What to wear for first MMF?

Kerali

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First 3-some in the planning stage. Now the important question - what to wear?? Husband, me, good friend - we've been in simmer stage for couple of years. Lots of trust there but also some built-in shyness. Good body but not perfect - mature. Basically MILF with brains and class :).

Suggestions???
 
Shortish skirt. Stockings. Thong. Tight blouse and not buttonned up at much as it should be. Hope it goes well :)
 
First 3-some in the planning stage. Now the important question - what to wear?? Husband, me, good friend - we've been in simmer stage for couple of years. Lots of trust there but also some built-in shyness. Good body but not perfect - mature. Basically MILF with brains and class :).

Suggestions???

Red nail polish, nothing else.
 
Thinking maybe a sheer blouse w sexy bra, sexy shorts w thong under, and high heeled stripper sandals.

Jewelry or no jewelry, guys?
 
Hmmmmm that would certainly work I think, or you could post a photo for a seal of approval? ;)

Might just have to do that, Coffee. The thought of posting might just add even more enjoyment to the evening, although I'm not sure how I could go much higher :).
 
First 3-some in the planning stage. Now the important question - what to wear?? Husband, me, good friend - we've been in simmer stage for couple of years. Lots of trust there but also some built-in shyness. Good body but not perfect - mature. Basically MILF with brains and class :).

Suggestions???

Let your man be your best guide. Without us seeing a photo of you, he may have a good opinion on your best features! :D

Bright red nail polish on well manicured fingers and toes are a must. A little black dress that shows off your figure with strappy stiletto sandals is a good combination. A black g-string and lace bra are ideal discoveries for later... Freshly groomed lady areas are also a given.

Black hold up stockings with a seam can cause an unwarranted distraction if you have pretty feet and legs, so wear court shoe style stilettos if you go with stockings. The stockings can be kept on throughout much of the meeting, as men love a woman naked except for stockings! :)

Dressing like a porn star is not necessarily the way forward. Whatever would turn on your man will turn on his friend!
 
Extra ummm ............ lipstick :kiss: and perhaps something extra sexy like a garter and stocking set ;) !!

Good luck and enjoy !! Update us all if possible !?!?!
 
Let your man be your best guide. Without us seeing a photo of you, he may have a good opinion on your best features! :D

Bright red nail polish on well manicured fingers and toes are a must. A little black dress that shows off your figure with strappy stiletto sandals is a good combination. A black g-string and lace bra are ideal discoveries for later... Freshly groomed lady areas are also a given.

Dressing like a porn star is not necessarily the way forward. Whatever would turn on your man will turn on his friend!

Lol - good ideas and I will tell him you said I should get his input. :) he would tell you my best assets are breasts, ass, smile, eyes, and brain - although I don't know what order he'd put them in. I'll have to ask him.

You guys are making me feel very much more confident abt this - thanks and keep the comments, um, coming. :).

If you go to my thread on Poll for men - avatar desires - you'll see a pic. I seem to recall that it's frowned upon to post the same pic in multiple threads. And while I like many things, being frowned upon is not one! ;)
 
Ha. Just shared my list with my husband (as he joined me for my hot bath), an he said "order would be ... mind, breasts, eyes, ass, and then have to add breasts again".
So there you go.

Any my apologies for posting so much about myself - trying to hit my century posts mark :).
 
Tested outfit

Tested an outfit last night with husband - we went with more of a casual sexy hanging around the house look - tank top with sexy bra, matching thong under sexy shorts, and barefoot. Good rear view, good front view, and easy access without looking trashy. Seemed to be pretty effective last night!

Thanks for the input everyone. :)
 
Shopping

And just for the record, shopping for outfits while thinking of input from all of you guys, texting with my husband, and imagining the various scenarios for each option - HOT. I highly recommend it!!
 
Tested an outfit last night with husband - we went with more of a casual sexy hanging around the house look - tank top with sexy bra, matching thong under sexy shorts, and barefoot. Good rear view, good front view, and easy access without looking trashy. Seemed to be pretty effective last night!

Thanks for the input everyone. :)

Good luck whenever it takes place. I hope we will get to hear at least a bit about it.

Not wanting you to change your mind but the bra in your proposed AV looks wonderful and, with a silky blouse of matching colour, would suit your purpose down to the ground. I would love to slowly remove that combination and I would make sure you knew how appreciative I was. ;)
 
And just for the record, shopping for outfits while thinking of input from all of you guys, texting with my husband, and imagining the various scenarios for each option - HOT. I highly recommend it!!

Even better is ...... trying on the various outfits , taking selfie pictures and sharing ;) !!!

I do this all the time with my husband :) it eases the pain for him when the credit card bill comes haaa !?!?!?
 
Good luck whenever it takes place. I hope we will get to hear at least a bit about it.

Not wanting you to change your mind but the bra in your proposed AV looks wonderful and, with a silky blouse of matching colour, would suit your purpose down to the ground. I would love to slowly remove that combination and I would make sure you knew how appreciative I was. ;)

That is exactly the bra I have in mind to wear. :) Will have to look for a matching blouse for future uses - maybe combine with the business suit idea for my work meetings in Chicago next week. No one will know that you guys are all there with me inside my head - hope I can keep my mind on my speech! :)

Elaine, love that suggestion of selfies from the dressing room. Guess I'm showing how new to this I am :).
 
That is exactly the bra I have in mind to wear. :) Will have to look for a matching blouse for future uses - maybe combine with the business suit idea for my work meetings in Chicago next week. No one will know that you guys are all there with me inside my head - hope I can keep my mind on my speech! :)

Elaine, love that suggestion of selfies from the dressing room. Guess I'm showing how new to this I am :).

I love that you are obviously looking forward to this so much. Never having been in the equivalent position, I can't imagine what the anticipation must feel like.
 
To me , a slip is the sexiest thing any woman can wear. Good luck,relax and have a great time.
 
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