What 'r some things that will get a Dom....

[katalynn]

This is a question mostly for the Masters. I am curious to know what are some of the things, no matter how little they are, that your sub does that just really gets you so hot and bothered, that you can't stand it anymore. In some ways I'm also looking for different Ideas of pleasing... more like surprising .. M'Lord, I know what turns him on and simple things, but if there's something different that you'd be willing to share. Much would be appreciated.. After the past the few months of some unfortunate mishap, he seriously deserves a really nice surprise.

 

[BiBunny]

Standard canned answer: It depends on the person. Talk to him.

My answer for my own man? He carries bunches of tension in his feet and lower legs. He likes for me to sit in the floor and massage them while he sits on the couch and watches TV. When I kiss, lick, and suck on his toes, I can usually tear him away from whatever he's watching.

For me? Kind of the same thing. I carry all my tension between the base of my skull and the bottoms of my shoulder blades. When he (or a sub I play with) rubs my neck, shoulders, and upper back, I'm in Heaven. My collarbones are an extreme horn-inducing spot for me, so when they're played with in the midst of a massage, I can usually be persuaded to play.

 

[katalynn]

Well, if I talk to him about it.. it wouldn't be much of a surprise.
I guess what I'm asking is, is for things that your sub has done for you out of the ordinary. A total shocker, but something that you've obviously enjoyed.

 

[katalynn]

I'm not looking to be like a copy cat, and take someone else's idea for my own. Just looking to an idea from other ideas, put something together from that in my own unique way. I'm just having problems with coming up with some good thoughts.

I know my Master well enough to know what he likes and doesn't like. I'm not that naive, hell I've been with him for 3-4 yrs off and on now. (Long story). Now that I'm officially with him, and the recent events are dealt with, I just want to really surprise him with something unique. He has been through a lot, just as I have been. Been completely understanding and there for me the whole time. He deserves something special. That's all I'm asking for, just would like a few fun/sexy Ideas that I can make something happen out of.

 

[RawHumor]

Obviously it depends (but you knew that already)... things that you could try:

• As you're servicing his cock and balls with your mouth, work your face around to his ass, and tease his ass with your tongue.
• If you're really in a good place together, you could try putting on a show for him with another girl (if you're bisexual)
• Non-sexual things can be nice too - bake him home made chocolate chip cookies

I'm not sure how helpful these tips are, but I figured I'd chime in a bit.

 

[WriterDom]

I don't know. Maybe a surprise trip to somewhere you both have never been?
Or to somewhere that is special to your relationship.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

One thing that would tear up most men, vanilla or otherwise..
Go to a nice restaurant for dinner.. wear a nice cocktail dress/skirt, excuse yourself to the ladies room. When you come back, discreetly present him with your panties that you just removed.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I'm getting a mixed message as in the OP you ask for something to get him hot and bothered, but in the rest it seems you just want to do something nice for him that you don't usually do.....both are completely different areas with different reactions and emotions.

Catalina

 

[PrimalGirl]

Hmmm..what about some nice sexy picures. That will be something that will last and constantly bring a smile to his face

 

[minx1]

Yeah my ex Master loved pics or a letter expressing my feelings or a story.

One of the things he loved most I think was a vid I did for him, funnily enough after he released me. A kinda thankyou video......didn't get him hot, well I don't think it did lol, but I know it meant a lot to him.

 

[naxalite0906]

Picking up ideas by listening to what they say. I dont mean that they will drop hints, but you will learn more about what turns them on and what doesnt and doing something based on that not only shows you listen, but also that you want to please and you are trying your best to do it. That is one thing that will always make me smile anyway

 

[myinnerslut]

things ive done for A just becuase i wanted to do something for him:

NICE
~baked him cookies (hand deliveered when we were together, mailed to him overnight when we were LDR)
~learned how to give proper massages, complete with oils, lighting, and music
~picked out little presents for him from crafts fairs that ive been to
~sent him a package full of waterguns, playdough, airhorns, coloringbooks, stickers, etc with a note that said "let your inner child come out to play"

SEXY
~took a set of sexy pictures for him
~wrote him an erotic story (the one i have posted on lit is one of the ones i wrote for him)
~woke him up with my mouth around his cock
~sent him a long letter with sexy memories of things we've done

 

[naxalite0906]

things ive done for A just becuase i wanted to do something for him:

NICE
~baked him cookies (hand deliveered when we were together, mailed to him overnight when we were LDR)
~learned how to give proper massages, complete with oils, lighting, and music
~picked out little presents for him from crafts fairs that ive been to
~sent him a package full of waterguns, playdough, airhorns, coloringbooks, stickers, etc with a note that said "let your inner child come out to play"

SEXY
~took a set of sexy pictures for him
~wrote him an erotic story (the one i have posted on lit is one of the ones i wrote for him)
~woke him up with my mouth around his cock
~sent him a long letter with sexy memories of things we've done

It isn't just A that likes things like that He is very lucky to have you MIS.. I look forward to getting things like this from someone in the future.

