What makes a good phonesex partner

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[perks]

mutual interaction, just like with real sex.

 

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[PepperminTrish]

I had an answer all ready to go but Perky's AV just distracted the hell outta me!!!

 

[bknight2602]

I think that it is just like RL, you have to interact, say the things you would normally say. Make the person feel like you are there!

 

[perks]

I understand that some people get off more on just listening to the other person, tho?

yeah, that's why I don't talk to those people, unless I'm getting paid.

*laughing*

and thanks trish

 

[Guest]

 

[perks]

Free long distance

don't tease me.

 

[Shaq]

Most important I think is voice...imagery, seductivness and other elements don't mean ish if the woman I'm speaking to sounds like Tone Loc...after that it's just about arousal...if the person is a sexual person off the phone then that should manifest when we speak...

 

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[PepperminTrish]

yeah, that's why I don't talk to those people, unless I'm getting paid.

*laughing*

and thanks trish

You're welcome Perky.

 

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[Starblayde]

Ask JuicyLips

 

[bknight2602]

What happens if during the interaction...you want to point things in a different direction? Does that fuck up your partner's train of thought?

It depends on how you appraoch the change, listening is also a very good attribute for phone sex!

 

[perks]

What happens if during the interaction...you want to point things in a different direction? Does that fuck up your partner's train of thought?

just like in real life, you adapt.

If you want to change positions in the middle of sex, it's not so smooth all the time.

Sex is messy and awkward and intense and crazy, it's amazing that people get it right at all.

Phone sex is a bit harder, because you have to explain all those different parts to make it feel as real as possible. If only one person is doing the explaining, you might as well masturbate by yourself, because it's not about sharing the experience.

Either you're having sex, or you're using masturbation material.

You have to choose which you want.

 

[PepperminTrish]

What's made the experiences that I've had so good was just the fact that our phone sex was just a continuation of our online correspondences. I've been fortunate that the 'connection' continued to the phone for us. I don't think that it's one particular thing that makes it good, it's the whole experience for me.

 

[perks]

Tease, moi??

With THAT AV?? Who's teasing who?

<grinning> you made me do it.

 

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[april-wine]

Hmmmm Bratty wanna practice?????

 

[perks]

For me...it has always been about enjoying sex with someone else...not just getting your rocks off.

It also has always involved an emotional attachment...I have never been able to just phonesexfuck and run...does that make sense?

It's okay to have an emotional attachment. It's also just as fine not to have one.

 

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[perks]

I think this is a perspective I need to work on. I was never able to get into onenight stands...except on very rare occasions...

Mind you...I have never really had a fuckbuddy, either. I think I have been deprived.

don't force yourself to be someone you're not, bratgurl.