What should I do?

[rainyguy]

I'm looking for honest opinions and thoughts. I am 29 years old, male and a virgin. I never planned it out to be a virgin at this age but as time went on i found myself a little reluctant and if it is from shyness or fear, I don't know but i'm curious if it is silly to think I am going to save myself for my wife. At this point i am of the opinion that I have waited this long why shouldn't I wait until marriage. And at the same time I am thinking that i'm 29 and never have had sex and so I have a little conflict inside of me. I am curious to know if I keep waiting, will it just be stranger or more awkward for a woman to accept a man who has saved himself for marriage or not. Oh and if you are wondering, no, this is not some religious belief that i'm holding near and ear to my heart, but rather just a personal choice and now i'm wondering if maybe i shouldn't question my choice.

 

[College_geek]

I'm one of the seemingly few people who want to wait till marriage for sex, so I'm biased. However, most people whom I tell this will jokingly say "where's the fun in that?", but then they'll say "but that's cool, though", so I think most people respect it. Whether or not the average woman would be turned off by it or not, I don't know, but I'm posting just to say that it's nice to know that there's someone else out there who's considering it (even if it was planned out in the beginning).

 

[LATIN8]

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Check this out. It's your life and you gotta follow the ultimate voice in your head. Your conscience or mind or whatever you want to call it is wiser than you could ever be. It's a universal law that things are constantly changing. Just because you made your mind up once doesn't mean that you can't change it. I bet if Selma Hayak was on her fucken knees in front of you stroking your cock you'd make up your mind real quick. Religions and society want to put labels on everything fuck that. You just be true to yourself and go with whatever you feel. And to be honest women are changing in this day and age. They are becoming more take charge. Alot of them just use men for dick just like men use women for pussy. You may find that one women who wanted to wait like you, or you may find a woman that's gonna end up fucking Tyrone up the street cuz you ain't hittin it right. Just go with what you feel, and don't ever live in regret. Just support your decision.

 

[rainyguy]

Re: Check this out

. I bet if Selma Hayak was on her fucken knees in front of you stroking your cock you'd make up your mind real quick.

Thanks! You had some really good things to say, but there is one thing i might take question with. she isn't really my type. but of course i don't know her.