.

I love being a sadist!



I'd love to hear about some other good ones, with the disclaimer that I just may usethem sometime

 

[Etoile]

Hmmm, I'm not sure if I'd consider that a mindfuck. I guess so, but I tend to think of mindfucks as being more painful and emotionally hurtful, rather than just playing with somebody's head.

I can't say I have a favorite mindfuck. The ones I've endured so far have been pretty hard. I've always been relieved when they're over.

 

[Jessalynvix]

I would say that is was when my Domme and I were being intimate and She started in with saying Daddi's going to do this and she did it. My mind was realing before she was done because it was so intense because I hadn't been expecting that.

 

[Phoenix Stone]

Okaay, Great!! This is what I've been asking about, as I'm a newbie who is still figuring out her territory, and have found that while I love control, and even force stuff, it's the mental play that gets me much more than the physical. I love when someone is doing things to you, or having you do them, and insists you maintain eye contact, especially as you are being told what is going to happen next.

My favorite so far (I'm working on far surpassing this with my dh), was when someone I'd been confiding in online, someone who had been sweet and respectful of boundaries, etc. joined a board I frequented, and started a pretend scene with someone else, that was all about how he'd get to know her, be sweet, be whoever she wanted him to be online, never betraying her secrets, hoarding everything he learned away like gold, and all the time figuring out where she lived.... A stalker scenario. He did it deliberately to scare the hell out of me, and it worked. I felt compelled for my safety and peace of mind to read the whole thing through, and what really got me was the sexy description of licking up her (my) leg, ending with something about giving into her (my) dark side and the line, 'you Know you want to....'
Really set me up. Sheesh. lol

For me, it's usually that extra unexpected edge that gets me. Let's see what the rest of you have got. I don't and shouldn't have gotten into any of this elsewhere but am really looking to find out more about how mindplay works so I can incorporate it.

Does anyone have a story where no one got hurt and it was truly sexy to the person it happened to?

 

[sigsauerprinces]

my favorite kind of mindfuck is when he does something really intense, or unexpected, and i find myself kind of wondering how far he's going to go..wondering if he is really in total control of himself. of course he is always in control of himself, but in the heat of the moment it can feel quite the opposite. that fear, of wondering wtf ive got myself into, wondering how much he's going to hurt me, is my favorite mind fuck

 

[CharleyH]

Hmmm, I'm not sure if I'd consider that a mindfuck. I guess so, but I tend to think of mindfucks as being more painful and emotionally hurtful, rather than just playing with somebody's head.

I can't say I have a favorite mindfuck. The ones I've endured so far have been pretty hard. I've always been relieved when they're over.

Agree, and done it a number of times as an intellectual player - but emotion and stability is fragile, and one must learn to let go of it before the sub gets more than hurt . . . being able to read a person is a good trait . . .just a responsibility issue. Such mind fucks resonate for days - lord - weeks, much more than bruises etc. Thank you Etoile.

 

[InnerDarkness]

I have a bit of trouble classifying what a mindfuck is for me. But I do agree that I get off on the MENTAL game sometimes as much, if not more so than the physical. I want imagery, illusion and the twisting of my mind in His hands...

I can think of it in a good context like when my first Sir once told me exactly a detailed plan of how he was going to fuck my ass one night...took me to the store to buy the lube, talked to me about it all day...actually for two days, got me all ready for it...I was rather scared because his cock was sizeable and we had not done that yet....and then when the time came...he didn't do it. He had me completely prepared, and excited...and I actually WANTED it, and then it didn't happen. Another time it was more of a training issue with him fucking my throat..he wouldn't speak, he wouldn't let me touch him, my mind was racing, I was scared, and there was...NOTHING...nothing but his cock and my fear as he gagged me over and over with it. My mind was my own worst (and ultimately best) enemy that day.

In a bad context, I can think of times when an online Sir would threaten to leave/sever contact if I did not respond in certain ways...would use bit of information against me...things of that nature...I'm not so keen on those...