 

[myinnerslut]

It isn't just A that likes things like that He is very lucky to have you MIS.. I look forward to getting things like this from someone in the future.

thank you, i will relay the compliment to him

 

[Softouch911]

I know my Master well enough to know what he likes and doesn't like. I'm not that naive, hell I've been with him for 3-4 yrs off and on now. (Long story). Now that I'm officially with him, and the recent events are dealt with, I just want to really surprise him with something unique. He has been through a lot, just as I have been. Been completely understanding and there for me the whole time. He deserves something special. That's all I'm asking for, just would like a few fun/sexy Ideas that I can make something happen out of.

I'm wondering if you want something "nice" (like Cat asks), sexy (as others think), or related to your power exchange (as I took the question) -- which of course the others could be, but ...

what floats my boat is obedience and service, especially when I don't have to ask for it but she seems to read my mind or anticipate a desire. The other night, a very simple thing, I picked up my coffee cup as if to take a sip but it was empty. I was writing so I just put it down. No reason she would notice that gesture and I said nothing, but she picked it up and filled the cup and brought it without any thought at all.

Made my head buzz.

Sexual example -- she is tired and irritated from school/work and I am frustrated over something. I'm perfectly prepared to give her space, as I'm not of a mind to be sympathetic ... instead of that, she requests to massage my back. She knows my head and my body, and it doesn't take long before ....

I am blown away by her ability and enthusiastic willingness to anticipate my needs and desires.

Does that help?

Respectfully,
(Prof.) Joe

 

[katalynn]

I guess Sadly I have done a poor job at asking what I'm trying to gain out of this whole question. The more I think about it, it really isn't that easy to describe I suppose.

It is both assumptions from what you are all thinking. I'm looking to do something special, yet in the sexiest way possible.

What I'm kind of thinking of doing is, (Once we get rid of a few more things...) Spreading a blanket on the floor, candles all around me, maybe even some roses in between the candles. Blindfolded, while on my knees, head bowed, waiting patiently for my Master to come home from work. But I was looking for something a little extra to add to that. This thought came today, or I would have mentioned earlier.

Anyway, That's pretty much what I was trying to get at. Obviously failed in the attempt. Hope this explains it a little more.... Sorry for all the confusion. Hope you can forgive me.

 

[Netzach]

I will say that your idea rocks.

While for some people it would be really presumptuous to initiate a scene like that blah blah blah - I think MOST humans with and without penises like to be seduced. I feel seduced when my boy signals to me "let's play" in some manner - it's a huge turn on.

 

[LadyAria]

He bathes me.

I just sit still as he tends to me from undressing, scrubbing, washing hair and then dresses me, blows out/brushes my hair and redresses me. I enjoy the pampering. Oral service underwater is nice as well.

 

[katalynn]

Thnx

That's the kind of things I was looking for though. Like you came home one day to find your sub tied to the bed (I can do this myself hehe), or just some totally off the wall surprise. Or like candle lit dining room and your sub is on the table, being your welcome home dessert.

All in all, that's where I was trying to get at with the question. I know, I know, could have just said that, but it's been a long week, couldn't think of how to describe what I was asking.

 

[Xelebes]

A bottle of vodka and a jug of water.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Not that I have any issues with katalynn wanting to do something special and sexy and hot for her Dom, but that would just be a terrible thing to do with me.

I really, REALLY hate surprises. The absolute quickest, surest, gay-ron-teed way to piss me off is to try to surprise me.

I don't give a rat's rear end what the intent is, the fact that someone tried to hide something from me will trigger a totally unreasoning rage within me.

Yes, I realize that's not "normal".

No, I have no idea why that is. Something must of happened to me when I was young though, because it's happened as long as I can remember. Give me gifts at Christmas, Father's Day and my b'day... any other time they are liable to get thrown across the room or against the floor...

But trust me, it happens. In 46 years I've had 2, count them people, it's only TWO, surprise parties that did not trigger the rage response, a couple of them I came damn near violence before I got myself under control. I've hurt feelings, ruined friendships, one romance, and numerous occassions because someone decided that they wanted to "surprise Geoff".

Six words of advice when it comes to Geoff and surprises.

Don't even fucking think about it. It's not funny or fun.

Later I will regret the outburst, I know it's not normal, I know that the person trying to surprise me was wanting to do something nice, but the rage happens anyway. I'm talking Incredible Hulk, Jeckyll & Hyde kinda flip out. And it's the only thing that triggers that reaction now. Being called by my first name used to trigger it also, but after working at my current job 3 years I only get irritated. Even my Social Security Card is First Initial, Geoffrey Lastname... But my employer's human resources programs ONLY recognize First Name, Middle Initial, Last Name format... and like a total moron I actually filled out my paper work that way.

