what really turns you OFF?

[sinnamongyrl]

Do you have a deal breaker?Like maybe you really liked this guy/girl and this happened and you really did not like them anymore or you were already to GO and,,,,,,things like crudeness,selfishness,bad breath,,etc,,,,,,,,,,what could make you not want to be or sleep with someone else?........I HATE BAD BREATH,,ughhhh,,,,,

 

[curiousinmich]

bad breath

a bad kisser

a lack of intelligence

a lack of a sense of humor

 

[sinnamongyrl]

i agree with the bad kisser,My 9th grade boyfriend was and still he is the most beautiful male i have seen in my entire life,,and he was mINE,,ahhahahha,,,,,,just plain freakin; AMAZINGLY HOT,,,,,,but was a lousy kisser,,UGH,,what a pity......

 

[aka Lusty]

The worst offense to me is poor personal hygiene. Greasy hair, dirty clothing, dirty fingernails, bad breath, bad teeth..Dirtiness of any sort is a definite dealbreaker.

 

[Bishop11]

I can't stand.....

My biggest turn-off is girls that are DRAMA-QUEENS. I can't stand whiny me myself and I drama queens. Nothing worse than that. I don't care whether she looks like Elizabeth Hurley or Jessica Alba or Diane Lane.... I'd prefer a gal down to earth and knows what's real. I don't need a gal who cries, whines, bitches and moans about her little life when there are hungry children in this world.

Sorry, that question hit a cord.

 

[domain]

i agee, drama queens, and also bad heigine (sp?), big turnoffs for me

 

[swjunckie]

Hmmmm

I'd say:

People having constant problems,

not being able to cum by any other means than mechanical,

people who don't take care of themselves,

someone who constantly talks during sex,

Bad kissers. repeat BAD KISSERS (I once had a girl just just shove a slobbery tongue into my mouth...),

someone who can only cum in one position,

someone who has to use lubircant,

people who always have to do it in the dark (what the hell are you hiding?),

people who talk a good night, but are like sacks of potatoes,

no imagination,

no motivation.

Probably more...

 

[Sensual Man 05]

bad breath and being mean are turn offs to me

 

[Bridget69]

-Poor hygiene
-Someone who's conceited and keeps bragging about himself
-Someone who smokes or uses drugs

 

[kinky shy girl]

bad hygiene...violent temper...low self esteem

 

[terry4u9]

Turn offs: Bad hygeine,blood,kids,drugs,scat

Many of the things others have said too but above are the worst. Hey i like kids fine just not in my bed. Thats what I mean.

 

[comtec2005]

Do you have a deal breaker?Like maybe you really liked this guy/girl and this happened and you really did not like them anymore or you were already to GO and,,,,,,things like crudeness,selfishness,bad breath,,etc,,,,,,,,,,what could make you not want to be or sleep with someone else?........I HATE BAD BREATH,,ughhhh,,,,,

I would have to say:

1. Bad hygene
2. Pathological liar
3. No concept of the English language, ie. sounds like an idiot

 

[ewopper]

Do you have a deal breaker?Like maybe you really liked this guy/girl and this happened and you really did not like them anymore or you were already to GO and,,,,,,things like crudeness,selfishness,bad breath,,etc,,,,,,,,,,what could make you not want to be or sleep with someone else?........I HATE BAD BREATH,,ughhhh,,,,,

Her gf or family member coming over and stayiing, talking about nohing

 

[SxyTiger1116]

Turn Offs: Bad teeth are huge with me, bad grammer-It makes me cringe, people that criticize everyone else around them

 

[woodcarverII]

people who chew with thier mouths open or smack while they chew.

 

[snowhugs]

1. bad hygene
2. leaving on of socks in bed
3. Liars
4. Leaving the toilet seat up
5. A partner that would rather watch porn then share it and actually do the deed lol

 

[pellso27]

Waiting

Of any kind, just waiting...It's the hardest part

 

[Blushing Bottom]

One can easily be turned off by this thing or that.
I hate men who let women push them around!
Not men with a woman for a boss but men who live with shrews or slobs and do nothing about it

 

[stageleft]

Yuk!!!

snogging a smoker....its so vile & horrible it makes me want to gag..its like tasting the bottom of a dirty old ash tray...never again.

 

[kickboxqueen]

I can stand when someone makes "mmm" noises while they're kissing, it happened to me once, i laughed the whole time.. there goes my mood!

 

[Sensual Man 05]

I can stand when someone makes "mmm" noises while they're kissing, it happened to me once, i laughed the whole time.. there goes my mood!

lol that made me laugh!

 

[babydoll2u]

dishonesty
deceit
bad hygeine
bad kisser

 

[mark05]

Sorry

Turn Offs: Bad teeth are huge with me, bad grammer-It makes me cringe, people that criticize everyone else around them

I hate to be critical but..... I believe it's grammAr

 

[pinkstarfish]

bad tempers +

bad tippers +

bad attitudes +

bad manners +

= loser

 

[Eilan]

not being able to cum by any other means than mechanical

When you say "mechanical," do you mean mechanical as in vibrator? Do you reject the use of ANY type of manual stimulation?

You DO realize that there are a lot (and I mean a LOT) of women out there who CAN'T orgasm just through penile penetration/thrusting? You'd reject a woman for something that isn't necessarily her fault?

My biggest turnoff is someone who assumes that he knows what I like and isn't open to suggestions/communication.

Oh, and facial hair. Stubble is fine. Body hair is fine. Facial hair is a no-no.