What non-sexual act

[daughter]

is sensual for you? May or may not be sexually arousing, but clearly sensual for you.

Feel free to discuss to the difference between sexual and sensual.

For me, it's having my lover shave my V. Highly sensual for me. Oddly, I don't particularly care for being hairlesss. Rather, it is the act itself and the sensations it creates that I enjoy.

Next.

Peace,

daughter

 

[lobito]

this is kind of sexual, but my Wife takes great joy when we're alone, which isn't much, in tearing her chicken off the bone, or seafood apart, with her teeth. Especially since she knows that the lobster eating scene in "Flashdance" is an oddly big turnon to me. As I'm sure it was meant to be.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

certin music.

it will give me goose bumps my body gets lighter and cools down then heats back up (i love that feeling) and my mind is lifted to a greater level.

 

[Summery]

Having my lover wash my hair is extremely sensual for me. It arouses and satisfies my senses.

I think sexual relates more to the act of something sexual, as sensual is more an overall feeling of our senses. I've always been curious how other's define the difference between the two.

 

[seXieleXie]

having my shoulders rubbed is very sensual... wakes up every nerve ending in my body...yum

 

[morninggirl5]

Having my hair washed is a sensual experience for me, too. There's nothing sexually arousing about it, most of the time, but having my hair washed can take me from super bitch mode to soft and cuddly in no time.

 

[april-wine]

I love having her run her fingers through my hair, washing it as well is great........

 

[PowerOfOne]

non sexual act

Being winked at, across a crowded room, by my lover or my potential lover. The eyes speak volumes.

 

[lobito]

Power, that's a great point! I want to officially change my answer.

I've told my wife many times that her eyes speak volumes to me. And I do often wink at people. Not always a sexual or sensual meaning involved, as I do it even with my neices, nephews, Step daughter and even sisters.

 

[SexuallyGifted]

Just holding her in my arms, everytime I do I hear music playing

 

[PowerOfOne]

Power, that's a great point! I want to officially change my answer.

I've told my wife many times that her eyes speak volumes to me. And I do often wink at people. Not always a sexual or sensual meaning involved, as I do it even with my neices, nephews, Step daughter and even sisters.

Of course, Lobito, I do the same thing. But a very receptive lover KNOWS when the wink is meant as a prelude to festivities that will occur later on between the two. I actually find myself getting hot, wet and so fidgety when this happens. I LOVE those peepers!!!

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

My answer looks lame now

 

[*ladylove*]

I find it very sensual when my hubby brushes my hair back from my face. I have wild hair that ends up in my eyes or across my cheek if I'm busy cleaning house or if I've just come in from outdoors. Before he starts speaking to me when we meet after a long day, he will simply run his fingers across my cheek and push my hair back so he can see my face. It sends shivers through my entire body.

 

[Rick DeVille]

Lying in bed, watching her put lipstick on

 

[bluntforcemama]

Leaning against him if I know he's behind me when we're not alone, feeling his arm wrap around my waist, pulling me closer to his body, his breath in my ear and his scent enveloping my senses.

 

[PowerOfOne]

My answer looks lame now

Your answer is not lame, Fly, everyone is different and has many turn on's and turn off's. Music is wonderfully erotic and sensual. I like your answer.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Your answer is not lame, Fly, everyone is different and has many turn on's and turn off's. Music is wonderfully erotic and sensual. I like your answer.

yes but my answer is the only one that don't envolve a second person lol.

 

[PowerOfOne]

yes but my answer is the only one that don't envolve a second person lol.

~laughing~ Fly, then music is the highest compliment to sensuality that one can make. If it makes you hot, then it is definitely a force to be reckoned with! I still do not think it was a lame answer.

 

[missy378]

for me

it is haveing my hands or feet rubbed.

 

[ksmybuttons]

Holding my hand.

When he takes my hand to cross the street, to get my attention, to just gather me closer. It is the connection.

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Whispers in my ear send shivers through me (guess that's the "sexual" choice!).

I agree with Fly that music affects my senses, and can enhance moments spent with your loved one. It also can heal your heart with memories of him when you are apart.

 

[Thumper]

Food for thought

Feeding each other finger foods...

You can always catch the tip of the finger with the lips. and tongue

Food has always been linked with mating and courtship, even in the primate kingdom. Male primates will offer food to initiate mating contact.

Even more...I think eating is the second most sensual thing a human does. Sex and love usually involve all five senses and in some deeper connections a sixth sense may be involved.
Sight...we all like to gaze upon our lover before during and after mating
Touch...Need I say more?
Hearing...I like listening to my lover
Taste...YaknowwhatImean..I love her taste.
Smell...and her scent.

Food is almost the same...only thing I think doesn't affect a good meal is hearing. Matter of fact if I can hear anyone chewing it sorta kills the mood.

Both acts are necessary for survival of the species hence they involve us sensually.

Now...feed me.

 

[Desdemona]

Holding hands

While basking in the afterglow.

 

[Camille]

Getting my hair washed.

Ok this is weird when I had a man doing whatever laundry was left at my place.

Wearing his shirt.

Cam

 

[April]

Many things are sensual, but not all of them have anything to do with sexuality.

Sitting in a chair outside in the shade on a warm summer day. The breeze comes up and caresses your skin, while the birds are making their customary riotous sound in the trees.

The smell of newly mown grass, and the frantic grapple with the tissue box. LOL

My favorite. A long, slow massage. So much can be communicated by the touch of your lover's hands along your back.

None of these are in and of themselves sexual, but they can be. Well, except for the grass thing.