 

[MastrJ]

I recently did something very similar to the ass fuck mind-play to my sub. However it was simply over handcuffs. I had written a story describing our next scene. In the scene I mentioned using the metal handcuffs she has. We don't use them often, and they're honestly not one of her favorites when we are playing. I did the scene just like the story. I had her blindfolded and she heard me get the handcuffs. I ran them over her body. Passed the clasps all the way through when I was ready to put them on her. What she didn't know was I had brought out our rope cuffs and used them instead. Her knees almost buckled when she realized I had only used the sounds of the metal cuffs to trick her.

 

[Phoenix Stone]

I have a bit of trouble classifying what a mindfuck is for me. But I do agree that I get off on the MENTAL game sometimes as much, if not more so than the physical. I want imagery, illusion and the twisting of my mind in His hands...

This is It for me. In fact I probably don't really belong on the BDSM board as this is practically All of it for me, except that there is no place else for me to go on Literotica. (LOVE romance, it just doesnt give me a sexual rush unfortunately. Only edgy stuff and intensity does that.) Wrists being held is nice, and I still love hickeys, but almost all the rest of the bdsm list I saw doesnt do anything else for me (jury is still out on spanking, as I hear it has to be done a certain way to be most effective.) A good mindfuck however... Yow! And I include control with words, and force when you don't need to in that category. Is there some other word for what most of us seem to be talking about? Mindplay?

So much of can be in the timing. It can be as simple as saying, 'suck me now,' if it's said when it's unexpected or in circumstances where it's inappropriate, for example. Something that makes you squirm, something that reaches down into that dark place, that vulnerable place and makes you give a very shaky 'oh yesssss.' If done right, there's a sense of suddenly being exposed, a kind of gasp -- of wonder, fear, pleasure. You've been seen, and someone has enjoyed doing it. Funnily enough, it's kind of the opposite of shaming, because now there is someone in that place with you.

Does anybody else get what I mean or am I alone in this? Is there a name for this?

 

[sigsauerprinces]

This is It for me. In fact I probably don't really belong on the BDSM board as this is practically All of it for me, except that there is no place else for me to go on Literotica. (LOVE romance, it just doesnt give me a sexual rush unfortunately. Only edgy stuff and intensity does that.) Wrists being held is nice, and I still love hickeys, but almost all the rest of the bdsm list I saw doesnt do anything else for me (jury is still out on spanking, as I hear it has to be done a certain way to be most effective.) A good mindfuck however... Yow! And I include control with words, and force when you don't need to in that category. Is there some other word for what most of us seem to be talking about? Mindplay?

So much of can be in the timing. It can be as simple as saying, 'suck me now,' if it's said when it's unexpected or in circumstances where it's inappropriate, for example. Something that makes you squirm, something that reaches down into that dark place, that vulnerable place and makes you give a very shaky 'oh yesssss.' If done right, there's a sense of suddenly being exposed, a kind of gasp -- of wonder, fear, pleasure. You've been seen, and someone has enjoyed doing it. Funnily enough, it's kind of the opposite of shaming, because now there is someone in that place with you.

Does anybody else get what I mean or am I alone in this? Is there a name for this?

i totally get what you're saying i dont know a name for it tho. its just one of those indescribable feelings that you actually did a really good job describing-that feeling, is just amazing.

 

[Kajira Callista]

i totally get what you're saying i dont know a name for it tho. its just one of those indescribable feelings that you actually did a really good job describing-that feeling, is just amazing.

perfect

 

[InnerDarkness]

Something that makes you squirm, something that reaches down into that dark place, that vulnerable place and makes you give a very shaky 'oh yesssss.' If done right, there's a sense of suddenly being exposed, a kind of gasp -- of wonder, fear, pleasure. You've been seen, and someone has enjoyed doing it. Funnily enough, it's kind of the opposite of shaming, because now there is someone in that place with you.

Does anybody else get what I mean or am I alone in this? Is there a name for this?

YES YES YES YES YES YES YES!!!

I dont get into most of the physical domination parts of BDSM...some, but not all, but give me the mental domination ANY day...I loved your descriptions ...nothing gets me wetter and more turned on that being controlled through words...that is probably why online play is something I can accept and participate in easily. I dont NEED the physical touch to enjoy the mental mind fuck.

 

[MasterNico]

WOW, it seems we all have a slightly differing idea as to what constiutes a mind fuck. That's very cool. To me, the journey I took her on was almost all in her mind. What was being done to her happened in her imagination, regardless of what the reality was. Breaking the news to her and seeing her squirm over it was my cherry on top. Good stuff in here though, thanks folks. Can't wait to see more.