But not so the surprises. They still make me get very, very ugly.

 

[BiBunny]

I really, REALLY hate surprises. The absolute quickest, surest, gay-ron-teed way to piss me off is to try to surprise me.

I don't give a rat's rear end what the intent is, the fact that someone tried to hide something from me will trigger a totally unreasoning rage within me.

Yes, I realize that's not "normal".

No, I have no idea why that is. Something must of happened to me when I was young though, because it's happened as long as I can remember. Give me gifts at Christmas, Father's Day and my b'day... any other time they are liable to get thrown across the room or against the floor...

But trust me, it happens. In 46 years I've had 2, count them people, it's only TWO, surprise parties that did not trigger the rage response, a couple of them I came damn near violence before I got myself under control. I've hurt feelings, ruined friendships, one romance, and numerous occassions because someone decided that they wanted to "surprise Geoff".

Six words of advice when it comes to Geoff and surprises.

Don't even fucking think about it. It's not funny or fun.

Later I will regret the outburst, I know it's not normal, I know that the person trying to surprise me was wanting to do something nice, but the rage happens anyway. I'm talking Incredible Hulk, Jeckyll & Hyde kinda flip out. And it's the only thing that triggers that reaction now. Being called by my first name used to trigger it also, but after working at my current job 3 years I only get irritated. Even my Social Security Card is First Initial, Geoffrey Lastname... But my employer's human resources programs ONLY recognize First Name, Middle Initial, Last Name format... and like a total moron I actually filled out my paper work that way.

But not so the surprises. They still make me get very, very ugly.

Poor EG. I love surprises. If someone wants to surprise you and you get wind of it before it happens, can you just say, "I know a little Bunny in Alabama who just LOVES surprises?"

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Poor EG. I love surprises. If someone wants to surprise you and you get wind of it before it happens, can you just say, "I know a little Bunny in Alabama who just LOVES surprises?"

It's really weird, Bunny... I like giving people surprises. It makes me feel good to see their eyes light up, to see that smile of delight. I KNOW, absolutely KNOW that when someone wants to surprise me they are wanting to do something nice for me. But all I can think about is SMASHBREAKHURTDESTROYTEARKILL for 30 seconds to a couple of minutes... It's terribly sad and frightening from THIS side of the reaction, it's positively terrifying for someone on the receiving end. I've never physically hurt someone, but there was one instance where I took a hammer to rather nice watch and pounded it flat... *sighs* Tossed a book out a window... snapped an old vinyl LP into pieces... threw a nice crystal goblet against a brick wall...

Yes, it's insane and I know it. *shrugs* Everyone gets warned off now, it doesn't happen often.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Poor EG. I love surprises. If someone wants to surprise you and you get wind of it before it happens, can you just say, "I know a little Bunny in Alabama who just LOVES surprises?"

You left out /attention whore.

 

[Netzach]

Not that I have any issues with katalynn wanting to do something special and sexy and hot for her Dom, but that would just be a terrible thing to do with me.

I really, REALLY hate surprises. The absolute quickest, surest, gay-ron-teed way to piss me off is to try to surprise me.

I don't give a rat's rear end what the intent is, the fact that someone tried to hide something from me will trigger a totally unreasoning rage within me.

Yes, I realize that's not "normal".

No, I have no idea why that is. Something must of happened to me when I was young though, because it's happened as long as I can remember. Give me gifts at Christmas, Father's Day and my b'day... any other time they are liable to get thrown across the room or against the floor...

But trust me, it happens. In 46 years I've had 2, count them people, it's only TWO, surprise parties that did not trigger the rage response, a couple of them I came damn near violence before I got myself under control. I've hurt feelings, ruined friendships, one romance, and numerous occassions because someone decided that they wanted to "surprise Geoff".

Six words of advice when it comes to Geoff and surprises.

Don't even fucking think about it. It's not funny or fun.

Later I will regret the outburst, I know it's not normal, I know that the person trying to surprise me was wanting to do something nice, but the rage happens anyway. I'm talking Incredible Hulk, Jeckyll & Hyde kinda flip out. And it's the only thing that triggers that reaction now. Being called by my first name used to trigger it also, but after working at my current job 3 years I only get irritated. Even my Social Security Card is First Initial, Geoffrey Lastname... But my employer's human resources programs ONLY recognize First Name, Middle Initial, Last Name format... and like a total moron I actually filled out my paper work that way.

But not so the surprises. They still make me get very, very ugly.

eeeeek! Note I said "most"

*makes mental note*