What to do?

[deanashtonfc]

Hey all, I've not posted much but I read the forums alot!

I've got a slight problem, I'm in a "straight" relationship with a girl who I adore and love and we've been going out for 2 and a half years.
Shes totally cool about me being bisexual I've not hide this fact from her and she knows about me sleeping with guys in my past.

but the problem is she says shes totally cool with it all, and she encourages me to look at gay porn etc etc, and shes even said "you can have sex with guys, just as long as you tell me" she thinks this is ok as its something she cannot give me, Dildos can only do so much!

she says she would dump me if I slept with a girl, but a guy is fine?

The problem is, if i find a guy and tell her im sure she'll react badly and it'll affect our relationship big time.

so recently I've slept with a guy but never told her and its eating me up inside.
I don't find sex with guys "loving" its purely just raw sex, but Sex with her is amazing and I do feel like im making love to her, and I don't ever want to lose her.

but I cannot stop my craving for cock action, when I masturbate is just all about guys and their cocks fucking me and cumming in me and on me etc etc,

do i give up the guy sex? or be honest with her?

I'm stuck in what to do

any advice would be great

 

[Missouribiguy]

Well, you should tell her. Don't lie about what you are. That's just stupid.

She might get angry with you, but just stay rational.

 

[webshooter69]

Dean, it sounds like you need to bring a guy back to share with her. Lots of women like to watch two guys, as if reders here don't know that already. Talk to her about that and maybe it will make your relationship stronger. At least she will know you aren't cheating on her.

 

[DerelictionOfSanity]

Seriously, if she's been encouraging the gay porn and said that you can have sex with guys if you tell her, I'd be inclined to think that she would like to be told.

If anything, I'd say (from what you wrote) that she's more likely to be angry that you didn't tell her sooner than angry that you slept with a guy.

 

[akade]

i agree with the rest

and if you are truly in love with the girl and see her in your future, you have to admit to her and yourself there are gonna be more men....might as well get it out now and see the reaction......over the long term it could be unbearable...oh what a tangled web we weave.....

 

[deanashtonfc]

Thanks a lot you guys.

I think I'm going to tell her I want to get with men and then actually tell her when I'm next going to see a guy.

if she gets all weird about it, I guess its better to know sooner rather than later.

Thanks again

 

[Kellandi]

I told my gal about my experimenting when I was younger and now she wants to watch and feed me a big cock. I also want to see her completely dominated and to touch him while he takes her. Honesty!!!!!!