 

[esclave_PP]

Perhaps "mind fuck" is a misleading term. How about "overwhelming the senses" or "sending the slave/sub deep" to that place where we get alllll squishy and squirmy.

Guess for me it is when Master binds me in shibari, immobilizing me and making it quite impossible to do anything but submit to His desires, wants and needs -- that sends me over the edge. Not really sure that qualifies as a "mind fuck" but the things He says to me while doing it ---- oooooo, I just get squishy thinking of it...

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

My fav so far was with a submissive that was deathly afraid of knives. She has been to one of my knife play classes and asked if I would help her overcome her fears. she came over, and I blindfolded her after she saw my knife collection. (I know a guy at the local flea market, so I have LOTS of blades of varying shapes and sizes)
One by one, I laid them on her back, telling her "This is next" and then I would run the tips over her back and around her sides. I started off with a small kitchen paring knife. Each knife got bigger and bigger until I was laying full swords on her.
When we were done, I asked which knife she liked best, she had figured that out already and she told me, then I asked which she liked least. She was very adamant that she didn't like the big sword.
Then I told her the truth. I never actually touched her with anything but the little paring knife. She was sure I was lying, but everyone in the room saw what I was doing and told her it was the truth, and I giggled my ass off.

I love being a sadist!



I'd love to hear about some other good ones, with the disclaimer that I just may usethem sometime

Mind fucks rock. I very much enjoyed reading yours, Nico. You obviously love your work *grin*. Here's the story of one that I enjoyed very, very much....

We had talked about doing some fire play. We had the appropriate flammables there. He had me face down, blindfolded, at the end of a long scene, and he kept telling me it was coming up, was I ready for it, keeping me nervy, and on the edge. Next thing I know, somewhere near my nose I smell the very distinct smell of lighter fluid. The fear just consumed me. I'm thinking "WAIT. You KNOW you can't use THAT", when something splashes in a stream across my back. I was so scared...but also knew that HE knew what was proper and right, and I was confused and tripping, thinking, nahhh, no way, but there was that smell still very strong in my nose, and I was whirling and flying, and subspace had me all twisted around. My skin was flinching and my brain was whirling, and I heard the lighter click. I have never been so scared in my life....waiting for it.

His fingers slid across my back...came into my mouth...and they were sweet.

He had splashed pepsi across my back.

I was completely, unbelievably wet. Lying in a puddle of my own juices (and pepsi too, I imagine *grin*)

Mind fucks. I love them.

~anelize

 

[sigsauerprinces]

Re: Re: What was your best (or fav) mind fuck

Mind fucks rock. I very much enjoyed reading yours, Nico. You obviously love your work *grin*. Here's the story of one that I enjoyed very, very much....

We had talked about doing some fire play. We had the appropriate flammables there. He had me face down, blindfolded, at the end of a long scene, and he kept telling me it was coming up, was I ready for it, keeping me nervy, and on the edge. Next thing I know, somewhere near my nose I smell the very distinct smell of lighter fluid. The fear just consumed me. I'm thinking "WAIT. You KNOW you can't use THAT", when something splashes in a stream across my back. I was so scared...but also knew that HE knew what was proper and right, and I was confused and tripping, thinking, nahhh, no way, but there was that smell still very strong in my nose, and I was whirling and flying, and subspace had me all twisted around. My skin was flinching and my brain was whirling, and I heard the lighter click. I have never been so scared in my life....waiting for it.

His fingers slid across my back...came into my mouth...and they were sweet.

He had splashed pepsi across my back.

I was completely, unbelievably wet. Lying in a puddle of my own juices (and pepsi too, I imagine *grin*)

Mind fucks. I love them.

~anelize

i have to admit, that sounds pretty cool...im envious

 

[InnerDarkness]

Re: Re: What was your best (or fav) mind fuck

He had splashed pepsi across my back.

now THAT is a mind fuck!!!

wow....

 

[Phoenix Stone]

YES YES YES YES YES YES YES!!!

I dont get into most of the physical domination parts of BDSM...some, but not all, but give me the mental domination ANY day...I loved your descriptions ...nothing gets me wetter and more turned on that being controlled through words...that is probably why online play is something I can accept and participate in easily. I dont NEED the physical touch to enjoy the mental mind fuck.

