What should I do?

[girl_of_gor]

I have never posted here before, I came to this forum simply to see if there was any threads recommending good bdsm stories. Seriously why is there no such thread?

I was until quite recently in a 7 year relationship. Honestly he was the nicest, gawd just probably the best man any woman could hope to be with. He was my best friend and I was happy for a long time. When we met I was very innocent, I had had few sexual experiences, none of which were particularly satisfying. I had bdsm fantasies but I denied them, I thought they were wrong. So I didn't tell him what I was into for a long time, not until I started to realise that there was nothing wrong with them. I started to crave such experiences but he never seemed too into it, not that he didnt try. Around this time we were also having other relationship problems which I think we could have got over, in the end I admit I did end it because of the sex.

I jumped into a relationship with someone else actually, he was lovely, sweet and loving and my gawd so sexy, never have I had sex like it. And I loved him, or I thought I did but I came to realise that the way he wanted to live his every day life wasnt the way I wanted to. And I started to realise how perfect the relationship with my ex was. I regretted leaving him. Now I am seriously considering getting back together with him but the sex issue does worry me. Especially after finally experiencing sex like that, I wonder could I really do without it? I don't know.

 

[Orevain]

Sadly it's most likely neither of them are right for you in their current state. I give advice as if it were me. Your old boyfriend knew what you wanted. I might ask to go out with him and give him one last chance to see if he can change. Tell him you wanted him to let go, to fuck you like the slut you craved to be. To use you like a fuck toy and not stop till you both collapsed in a pool of your own cum and sweat.

If he can't show you that night you drop them both and move on. There is someone who can give you both aspects of your needs.

Most "Good Guys" have a dark layer it's just been repressed since its emergence. By society and peer pressure. Maybe direct him to some stories you like on lit. If all else fails and you live in Cali, pm me.

 

[BritChap]

It depends what he was (wasn't) doing in bed. You left him because you weren't getting enough, or the right type, of sex, and now you're considering going back to him because someone else pushed your buttons. What makes you think your ex will be able to do the same?

Did you talk to your ex about the sex problem at all?

 

[eric60red]

girl_of_gor you said "I have never posted here before, I came to this forum simply to see if there was any threads recommending good bdsm stories. Seriously why is there no such thread?"

Because perhaps all BDSM Stories are good. If you want a list it can be arranged.

 

[openminded1967]

*****

 

[gr8one23]

oh my gawd...it's nice that you realized that, but be careful what you wish for! Communication lady, that's the key!