What makes us tick

[submissivejennyuk]

Hi all,

Long time reader of this site, first time poster.

I've been reading through lots of stuff here and some of it was enough to make me blush, I don't know if I'm too tame to fit in here, certainly when it comes to some of the stuff I've read I'll not last long.

I just want to talk and explore my submissive side, no 24x7 slave stuff, no hard core pain or other what I would class as further stage things. I just want to talk with someone who wants to help me discover this side of me. I don't know if that is something that will go down well here, I hope so.

I can't do this all day everyday, I'm a working married mother, so time tends to be tight and obviously I value my privacy and absolutely have to keep some separation between this and the rest of my life.

Anyway if you feel like talking and helping me out and you might be open to something longer term if we fit please drop me a line.

I'm happy chatting here for now so if that's an issue then let's not start talking

Questions or comments welcome

J xx

 

[Mindfondler]

I wish you luck with your journey! You've already made your first few steps by identifying your need and starting to define what you do and don't want.

I'd like to reassure you that it's perfectly possible for you to fit in. There are plenty of kinksters who enjoy gentle, sensual play and who just partake as and when the whim takes them.

My wife and I joined our local BDSM community about nine months ago. We were a little apprehensive (yes, we had some visions of masked villains wielding whips in torture chambers!) but we actually found everyone extremely friendly and welcoming.

I'd encourage you to dip in a toe or two, ask any questions that occur to you, and don't worry about being new and hesitant. After all, everybody had to start at some time! Be wary, though, of anyone who tries to get you to conform to their way of doing things (unless it's safety-related). Unfortunately, there are some predators around who prey on naïve newbies. The best bet is to engage with a wide community, who are generally wise to such things.

Hope that helps a bit!

 

[submissivejennyuk]

Thanks very much to everyone who has written to me, I'm completely overwhelmed by the number of responses.

Some great, some crude and too many one liners, who knew I could be picky about these things xx

 

[SirSensual]

Welcome

There are plenty of helpful souls on here and as it appears you have already found out, some not so helpful. Have fun!