I'm that way, too!!!

In fact, I discovered this really from corresponding online. Which I did because of something that happened in rl that made me realize I need to figure out more about my sexuality and how to get what I want. To get what you want you have to know what it is!

So I went online, first to a non-consent board (because I'd long had control/force fantasies). They thought I belonged more in bdsm and sent me to bdsmlibrary but it didn't seem to be quite a fit either. I'm at the very light end of both non-consent and bdsm, yet making it heavier didn't seem to make it more edgy for me. And I wanted/needed more edge!

(Hope I'm not highjacking the thread, Nico, by writing about myself here. I bumped several mindplay/manipulation type threads back up but didn't get much response. This is the closest thing I've found to my Area and I really really want to talk about it. I'll understand if you kick me off, though.)

InnerDarkness and Kajira and others, this sounds funny but thank you, too, for relating to this!! Knowing that there are other people out there who know what I'm talking about helps. I feel like I Get the mental side of the physical play -- without wanting or needing to get into the physical side. REALLY need more about how to get into the mental side of it though.

In RL I'm trying different things with my husband to try to get that rush I've gotten from just a few well timed-words. Still figuring it out. There have been hints and clues and I'm getting closer but not there, yet. I love that 'you love this, don't you?' kind of stuff about something I feel ashamed for admitting that I love (but it only works when it's true -- otherwise it does the wrong kind of mindfuck.) And being talked to commandingly -- come here, spread your legs, etc. especially when he has me keep looking him in the eye while he's doing it.

I've figured out something about liking to serve. And have found all the online talk about what makes someone a 'real submissive' interesting (though ultimately pointless as it only matters to each what works for them, no matter what they call it.) It feels like I could do the 24 hour thing and possibly even mindfuck myself (in a bad way) into a TPE I'd be totally unsuited to. Yet, just serving doesn't seem to be quite it, either.

Almost seems like we need a Literotica thread on finding yourself. For those who don't fit the regular categories.

As a Mindfucker (mind if I make up my own category? Maybe that should be Mindfuckee? Or Mindplayed? (as opposed to Mindplayer). There are probably the usual subcategories -- masochist/painslut (is that a politically incorrect term? If so, sorry!) switch; those who like humilation, such as name-calling, etc. Any thoughts on all this would be very welcome. As a Mindfuckplay-person, it seems like this can get you in more trouble than the more physical kind, as it's easier to have your kinky mind get sneaked up on. (You may love whips but not too many people carry them around or bring them out to show you.) Talk, though, is all around us. So easy, so seemingly harmless, so seductive....

 

[InnerDarkness]

Phoenix Stone....I liked your post...you summed up a lot of my thoughts about my own form of submission with your words. I have to run off to work, but hope to post a response tonight.

Since I was a young teen, it was always the words and the created situations more than the force or the physical domination that did it for me. I still enjoy the spankings, and the lighter bondage and such, but it really is the seduction and domindation of me mentally that I CRAVE....

I am glad someone else understands!!

I shall write more soon...thanks again for sharing!

 

[Jerrymac33]

Mistress often has me watch her with much smaller lovers--The following happens only when she is with a lover smaller than me.

She likes to get doggie style and I have to stand next to her with my balls in her hand. Every once in a while she hurts me. I of course, must stand silently and still. She insists there is a pattern, or a trigger, but I haven't figured it out yet, even though there have been 8 sessions when this has happened.

It's a mind fuck because I am standing there watching some little prick fuck her while I watch (knowing I will clean both of them up afterwards), not knowing when or if I'll have my balls crushed.

She insists that if I pay attention, I'll know when it's coming.

 

[MasterNico]

I have a friend that I need to get posting here. He pulled one once that he told me about. He has a little, uh, hobby? He has studied up on serial killers. While doing knife play during he and his submissives first play encounter, he didn't speak, except to run down the list of killers, their victims, and their methods. From what she tells me, halfway thru, she wasn't completely sure she was getting untied, ever.

I wish I could have been there for that one.

 

[Phoenix Stone]

Some of the mindplay categories might be: Fear, Humiliation and Control. Are there others? Are there some forms of bdsm type play that can only be done mentally? Is it a way to stretch the boundaries? Is anyone else interested in the How and What of mindplay, as opposed to the scenarios (which will differ so much according to what effects we are trying to achieve?) Again, not an attempt to hijack. If there is interest, I'll start a new thread. Hoping to get a handle on this whole independent Area we don't even have an agreed upon name for, yet. Mindplay, anyone?

Interesting to me that we all have such different effects we are working to create -- mirroring the physical play many do, yet possibly allowing us to take it further. (For instance, Nico and others can take Fear Play further, while doing less visible damage.) Humiliation is, I think, more of a purely mental game anyway (in some sense we decide to be humiliated, don't we, in a way that is different from fear, which has a more direct biological root.) And for me, the issue is something closer to Control, ie. who has the control over me. I love it when my dh moves my arm thru a tennis swing, and I love it when he grabs my wrists or tells me to suck him off. But it's not, for me, about fear or anger. That's becoming clearer as we try different things.

Found something on one of those bdsm lists (that never seem to have much that moves me): do you like the feeling of being owned? Yes, that's hits that same Mindplay button I'm trying to tickle. As does having him tell me to do things that I Want to do but am ashamed to admit, and then him telling me how much he Knows I love it. Another is him telling me that he knows how much I love him and want to Serve him -- then giving me a command. Maybe even saying something like, 'you love me so much you'd do anything I wanted in bed, wouldn't you?' Which is true, I suppose, though I'd hate to admit it -- even things I find repellent I'd do for him.

Another part of it, is things that imply that he's in my head in some way. Kind of a boundaries thing. And after being married so many years I suppose in some ways he is. Going deeper with my particular kink is going to be different than many on this board, I suspect -- but there's nowhere else that deals with control-related stuff and boundary-breaking or crossing (even mental ones) other than bdsm.

 

[Phoenix Stone]

A recent scenario that I read, that did it for me. (And I don't know what exactly the mindplay issue is in this one that gets me going but wish I did and will try to figure it out):

Someone on another thread, who is pretty new to this stuff, mentioned a first meeting with a potential dom. He said lots of stuff in the meeting that made her squirm in embarrassment, while being turned on -- and she could see that he knew what he was doing, and was enjoying doing that to her. And she could see that he knew she knew that he knew. Iykwim.

Love that stuff. It wasn't just the slight shame and embarrassment the newbie wanna-be subbie was feeling, it was more the idea that he was getting to her (controlling her? going over her boundaries just a little? 'outing' or exposing her?) that got to me. Ok, so it's subtle but doesn't it seem like there's some sort of bdsm factor at work here? (What would you call it?)

 

[Phoenix Stone]

Another, to bump this one back up.

James Spader on The Practice, has a very shy, repressed girlfriend who wears clothes that keep her very covered up. You get the sense that there is some dark secret there. The morning after they make love for the first time, he sees her across the kitchen bundled up, as usual, in a heavy robe. From across the room he tells her to undo the robe. She looks stunned, then she ever so slowly, with an excruciating look in her eyes of -- i don't know what exactly -- undoes the robe.
You see her watching him as he just looks at her. Then he tells her to take off the robe. It drops to the floor. She stands, as if at attention, while he just looks. And looks.
Then he nods and says something like, 'you may get dressed now.'

Wish I could convey how hot, and how d/s it was.

 

[s'lara]

The art of the mf is so intriguing i think, because it does take some skill, knowledge of your partner and creativity to pull off an effective one.

i find the topic popping up every now and then when Someone manages to pull off a good one or if someone was on the receiving end of a mf and are still feeling the after affects. Not all mf's involve manipulation of the senses ... some mf's are comprised of the twisting of your mind beyond any physical threat or discomfort. Those are ... well, they are simply harsh, brutal and alluring in their own right.

i enjoyed (receiving) them and found mf's cruel and sadistic on a whole other level. i guess that is their appeal to some ... the deliberate act of making someone feel fear, anger, shame, etc. all without having to exert more power than what is required to use some imagination and let the beast loose. Caution to those practicing mf's -- what is enjoyable and fun to you might have long lasting effects on the sub. Same to those sub's eager to ride the mf rollercoaster ... some things are not easily forgotten or even enjoyable. Best of luck to all.

lara